Avo Vasingafaniri Kubvunza Kutaridzirwa
Iyo dambudziko, hongu, ndiyo iyo inofanira kuisa pane yako runyora urongwa - uye sezvakakosha, uyo unobva kunze.
Vanhu vanotevera havafaniri kumbobvira vazviratidze pane yako:
1. Munhu wese wausina kutaura naye, uye akanyatsokumbira kuti ataure.
Inofanira kuenda pasina kutaura, asi kunyange iwe unonyatsoziva kuti iwe waimbova mushandi kana purofesa angakupa kukurudzira kunopenya, unofanira kubvunza kutanga, nekuda kwezvikonzero zvakawanda.
Chokutanga pane zvose, zvinongokudzwa chete. Kana iwe wakafanana nevanhu vazhinji, pamwe hausi kuda kushamiswa nekufonera uye emaimeri, kukukumbira zvinhu zvausina kutarisira. Kunyangwe iwe iwe pachako uri kunyengedzera uye unogona kutaura pasina chimwe chinhu pamusoro chero upi zvake, cherechedza kuti zvaunogona kutaura zvingasave zvakafanana. Pasinei, urikumbira nguva yavo, uye izvozvo zvinokosha. Ita ivo ruremekedzo rwekuvapa mukana wokukuudza kana vachigona kuchengetedza maminetsi mashoma ikozvino kuti vakubatsire kunze.
Chechipiri, kukurudzira kwako kuchava nani, kana wekurudziro anoziva zvakawanda nezvebasa rauri kubvunzurudza.
Kupa misoro kumusoro - uye ruzivo rwemashoko maduku-runopa nguva yako yekubatanidza yekufunga nezvezvinhu zvipi zvekasa rako uye ruzivo rwakakosha zvikuru kune iyi mutsva, nekuvabvumira mukana wekugadzirira dzimwe pfungwa kugovera nemubvunzurwi wako.
Chechitatu, kune mukana wekuti munhu uyu haazobvumirwi kukupa tsananguro - kana kuti, zvinyorwa zvakakwana zvinokurudzira kuverenga.
Mitemo yeHR inokanganisa kubva kune imwe kambani kuenda kune imwe kambani, asi vamwe vashandi vakanyatsotarisa pamusoro pehuwandu hune ruzivo mutungamiriri, somuenzaniso, anobvumirwa kupa pamusoro pepakutanga mushumo. Usafungidzira kuti unoziva mutemo mberi kwenguva.
Pakupedzisira, pane nguva dzose mukana wekuti kuongorora kwako kwehukama huri pachena-kwete. Nguva yakaipisisa yekuwana kuti mumwe munhu haazokurudzi basa rako mushure mekunge vaudza mutariri wemukana kuti havazozokupizve zvakare pasi pemamiriro ose. Usaiti sandbag iwe pachako.
Chimwe chinyorwa: iwe unobvunza sei nyaya, zvakare. Usangokumbira kana munhu wacho achizokupa ruzivo. Bvunza, "Unofunga kuti unonyatsoziva basa rangu zvakakwana kuti undipe ruzivo here?" kana zvakafanana. Nenzira iyo, iwe uchawana pfungwa yezvaunogona kutarisira munhu uyu kuti ataure.
2. Vanhu vanogona kutaura chimwe chinhu chisina kunaka ... kana kunyange zvishoma kudarika.
Zviri pachena kuti iwe haungabvunze mumwe munhu kuti ave chirevo chako, kana iwe uchifunga kuti vangataura chimwe chinhu chakaipa pamusoro pebasa rako . Ndosaka zvakakosha kutarisa uye kuona kana vanonzwa vakasununguka kupa ruzivo rwewe, nguva isati yasvika - tarisiro, iwe uchawana pfungwa pane zvavanogona kutaura.
Ramba uchifunga mupfungwa, zvisinei, kutongerwa nekurumbidzwa kwakanyanyisa kunogonawo panguva yekutarisa.
Vaya vashandi vanofunga kuti chero munhu waunokumbira kuti akupe kukurudzira ndeimwe yevadzidzi vako vakawanda. Kana vakawana "meh" inoshamisika semhinduro, vangafunga kuti ichi ndicho chakanaka chaungaita. Kwete zvakanaka.
3. Ani naani asingatauri zvakanaka.
Izvi zvingaita sekutonga kutonga, asi iye zvino haisi nguva yekuvimba nehukama hwako hunoreva zvakanaka, asi usataure (kana kunyora) zvakanaka. Yeuka kuti network yako inoratidza iwe, kunyanya apo vari kurumbidza basa renyu. Kana vasingaratidzi sepamusoro pezvinhu ivo pachavo, havazokwanise kufadza mutariri wekushandisa panzvimbo yenyu. Ndezvipi zvakanaka zvinorumbidzwa, kana zvichibva kune mumwe munhu mushandi asina kukwereta?
4. Bhodhi yako ikozvino, kunze kwemamiriro ezvinhu chaiwo.
Ichi ndicho chimwe chinogona kuonekwa pachena, asi zvakakodzera kutaura, chero zvakadaro.
Kunze kwekuti iwe uri kutarisa dambudziko racho, kana basa rako iri nguva pfupi-pfupi, kunze kwekuti mukuru wako akuziva iwe uri kubva, uye wakarurama nazvo - usamukumbira kuti ataure.
5. Vanhu vamusingaremekedzi.
Nguva ipi zvayo paunofunga kubvunza mumwe munhu kuti ataure, zvibvunze, "Ndingagona kupa mvumo yemunhu uyu, here?" Kana iwe usingakwanisi kutendeseka uye nomwoyo wose kuti hongu, famba uchienda kune humwe hukama huri pane yako. Zvakanakisisa, hazvina kururama kukumbira chimwe chinhu chausingazoitizve; pane zvakaipa, zvingangove maitiro ako emagetsi kukuudza kuti uyu waunoshanda naye haasi mukona yako. Chero nzira, ingoti kwete.
Kuverenga Kunyoresa : Mazano Okusarudza Mazano Akanakisisa