Ndakasangana nemukuru wemakurukota, uyo akamurondedzera semudzidzisi wechidiki akajeka uyo akanga aita zvakanaka semutungamiri wekutanga. Akanga achishamiswa nemutsara wekutanga wakaipa kubva kumutsara wake mutsva uye akashamisika pachena kana ainge akanganisa.
" Akaita basa rakakura neboka rake rokupedzisira, asi iri rudzi rwakasiyana rweboka. Izvo zvakarongeka veterans vanoda mutevedzeri anotsigira, kwete mutungamiri wepushy. Kubva pamishumo yose, ari kuita zvakadai semutariri wepushy. "
Zvandakafumura mukuona kwangu kwakatevera uye kubvunzurudza kwaive nhamba huru yekukurukurirana kwakaipa kunoitwa nomunhu aisakwanisa kuverenga zvakanaka vateereri vake uye kuchinja nzira yake. Nomufaro, akanga ari gurukota rekudzidzisa uye nekupedza nguva uye nekusimbiswa kukuru kubva kune nhengo dzeboka rake, akataurira hurukuro yekukurukurirana gaffes. Heano zvimwe zvidzidzo zvatinogona kudzidza zvose kubva kune izvi-zvakare-zvakafanana mamiriro ezvinhu.
5 Kukurukurirana Maitiro Akanakisisa Okushandisa neImba Yenyu Itsva:
1. Tanga nekuzvibvunza mubvunzo uyu: "Pakupera kwemazuva angu kutungamirira boka iri, chii chikwata cheboka rangu chichati ndakaita?" Mubvunzo uyu unesimba uye unogumbura unofunga kuti iwe unofunge zvakadzama nezvebasa rako uye nezvehupenyu hwako hunofadza kuva neboka iri.
Zano rangu: nyora pasi uyegovera pfungwa dzako neboka rako idzva. Vabvunze kuti vakuitirei mhosva kune tsanangudzo yenyu. Kuda kwako kutaura zvinangwa zvako uye kuzvipira pachena kuchawana ruremekedzo rwevadzidzi vako. Zvechokwadi, gadzirira kurarama maererano nekuzvipira kwako.
2. Kumbira kuti mumwe munhu atore pane imwe nguva. Kunyange iwe usingakwanisi kudzivisa kujekeswa kune boka rako idzva muchigadziro cheboka, gadzirira chido chekutaurirana iwe hutungamiri manifesto mumamiriro ezvinhu aya.
Pane kudaro, chimbidzika kuenda kune imwe nhaurirano nhengo imwe neimwe yeboka. Shandisai zvirongwa zvokutanga semukana wokubvunza mibvunzo. Edza: Chii Chishanda? Chii Chisiri? Chii chaunoda kuti ndiite kuti ndibatsire? Tora manotsi makuru, uye yeuka kuti iwe unofanirwa kutevera kubva pane zvidzidzo izvi.
3. Shandisa simba remibvunzo . Mibvunzo ndiyo shamwari yako yakanakisisa kana iri pamusoro pokuwana kuvimbika neboka rako idzva. Paunokumbira mumwe munhu kuti afunge, iwe uri kuratidza kuti unokoshesa ruzivo rwavo uye pfungwa, uri kuratidza hune simba hwekuremekedza. Zvechokwadi, chenjerera kuti usabvunza mafungiro uye urege kukanganisa mazano, kana mafungiro akanaka achakurumidza kuchinja muto.
4. Dzidza nezvenhoroondo yeboka uye tsika. Chero boka ripi zvaro rakave pamwe chete kwenguva yakareba rakagadzira tsika yakasiyana maererano nenyaya yakagoverana. Teerera uye dzidze uye ubvunze pamusoro pekutsvaga kwechikwata chekutanga nekuedza kwemasimba. Edzai kudzidza kuti vanhu vose vanoita sei pamwe chete uye zvavanofunga sevanobatana navo simba uye mapoka.
Kunyange iwe ungaona kudikanwa kwekuchinja kukuru, iwe unofanira kuremekedza nhoroondo. Ndakambopa hurumende yangu kunyora kune mumwe wevakuru vemazuva akare. Kuchena kwake, "Iwe unofanira kunge wakaona nzvimbo iyi tisati tazadza dutu," akandiudza nokukurumidza kuti ndakanga ndashungurudzwa.
Ndakakurumidza kuregerera ruregerero, asi iyo hurukuro yakagadzirisa inzwi risina kunaka nekuda kwehukama hwedu mumwedzi mishoma yapakutanga semutungamiri mukuru.
5. Tsvaga mhinduro yehama. Uyu munhu anotamba zvakaenzana zvekambani kune izvo zvinonzi Navy SEALs zvinoreva "kushambira buddy." KweZIMBA, munhu wese ari purogiramu yekudzidzisa yeBUDS anopiwa munhu anoenda kwose kwose, anoita zvose uye anopa rubatsiro uye ane musana wako. Basa remhinduro yemudzimai isinganyanyi kudarika, asi richiri kukosha. Ichi chinotsigira unokupa mhinduro yakajeka pamusoro pekushanda kwako iyo vazhinji vemukwidzi vanotya kupa. Mune imwe nguva yekutanga-up, mhinduro yangu bhinzi yakapa kuti ndakanga ndichiri kutaura uye ndine chisimba mukutaurirana kwangu. Iyi nguva yakakodzera uye mavara-pamakandiro akaita kuti ndirege kutyaira pamusoro penzvimbo iyi mubasa iri.
Pasi Pano Zvino:
Iyo "Ndiri pano uye hausi iwe unofara!" Maneja mutsva anovhiringidza kune vose vanobatanidzwa. Pfungwa panguva iyo iwe unotora mutoro weboka iro itsva kune iwe rakazara nemikana yakawanda yekudzikisa uye kupisa. Usarega muromo wako uchitanga mberi kweuropi yako. Pane kudaro, bvunza mibvunzo, nyatsoteerera uye famba uchizvininipisa usati waudza maonero ako.