Vechiduku Jobho Mubvunzo Mubvunzo: Sei Tichifanira Kukuviga?

Heano mhinduro dzemhinduro kumubvunzo unokosha wekubvunzurudzwa kwebasa inenge inenge yega yega yevechiri kuyaruka inogamuchira kubva kune vashandisi vangave: "Sei tichifanira kukushanyira iwe?"

Sezvaunofunga kuti iwe ungapindura sei zvakanakisisa mubvunzo uyu, zvakanaka kuziva apo vvunzurudzo vako vari "vachibva." Ramba uchifunga kuti pane zvinangwa zvitatu izvo vashandirwi vanezvo pavanozvibvunza:

1. Vanoda kuona kana iwe uchinzwisisa zvinotarisirwa zvebasa raunenge uchikumbira;

1. Vari kuedza kufungidzira kuti ndeapi hutano hukuru hwaunayo hwavari kutsvaka mukuenzanisa nemakwikwi ako kwechigaro;
2. Vari kuongorora mafungiro ako kumubvunzo. Iwe unopindura nekuvimba here kana iwe uri kunetseka? Iwe unofunga here kana iwe uri kuzvigadzirisa?

Paunopindura mubvunzo uyu, iva nechokwadi chekufunga nezvezvinodikanwa zvebasa racho , uye kuti unyanzvi hwako uye zviitiko zvinopindira sei izvo zvinoda. Iwe unogonawo kuisa kusimbisa kufarira kwako kwenguva refu mukushandira sangano. Pakupedzisira, yeuka kuti iyi ndiyo mukana wako wegoridhe we "kuzvitengesa" nekutsanangura maitiro ako uye unhu hwako hunoita sei kuti uwedzere sangano ravo uye kugadzirisa zvavanoda.

Uye saka, usati waita nguo dzako dzekubvunzurudza , gara pasi nepeni nepapepa uye upindure mibvunzo inotevera. Kana waita saizvozvo, iwe uchakwanisa kudhonza mhinduro pamwe chete kuti uite mhinduro yako yakagadzirirwa kumubvunzo, "Sei tichifanira kukupa iwe ?"

Kutanga-kubvunzurudza Practice Practice

1. Pandinenge ndakabhadharwa ne [shandisa Mushandi wezita] kuti ave nharo se [kuisa rudzi rwebasa], mabasa angu ezuva nezuva emabasa uye mabasa achabatanidza: __________________________.
2. Kuti ndiite mabasa aya, ini ndichada kukwanisa: [nyora maitiro, maonero epfungwa, uye manzwiro aunofunga kuti anokosha kune mumwe munhu anoita basa racho. Mienzaniso: "Famba zvakanaka nevanhu," "Taurai nguva dzekupedzisira," "Ratidza kunzwira urombo pakurongedza zvinodiwa nevatengi," "Mira pamakumbo angu kwemaawa masere"]: _______________.

1. Pamusoro pehumwe hutsika hwawakanyora pasi pe # 2, nyora pasi muenzaniso wekuti iwe pachako wakaratidza sei hutano munguva yakapfuura. Muenzaniso: "Ndakaratidza kuti ndaigona kufambidzana nevanhu apo ini ndazvipira kune mukombe wemunharaunda yedu yekupedzisira Thanksgiving."
2. Ndine chivimbo chokuti ndinogona kuenzanisa basa iri pamusoro pemabasa angu echikoro nemamwe mabasa nokuti: ____________________________________________________.
3. Ndiri kufara pamusoro pekudzidziswa nekambani iyi nokuti ndinoda kudzidza kudzidzira kubudirira kwangu munharaunda idzi [shandisa unyanzvi hwemabasa iwe unofunga kuti unodzidziswa nemushandi kuitira kuti uite basa rako zvakanaka]: ________________________________.
4. Muenzaniso wekuti ndapedza chirongwa chakaoma nechokupedzisira ndechekuti: ______________.
5. Muenzaniso wekubatirana kwangu uye kubatanidza nderekuti: _____________________________.
6. Muenzaniso wekuzvitsaurira kwangu uye kuzvipira kune chero basa randinoita ndere: ________.
7. Muenzaniso wekukwanisa kwangu kuratidzira pane nguva zuva rega rega: ______________________.

8. Chiitiko chechiitiko chekushanda kwandakaita nguva pfupi kuti ndiwane basa ndechekuti: _______________.

Mhinduro dzakapiwa

• Ndinoda kuva umwe wevashandi venyu, uye ini ndinotarisira kukushandirai kwenguva yakareba. Chiitiko chandichawana pano chinokosha uye kamwe chete zhizha rapfuura, ndinovimba kuti tinogona kuronga hurongwa hunondibvumira kuti ndirambe ndichishanda gore rose rechikoro.

• Ndinoonga kukosha kwekambani yako iri kugadzirira kuita mukati mangu, uye ini ndinotarisira kudzidza izvo boka rako rinogona kundidzidzisa, uye kuti ndinogona kuita sei. Zvandaifambira kuchikoro uye mabasa angu anotevera-chikoro zvinoratidza kuti ini ndine mhosva, ndinovimbika, uye anokurumidza mudzidzi. Ndinoziva kuti ndinogona kuisa unyanzvi uhwu kushandiswa zvakanaka kukushandira iwe pambani yako.
• Ikutsvaga kwekambani yako iyo iri kuisa mukati mangu hakuzovi kuparadza. Ndatove ndichinyatsoziva nemusika uyu uye ndinonzwa kudzidziswa hazvizotora nguva yakatarwa. Ini ndakagadzirira kutanga nokukurumidza kana iwe uchida ini uye ini ndinotarisira kushanda pamwe neboka iro rinogovera zvinangwa zvakafanana neni.

Pano pane mibvunzo yevebvunzo yebvunzo yevechidiki apo iwe unogona kuongorora mamwe mibvunzo yekubvunzurudzwa kwebasa uye mhinduro kune vechidiki kuti vave nechokwadi chokuti iwe ace mubvunzurudzo.