Izvi zvinosanganisira mutauro wako uye izvo zvinozivikanwa se "paralanguage" - zvinyorwa zvekutaura kwako kunze kwemashoko, akadai sokutaura kwako, kutaura, kukurumidza uye kugomera, uye chiso.
Kushamwaridzana kwemashoko kunosanganisirawo kupfeka nekugadzirisa.
Kushamwaridzana kwemashoko kunokosha, kana kunyanya kukosha kupfuura, kutaura kwemashoko. Uyu mubvunzurudzo achave achicherechedza kutaurirana kwako kusingabvumirwi muhurukuro yose. Kana unyanzvi hwako hwekukurukurirana husati hwasvika, hazvirevi kuti iwe unopindura zvakadini mibvunzo.
Nonverbal Communication Matters
Kutaura kwevanhu vasingatauri nyaya pakarepo paunofamba musuo rehofisi. Kana iwe ukauya kune imwe hurukuro yekukurukurwa kweutsi hwefodya kana cheku gum, iwe unenge watova nehope imwe chete newe. Zvakawanda zvinonhuwira kana kwete zveododant hazvingabatsiri kana.
Kusapfeka zvakakodzera kana kuputirwa shangu kuchakupa chikwata chechipiri. Kutaura pamusoro pefoni yako kana kuteerera mimhanzi paunenge wakamirira kuitanidzirwa kubvunzurudzwa kungava yekutsvaga kwako kwekupedzisira.
Chii chakakosha apo kubvunzurudzwa kunofanirwa kuratidza unyanzvi, kunyatsoteerera, uye kuvimba mukati mekubvunzurudza .
Nzira Yokugadzirira Sei?
Yeuka kuti mufananidzo uyo mubvunzurudzo anewe iwe paanotanga kusangana newe ndiyo ichazoguma. Kana iwe uri slouchy, wakashata kana wakasvibiswa, hazvina basa kuti iwe unopindura sei mibvunzo yekubvunzurudza. Iwe hausi kuzowana basa.
Paunenge uchidzidzira kubvunzurudza, shanda pane zvaunotaura zvisingabviri pamwe chete nemamwe mano ako ekubvunzurudza.
Izvo zvinogona kuva izvo zvinokonzera basa rinoitirwa iwe. Iwe unogona kudzidzira neshamwari kana kubvunzurudza mudzidzisi uyo anotungamirira hurukuro inoseka uye anokupa mhinduro. Iwe unogonawo kuzvionera firimu uye kuongorora iwe usingarevi kutaurirana.
Usati waenda kubvunzurudzo, iva nechokwadi chokuti wakapfekedzwa zvepamhizha , wakagadzirirwa zvakanaka, shangu dzako dzakaputika, uye hauna kutora mafuta zvinonhuwira kana mushure mokunge (hakuna nani ari nani kudarika).
Chii Chingaunza Kukurukurirana
Pane zvinhu zvaunofanirwa nazvo kuti uuye nazvo kune imwe hurukuro uye zvinhu zvaunoda kubva kumba. Kuteerera mazano ari mazita aya kunobatsira kuvandudza kusataurirana kwako:
- Portfolio kana kuti mubati wepad ane kopi yako yezvezvemabhuku uye urongwa hwezvinyorwa pamapepa epamusoro
- Shandisa samples (kana zvichifanira)
- Notepad nepeni
- Pfupa remvura (usati wapinda muimba)
- Vakadzi: kuwedzera pepyhose (gara mubhagiko rako kana motokari)
Zvisina Kuunza Kukurukurirana
- Nharembozha
- Gum
- Cigaretti
- Candy
- Soda kana kofi
- Zvichengetwa shangu, zvakashata uye / kana kwete-zvakachena-mbatya
Paunenge Wamirira
Nzira iyo iwe ugere muimba yekuchengetedza, nzira iyo iwe unokukwazisa mutambi uye mubvunzurudzo, uye nzira yaunomirira, zvose zvichava nemigumisiro kana iwe uchizofungidzirwa mubasa.
Iva noushamwari uye unofadza, asi usingazvidzori. Kana uchida kumirira, gara wakanyarara (pasina foni) uye nekushivirira.
Shamba maoko nemubvunzurudzo. Kubata ruoko rwako kunofanira kunge kwakasimba - kusina kumira kana kumira. Kuti urege kudzika maoko, shanyira pane imwe nzvimbo, oshambidza maoko ako, wozovamhanya pasi pemvura inotonhorera musati wambvunzurudzwa. Chengeta zvanza zvako zvizarurire panzvimbo pokusungirirwa mubhokisi uye uchengetedze mhuka yako muhomwe yako (kuchenjera) uipise.
Kushamwaridzana Kwevanhu Vasina Kubvunzwa Panguva Yenhauriro
- Ita ziso kumubvunzurudzo kwemaminitsi mashomanana panguva.
- Smile uye kugunun'una (panguva dzakakodzera) apo mubvunzurudzo ari kutaura, asi usapfuura. Usaseka kunze kwekuti mubvunzurudzo atanga kutanga.
- Iva nehanya uye uchengetedze kunyange kutaura kwakutaura kwako. Usanyanyisa kutaura kana kunyarara.
- Usazununguka.
- Ita zororo uye urere mberi mberi zvishoma kumubvunzurudzo kuitira kuti iwe uone unofarira uye uchibvumirana.
- Usazendamira shure. Iwe uchatarisa unofadza uye wakasununguka.
- Chengetedza tsoka dzako pasi uye shure kwako kurwisana nechezasi kwechigaro.
- Nyatsoteerera kumubvunzurudzo. Tora nyora kana iwe uchinetseka iwe haugoni kuyeuka chimwe chinhu.
- Teerera.
- Usapindira.
- Dzikama. Kunyange kana iwe uine ruzivo rwakashata pane imwe nzvimbo yapfuura kana wakadzingwa, chengetedza manzwiro ako iwe pachako uye usarati kutsamwa kana kufara.
- Hauna chokwadi chekuita nemaoko ako? Tora peni uye chinyorwa chako kana kuisa ruoko pachigaro kana pamakumbo ako, saka unotaridzika zvakanaka. Usarega maoko ako achibhururuka achikomberedza chikamu paunenge uchiita pfungwa.
Kutaurirana kusina mubvunzo pakuguma kweMubvunzurudzo
Musati mabuda mubvunzurudzo, iva nechokwadi chekupa mubvunzurudzo chimwe chivimbo chakasimba nekumwemwerera. Paunenge uchienda panze, taurira mutambi wemukana kana mumwe munhu wawakataura naye munguva yehurukuro.
Zvechokwadi, kutaura kwako kwemashoko kunokosha zvakare. Usashandisa slang. Taura zvakajeka uye zvechokwadi. Yeuka tsika dzako uye utenda mubvunzurudzo nekuda kwekutora nguva yekuonana newe.