Chii chaunofanira kuita? Pane mitemo here?
Hungu, asi zvinosuruvarisa, ivo ndezve mitemo yegumbo. "Baba" nguva dzose yakashandiswa kutaura nevarume pasinei nemamiriro avo emhuri, asi zvakanyanya kuoma kana iwe uri kutaurira mukadzi mune zvigadziro kana zvebhizimisi.
Kubva Munhoroondo Yezvakaitika
Zvechokwadi, zita rokuti "madzimadzi" ndiro chikadzi che "baba," asi hazvina kumboshandiswa mazuva ano. Sezvakangoita "baba," "madzimambo" aimboonekwa sewanano-chimiro chisina kusimba. Yakashandiswa kureva vaviri vakaroora uye vasina kuroora vakadzi.
Zvadaro, pakupedzisira, "madzimambo" akaparadzaniswa kuva zvikamu zviviri zvakasiyana zvakasiyana-siyana kusiyanisa mararamiro emudzimai ari mubvunzo. "Miss" yakaratidza mukadzi asina kuroora kana "Mrs." - chirevo che "missus" -chinoshandiswa kune vakadzi vakaroorana. Vakadzi vakabva vadzokera kune imwe nguva shoma zvakare, vachigamuchira "Ms. " kubatanidza vose vakadzi vakuru kana pasinei nemamiriro ekuroorana.
Nguva Yokushandisa "Menzikadzi"
Irova izwi iri kubva mune zvebhizimisi rako rekare. Usamboshandisa izwi rokuti "mistress" kuti aone kana kuti ataure mukadzi muUnited States nokuti ane zvinoreva zvakasiyana nhasi kune zvaakaita makore akapfuura, kunyanya mubhizinesi rebhizimisi. "Madzimai" iye zvino anowanzoshandurwa kureva mukadzi ari kuita nehukama nemurume akaroorwa.
Nguva Yokushandisa Miss
Taurai vasikana vaduku se "vasipo." Iwe unogonawo kugadzirisa mukadzi asina kuroora kana "asina kuroorwa," asi vakadzi vakawanda vasina kuroorwa vanosarudza kutumidzwa sa "Ms." panzvimbo.
Bhiza rako rakanakisisa nderokuedza kuziva kuti mukadzi anoda sei kutariswa asati amuzivisa kana kumukwazisa. Kana iwe uchicherechedza iye achitaura nomumwe munhu, munhu iyeye angamuziva iye zvishoma zvakanaka uye anokwanisa kutaura kune zvaanoda. Kubvunza mubvunzo wakajeka kunogona kuchengetedza zuva.
Nguva Yokushandisa Ms.
Iwe unenge usingakwanise kuenda zvisina kururama ne "Ms." Vadzimai vakatanga kutanga kukurudzira izwi iri kuvakadzi sevamwe vevakadzi kune "Mr." shure kwema1950, uye yakawana steam muma1970. Inogona kushandiswa nemumwe mukadzi mukuru kana pasinei nemhuri yake, asi inoreva vakadzi vakuru, kwete vasikana. Zvinenge nguva dzose zviri nani kutadza kune rumwe rutivi rwe "Ms." kana usina chokwadi chemudiwa wechikadzi waanoda kana yehutano hwemhuri.
Nguva Yokushandisa Amai.
Izwi rokuti "Mai." yakatanga kutaura nezvevakadzi vakaroora, asi vamwe vakadzi vanosarudza kuchengeta "Mai." mumazita avo kunyange mushure mekurambana uye zvikurukuru kana vari chirikadzi. Hazvisi nyore kufunga kuti vakadzi vose vachishandisa "Mai ." sechinyorwa chine iye zvino kana mudzimai mupenyu, uye hazvina ngozi kutarisa rin'i rechichato.
Vakadzi vazhinji vanopfeka, asi havasi vose vanoita-kunyanya kana vakarambana, vakaparadzana, kana kuti chirikadzi. Asi ivo vachiri kuda kuda kutaurirwa se "Mai."
Nguva dzose shandisa chidimbu uye usataure "missus" kana uri kunyora musoro, asi shandisa "Mai" pane "Mai." muUnited Kingdom uye muchiBritain Chinyorwa-haisi kusanganisira nguva. Hapana mutemo wepelenzi ye "Mai." mumutauro weChirungu, kunyange zvazvo zvose "missus" uye "missis" zviri mumabhuku.
Endai kuMusiki
Kana iwe usina chokwadi kunyange nemitungamiri iyi mupfungwa uye kana zvingava zvakaipa kana zvisingaiti kubvunza mumwe munhu, regai mukadzi ari mubvunzo akuudze zvaanoda kana zvichibvira.
Paunotanga sumo, pomesa apo iwe unosvika kumusoro uye unoratidza nenzira iyo kuti anofanira kunzwa akasununguka kuzadza chinhu chisina chinhu. Iwe unogona kubata ruoko rwakatarisira kwaari kuti apedze kwauri, kana iwe unogona kutaura chimwe chinhu chakadai, "Miss?
Ms.? Mai? "Zvino ndicho chisarudzo chake uye haugoni kuita chikanganiso.
Zvechokwadi, izvi zvinoshanda zviri nani mune zvimwe zviitiko kupfuura kune vamwe. Hazvisi zvakakwana kana uri kuisa mumwe munhu kubva pachikwata. Iwe unenge uchida kumutora kunze kwechinguva chokutanga uye kumubvunza kuti angada kutaurirwa sei kana iwe uchange uchitaura naye kune vanhu vazhinji.
Dzivisa Nyaya Yakakwana
Kana zvose zvakakundikana, unogona kungofunga kushandisa zita remukadzi. Imwe nzira isinganzwisisiki yekudzivisa kukanganisa. Asi usangoshandisa zita rake rokutanga pacharo kunze kwekuti akaratidza kuti izvi zvinogamuchirwa kwaari.
Shoko pamusoro Pezita reMurume
Varume vari nyore. Kune chikamu chikuru, kune nzira mbiri chete dzekushandisa zita rebonde kune varume venyama-varume kana vakomana:
- Mudzidzisi: Chirevo ichi chinoshandiswa kureva uye kutarisa vakomana. Haisati yashandiswa kune varume vakuru kunze kwekuti musoro wacho uri chikamu chetsika yemhizha, kwete kungoita zvechikadzi, sezvinoitwa "mutungamiriri wepamusoro."
- Baba kana Mudzidzisi: Iri izwi rinoshandiswa kureva varume vakakura zvakanyanya kunzi "master." Inogona kureva chero munhu upi zvake pasinei nemamiriro ake emhuri. Mhinduro yakarurama ndeyababa, asi shoko racho rinofanira kugara rakapfupiswa pauriri kushandisa sehurukuro.
Kusarudza zvipfeko zvakakodzera zvebhizimisi .