Kugadziriswa kwehurongwa hwehutano hutsinye hutsinye mazuva ano, asi kusvika taenda kune dzimwe dzenguva refu dzinofanirwa zvinyorwa pamusoro pezvinorehwa kuva mutungamiri, zvichange zvakaoma kuita zvechokwadi kuchinja.
Pano pane zvinomwe zvinyanya kuzivikanwa pamusoro pehutungamiri zvinotichengetedza.
Vatungamiriri Ndivo Vashomanana Vanhu Vari Kumusoro
Maonero edu ehutungamiri anotarisa kuva e-dimensional, ane mutoro wehutungamiri hwemunhu mumwe kana vanhu vaviri pamusoro pepiramidi ye simba uye kutonga. Muzvokwadi, hutungamiri hwakawanda-siyana. Muzuva ripi neripi, mumwe nomumwe wedu anofamba nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana dzeutungamiri. Isu tiri vatungamiri munzira imwe neimwe, uye patinenge tine maonero akawanda ehutungamiri , tinokwanisa kushanda pamwechete nenzira inoshandisa matarenda akasiyana-siyana evanhu vose.
Vatungamiriri Vakasarudzwa kubva Kuberekwa kana neChitatu
"Iye ndiye mutungamiriri akaberekwa." Tinonzwa nguva iyo yose. Asi izvozvo zvinorevei chaizvoizvo? Isu tose tinokwanisa kuva vatungamiri vane simba kuburikidza nokutora mitoro yakazara kunyange zvazvo isu tingaita kuti tive nechiito chero chipi zvacho, zvisinei nokuti mitezo yedu inobva kubva mberi kana kumashure.
Zita hazviiti kuti munhu ave mutungamiri. Tine mienzaniso yakawanda yevanhu vane mazita ekuremekedza avo vasingakwanisi kubatana, kukurudzira, kupa simba nekuvandudza vamwe.
Vatungamiriri Vakuru Vanoshanda Vose
Iyi ndiyo "mbongoro imwe chete" nheyo yehutungamiri. Zvichengete uri woga uye wakatsauka kubva ku "pack". Zvimwe zvisingaiti, iwe haugone kuchengeta chinzvimbo chea alpha uye utungamirire zvakanaka.
Izvi zvinogona kunge zvaive chirevo chakanaka apo iye akasimba zvikuru akapona nokuti taifanira kushanyira kudya kana kuti kumhanya kubva kune zvidye asi isu takura kure izvi zvinoshandiswa zvehupenyu. Vatungamiri vanobudirira vemazuva ano vane unyanzvi hwokutungamira hutungamiri kune vamwe. Munzvimbo dzemazuva ano dzekushanda, basa rekudzidzisa rinotaridzirwa kukwanisa kwehutungamiri hukuru.
Vatungamiriri Vanotumidzwa Kuti Vane Mhinduro Dzose
Munguva yakapfuura, taifunga kuve vatungamiriri sehu heroic, zvinokonzera zvinetso zvinokonzera zvinogadzirisa matambudziko akaoma munguva pfupi. Ichi ndicho chirevo chekubatirana nekubatanidzwa uye chinogadzirisa zvinogadzirisa izvo zvisinganzwisisiki kana kuti zvishoma-siyana nokuti hazvina kunyatsogadzirisa, kuzviita nekuongororwa. Kuda kuziva uye mibvunzo ine simba ndeimwe chikamu chakakosha cheutungamiriri hunobudirira.
Utungamiri Ndezvibereko, Kwete Vanhu
Sezvo kufamba kwezuva rehupenyu hwemazuva kwakakurumidza, tava kuwedzera kuite-maitiro uye zvinogadziriswa. Zvinoratidzika zvakakosha kungoparadzanisa nezvose "zvinyoro" zvinhu uye kutyaira zvakaoma nekuda kwemigumisiro. Zvinosuruvarisa, patinenge takabviswa kubva pane zvatiri isu nevamwe, izvi zvisingagumi zvinotungamirira kune zviito zvisingaiti uye zvichitiita kuti tinzwe takanatswa uye tisingatauri zvinoreva uye kuve.
Utungamiri hunopa uye kuenzanisa kuva nekuita kunonzi Co-Active Utungamiri ne- co- (kuva) uye-- kuita, (kuita) kushanda pamwe pamwe.
Zvose zviri munyika yedu yepanyama zvinotidzidzisa kuti aya masimba maviri e-uye anobata-anonongana pamwe chete panguva imwe neimwe. Kufanana ne yin uye yang yekare yeChina Chinese Taoist philosophy, co- uye kushanda-shanda pamwe chete kuti muve nekubatana, kuenzanisa, uye kushaya.
Utungamiri Hwakasimba
Tinowanzodavira kuti kana hutungamiri hwave huchipiwa nenzvimbo kana kuti musoro, zvinhu zvinoramba zvakadaro kusvikira mutungamiri akasarudzwa achirega, anodzinga, kana kufa. Muzvokwadi, hutungamiri hunobudirira zvikuru, hune simba uye huri hupenyu kana huchifamba nokukurumidza muhutano hwose. Nenzira iyi, munhu wose mutungamiri- dzimwe nguva anotungamira mberi uye achitaura nzira, dzimwe nguva anotungamira kubva shure uye kutsigira chinotanga, dzimwe nguva kutungamira kubva pamwe nekubatana uye dzimwe nguva kutungamira kubva mumunda une simba, uchishandisa masimba uye intuition kuona kwete kutaura.
Mukubudirira Muutungamiri, Kukundikana Haisi Ikusarudza
Iyi iyi nhema inouraya. Kukundikana chikamu chinokosha chekuongorora, kutsvaga kutsva, uye zvitsva . Kana isu tisingakwanisi kukundikana, saka tinofanira kugara nekutaridzirwa kwakaratidzwa kubva kare. Zviito zvedu hazvidiwi kuziva uye kuongorora nokuti tinotya kukundikana kwatisingadi kuedza chimwe chinhu chitsva.
Izvo chete nokukundikana kakawanda kuti tinogona kudzidza, kuchinja uye kukura. Zvakakosha kuti vatungamiri vagamuchire uye vafare kusakundikana sechinhu chinokosha chekufambira mberi nekuwana.
Ndinoda kupa tsanangudzo itsva yekutungamira: Vatungamiri ndeavo vanotarisira nyika yavo. Kana tine simba rekupindura zvisizvo pane kuti titevedzere uye nzira yakashanda, patinonzwisisa kuti isu tiri vanyori vehupenyu hwedu, isu tiri, chaizvoizvo, vatungamiriri.
Iyi tsanangudzo yeutungamiri inobvumira vanhu kuti vabatsire kubva pamasimba avo ega uye inoita hutungamiri hune simba uye hunobatanidza. Isu tose tinokosha, uye isu tose tine chikamu chemhinduro kumatambudziko anotarisana nesu. Ndizvo chete patinosunungura zvidzidzo izvi zvisati zvaitika pamusoro pekuti hutungamiri zvinorevei nekutsvaga tsanangudzo idzva dzatichakwanisa kushanda nekurarama pamwechete munyika inoshandisa zvakanakisisa zvevanhu vose.
Karen Kimsey-House ndiye munyori weku Co-Active Leadership uye Co-Active Coaching . Uyezve, ndiye mubatanidzwa uye mukuru weCoaches Training Institute (CTI) uye anowanzopa Huffington Post. Dzidza zvakawanda pamusoro pebasa raKaren ku http://www.coactive.com kana kuti uende naye pa Twitter @kkimseyhouse