Nzira Yokubatsira Nayo Kwokudzivirira
Semuenzaniso, amai vekuchangobva kupedza kudzidza vakapinda chikoro chechikoro chekugadzira mitambo pamwe nemwanasikana wavo. Akauya kuzo "kubatsira" mwanasikana wake-uyo akataridzika zvakanaka-akawana basa.
Mune mumwe muenzaniso, jaya rakange rave rawana Ph.D.
akagamuchira nzvimbo yepamusoro mune rimwe guta kure neguta rake. Akauya kuzoshanyira musasa uye achitsvaga dzimba nevabereki vose muzvigunwe kuti vabvumire basa ravanoita uye nharaunda.
Zvichida imwe nzira yevabereki inokonzerwa nehuwandu hwemareji emakoreji achangobva kusungirirwa kumaketani evabereki vavo. Imwe nyaya yeNew York Post ya2015 yakashuma kuti inenge hafu yevadzidzi inotarisira kutsigirwa nemari nevabereki vavo kwemakore maviri mushure mekupedza kudzidza, maererano neongororo yakagadzirwa ne Upromise, kupatsanurwa kwekuchengetedza mudzidzi chikwereti Sallie Mae. Zvisinei, nhau dzakadai sepamusoro zvichiri kushamisika nokuti rimwe remitemo yekutanga yekutsvaga basa nderekuzviita iwe pachako. Kunyange vechidiki vanobvunzurudza nezvemabasa avo okutanga vachava vanonakidza kune vekubvunzurudza kana vachikwanisa kuratidza rusununguko.
Nzira Yekubatsira Mwana Wako Chepi Chepi Zera Tsvaga Basa
- Ita kuti mwana wako ashanyire hofisi yekufambisa yekuchikoro kana hofisi yekoroji nguva pfupi kuti aongorore mabasa anosarudzwa, kutsvaga mabasa uye mabasa ekudzidzira, uye kuwana rubatsiro rwekuita basa.
- Network . Taura neshamwari dzako, vamwe vako, uye hama dzako nezvekutsvaga kwebasa rako. Inoshanda. Vatengesi vemabhizimisi vemunharaunda vangave vakanyanyogona kubhadhara mwana weshamwari, mutengi wenguva dzose, kana mutengi kupfuura munhu wavasina kumbosangana naye.
- Share resources . Taura nemwanakomana wako kana mwanasikana wako pamusoro pezvokupfeka mubvunzurudzo , kuti ungabvunzurudza sei, uye kubwinya kwakanaka (kufanana nekutumira kuvonga-manotsi) iyo inotora nzira yakareba yekuwana basa.
- Wana mapepa akagadzirira mberi . Batsira mwana wako kubatanidza ruzivo runodikanwa kuti anyore rutsigiro kana kupedza basa rekushanda . Pupurira purogiramu yakapedzerwa uye kubatsira nehutano kuti uwane mapepa ekushanda (zvinogona kuoma) kana zvichidikanwa. Zvisinei, usanyora zvakare rutsigiro rwavo kwavari, akanyevera Stiller Rikleen, mukuru-ari-kugara paBoston College's Center for Work and Family, mune imwe nyaya yegore ra2013 paTheFiscalTimes.com. Anoshandira achaona iyo maira kure. Asi, ivai mazano kumwana wenyu; regai ivo vawane pfungwa kubva kwamuri, asi musaita basa ravo.
- Batsira nekutakura . Kana mwana wako achiri muduku kuti adzokere, anobatsira nekutarisana kwekutengesa kune vekubvunzurudza uye nekubva kubasa.
Foster Independence
- Regai vazviite ivo pachavo . Zvakaoma kuregera kuenda, asi vechidiki vanoita kuti ivo pachavo vaone zvakakosha zvikuru nevabvunzurudzo. MuTheFiscalTimes.com, Patrick O'Connor, mutungamiri wekare weNational Association for College Admissions Counseling anorayira kubatsirana kwevabereki nemari yekukurukurirana . Chokwadi, mubereki wese anofunga kuti mwana wavo akafanirwa nemubairo mukuru; pamwe chete iwe unoda kuti mwana wako atange kusvetuka kutanga kutsiva chikwereti chemudzidzi. Ramba uchifunga, kunyange zvakadaro, mibairo yepamusoro-inowanzogadziriswa, ichisiya nzvimbo duku yekukurukurirana.
- Regai vawane nzira yavo pachavo . Usamanikidza mwana wako kuti aite basa raasingadi. Vanhu vanoshanda zvakaoma zvikuru pavanowana chimwe chinhu chavanoda chaizvo kuita.
- Shingai kana zvichidiwa . Kurudzira mwana wako kuti atange basa nekutsvaga nekusimbisa kukosha kwaro, asi usanyanya kuderedza rubatsiro rwemari. Vanogona kunge vachikurudzirwa kana vachifanira kubhadhara zvikwereti zvavo.