Basa rakakwikwidzana rinogona kukupa ruzivo, asi unofanira kutsika zvakanyatso.
Zvinogona kuva. Kudzoka pandakanga ndiri paSmartMoney magazine, ndakaenda kuhofisi yangu yegadziri ndikaita nyaya yekusimudza. Akati aizoda kundipa rimwe chete, asi kuti aifanira kuzvidzivirira kumushandi wake-saka akandiudza kuti ndiende kune imwe yero uye ndidzoke.
Ndakaita izvozvi, uye zvakashanda. Asi haisi iyo nzira isina ngozi. Kambani yako yazvino ingasarudza kukurega iwe ufambe. Iwe unogonawo kuisa pangozi kuparadzanisa mushandi waunoshandisa seimwe nzira.
"Iko kune ngozi yakawanda, yepamusoro-mubayiro inokosha kukosha," anodaro Jena Abernathy, munyori we "The Inquality Equalizer." Pane nzira dzakarurama uye dzisiri dzekutamba mutambo. Heino izvo zvaunofunga kuti usati watanga kushandira mukukwikwidza kusvika kune ante kubasa.
Kuongorora Kunogona Kuva Chinhu Chakanaka
Chokutanga pane zvose, "Hazvomboiti kutambudza," anodaro Abernathy. Haisi chete mukana wekubatanidza, asiwo inzira yakanaka yekuyera kuti kukoshesa kwako kukura sei pamusika. Ichowo inzira yekugadzirisa kana pane mamwe makambani aungada kushanda-kana kutizve kusimbisa kuzvipira kwako (uye kugutsikana) newauri ikozvino kubasa. "Iwe unofanira kuongorora mikana yako yose makore matatu," anodaro.
Unoda Mari Yakawanda Here, Kana Unofunga Kuti Hausi Kudiwa Pabasa?
Iyo mibvunzo miviri haisi iyo imwe chete uye yakafanana.
Ita mumwe munhu-kutsvaga usati watanga kutsvaga kwako, uye zvibvunze pachako chii chaicho chiri kukufambisa kupikisa kwako kwemari yakawanda?
"Kana iri mari chete [iwe uri shure], uye iwe unofarira chaizvo basa rako, kambani yekambani, uye ukama hwako nemukuru wako, ipapo ramba uchichenjerera usati wapinda [kuti upe kupa chikwata]," anodaro Paul McDonald , mukuru mukuru mukuru wehutori Robert Half International Inc.
Iva nechokwadi kuti uri kufunga nezvemari yako yese-kwete kwete mubhadharo , asi zvinobatsira, kushanda hukama, kutsigira, uye kushanda-hupenyu hwehutano . Zvimwe zvezvisikwa izvi zvisingabatsiri zvinopa zvose zvenguva pfupi uye kwenguva refu. Kana zviri izvo-uye kukwidza hakusi mumakadhi-saka zvichida mushandirwi wako anogona kupa zvimwe zvinokurudzira (pamwe nemari yepfuma mumusoro) sekushanda zuva kana maviri kubva kumusha kana kuti mamwe akabhadhara mazuva ezororo.
Ziva Nhamba Yako, Ziva Vateereri Vako
Kunzwa kubhadhara chikwereti hachisi chakafanana nekuziva kuti uri, zvichibva pane zvido zvako uye ruzivo. Musoro kune nzvimbo dzakadai seGreendoor, PayScale, uye Fairygodboss (iyo inonyanya kuvakadzi) kuwana pfungwa yevamwe vashandi vari kubhadhara humwe unyanzvi uye ruzivo sezvaunoita. Kana uchinge uine nhamba chaiyo mupfungwa, iwe unodawo kuziva mutarisiri wako, unoti McDonald. "Zvakaoma kunyora chimwe chinhu kunze uye kwete kukuvadza manzwiro," anodaro.
Kugadzirira nguva dzose kunorumbidzwa, asi kunyanya kudikanwa kana wakacherechedza kuti mukuru wako ane chido chokuva nehanya kana kudzivirira. "Basa-tamba nemutungamiri wekuti kukurukurirana kuchazoenda sei," anodaro McDonald, uyo anopa kubvunza munhu iyeye kuti atange kumhanya nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana dzingaita pane zvaunokumbira.
"Nzira iyo, iwe wakagadzirira nezvamunoda kutaura."
Kuitirei Sezvinoita Iwe Waizopa Mimwe Mishava Negotiation
Kana uri kushandisa chikwata chekukwikwidzana kuti ureverere kukwidza, chinhu chekupedzisira chaunoda kuita chinouya patafura nemupiro wega. Mukuwedzera pakuziva nhamba yako nevateereri vako, zvakare unouya wakagadzirira nehuchapupu hwehupamhi hwebasa rako. Iwe unofanirwa kuziva kuti iwe unokosha zvakadini uye wozozviratidza.
Kana sekuti Abernathy anoti: Nguva dzose ramba uchichengeta mapepa.
"Ndizvo zvandakaunza kune kambani, uye pano ndizvo zvandinoda kuti ndive nazvo," anotaura semuenzaniso wokuita nyaya yako. Zvinogona kubatsira kuchengetedza urongwa (kunyange pa iPhone yako) yezvinhu zvose, zvakanaka uye kwete zvakanaka, zvawakaitira kambani. Paunenge uri pamberi pomutariri wako, famba nezvinhu zvaunofunga zvave zvichibudirira uye zvakare zvinhu zvisina kuenda zvakanaka, nekusimbisa pane zvawakadzidza kubva kwavari. Uye yeuka: Kutenda chinhu chimwe chete, asi kupinda mukati nechinangwa chinopisa ndechimwe. Siyai pamusuwo, anodaro McDonald: "Kudyidzana kwevanhu kunokosha."
Unofanira Kuva Wakagadzirira Kufamba
"Kana iwe uchikwikwidza uye iwe uchifunga kana uchienda kune waunoshandira kuti ataurirane, unofanirwa kuva wakagadzirira kutora chipo ichocho," anodaro McDonald. Kunyange kana iwe uchida kugara uye uri kungoedza kushandisa chipo ichocho, mushandirwi wako angati: "Ndine urombo iwe uri kuenda." Saka kana iwe uchida kugara, asi chengetesa chikwereti chako, edza chimwe chinhu sezvi: Ndinofanira kukuudza iwe kuti ndagamuchira rimwe chipo, asi zvandinoda ndezvekugara pano. Iwe unoona sei basa rangu richiita mubasa iri, uye chii chandinofanira kuita kubva pano? Haisi imwe kana imwe, asi ndanga ndichida kukuita kuti urege kuzviremekedza. Haisi wega; ibhizimusi.
Izvi Zvinokurudzira Mabasa Pamwe Pamwe Nomushandi
Saka chii chinoitika kana inoshanda? Abernathy akaenda achiongorora nguva shomanana pamusoro pebasa rake, akagamuchira zvipiro zvekukwikwidza ndokubva agamuchira mitezo. Asi mumamiriro maviri aya, akasiya gore gare gare.
"Ndinofunga kuti chikonzero chandakaenda ndechokuti handina chokwadi kuti pane izvo zvakambovimbwa [uyezve] uye nhamba yekunyaradza yakanga isina kufanana," anodaro. "Ndinogona kuyeuka mukuru wechiri achiti kwandiri, 'Ndashamisika iwe wakaenda mubvunzurudzo yebasa, ndaifunga kuti wakafara pano.'"