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Pazera remakore makumi matatu nemasere, iwe unogona kushanda kwemakore makumi matatu nemashanu kana iwe, sevanhu vakawanda, uchisimuka pa65. Iko kuwedzera kuwanzana kuramba uchishanda kwenguva yakareba nekuda kwekuda mari. Nokuda kwechikonzero ichocho zvinonzwisisika kuwana basa raunoda, asi zvingava zviri nani kana ukasarudza kurega mushure mekuda nokuti uri kufara kushanda.
Kuita basa rekuchinja pane imwe nguva, pasina mubvunzo, kuchachinja hupenyu hwako, hukama, uye kunyange hutano. Tariro, iyo yakakunda, kana iwe ukapfuura kudzvinyirira kwekuchinja, kuchava akanaka, sezvaunoenda kurega kuita basa rausingadi, kune basa raunowana rinogutsa.
Kuchinja mabasa kunowedzera kuoma, asi hazvibviri, sezvatinokura. Izvozvo ndezvokuti basa redu rinowanzowedzera nezera. Vanhu vazhinji, zvisinei, havana basa rakawanda pavanenge vava nemakore makumi matatu nematatu sezvavanenge vaine kana vaine makore makumi mana kana makumi mashanu.
Millenials vari kuvhara zvizhinji zvezviitiko zvekuchinja hupenyu zvinoda humwe hutano hwakasimba. Semuenzaniso, nguva yepakati pekuroorana muUnited States iye zvino yava 29.9 yevarume uye 27.9 yevakadzi ("Median Age At First Marriage." American Truth Finder.Census Bureau United States 2016). Maererano nePew Research Center, pakati pevaduku vane makore 25 kusvika ku34, 58 muzana vakanga vasina kuroorwa muna 2012, uye vazhinji vavo (85 muzana) vasati varoora ("Record Share of Americans Isati Yaroora ." Pew Research Center .
Svondo 24, 2014). Kunyange zvazvo muvhareji wezera wekuva nemwana wekutanga ari 26.2 ("Kuberekwa uye Natality." Zvivako zveMishonga Kudzora nekudzivirira, National Centre for Health Statistics 2015), vanhu vazhinji vari kunonoka kuva nemwana kusvikira vapfuura makumi matatu.
Mari inoshandiswa yakadererawo kune vane makore 25 kusvika ku34-makore kune avo vakwegura. Vanopedza $ 6 200 pagore pamusoro pezvokudya uye $ 17 200 paimba, maererano neU.B. Bureau of Labor Statistics ("Zvikonzero 3 Uchashandisa Zvakawanda pa40 Kunopfuura makumi matatu." CNN Money August 3, 2016). Kana iwe uri kutsvaga nguva yakanakisisa yekuita shanduko, izvi zvinogona kuva. Iwe unogona, zvechokwadi, unozviita gare gare-vanhu vakawanda vanoita-asi kuzviita ikozvino kuchava nyore kupfuura kuchinja kwehupenyu hwemakore maviri .
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Kana ukasarudza kuita shanduko, urongwa hwako hunotevera hwebhizimisi huchasarudza kusarudza basa ripi raunotevera . Usaora mwoyo kana iwe usingazivi zvaunoda kuita zvinotevera. Kune matanho ekutora izvo zvingakubatsira iwe kuzviona zvose kunze.
Chinhu chekutanga chekuita ndechekudzidza pamusoro pako. Iyi chikamu chebasa rekugadzirira basa chinonzi kuzviongorora , uye panguva iyo, unofanira kutarisa unhu hwako hunhu, zvaunofarira, maitiro, uye hunoenderana nemabasa. Iwe unogona kunge wakaita izvi kare, asi iwe unofanira kuzviita zvakare ikozvino.
Iwe wakanyanya kukura pane zvawakanga uri mumakore ako ekupedzisira kana makore ekutanga, uye mhinduro dzako kune zvishandiso zvekuongorora dzichave dzakasiyana iye zvino. Somugumisiro wekuzadzisa danho iri, iwe uchava neuwandu hwemabasa akanaka akakodzera kubva pane unhu hwako.
Nhanho yako inotevera ndeyokutsvaga mabasa ari pane yako. Kunyangwe iwe uchifunga iwe unoziva basa raunoda kutevera-kunyange kana chiri chinhu chawakagara uchirota-kana kuti chimwe chausina kumbofunga nezvazvo, dzidza zvose zvaunogona pamusoro payo. Wana chokwadi pamusoro pebasa rebasa, maonero emabasa , mari, uye kudzidzisa uye kudzidziswa zvinodiwa . Ongorora chimwe nechimwe chezvaunogona kuita kuitira kuti usarudze kuti ndeapi mabasa akakodzera iwe uye izvo zvisiri.
Funga zvinhu zvose. Dzidza nezvemaitiro anowanzoitwa nebasa nokuti kana iwe usingafariri basa raunofanira kupedza zuva rega roga, zvimwe haufariri basa rako.
Kunyange mari isiri iyo inonyanya kukosha pakugutsikana kwebasa, unofanira kuve nechokwadi chekuti mari yako inogona kuvhara mari yako uye kukubvumira kurarama nenzira yaunoda. Uyezve, tarisai maonero ebasa kuitira kuti iwe ugone kuve nechokwadi kuti uchakwanisa kuwana basa kana wagadzirira.
Zvakakosha kuisa dzidzo nekudzidziswa muhutano pakusarudza basa. Sezvo, pazera remakore makumi matatu, une makore akawanda ekushanda mberi, hazvidi kuti uyambuke chisarudzo kubva panhamba yako nokuti zvinotora makore mashomanana kana kupfuura kuti zvikwanisikidzwe. Chisarudzo chako chichasvika pane nguva yakawanda uye simba raunoda kuita, uye, hongu, mari.
Unyanzvi hwako hunotapudza ndeimwe chinhu chaunofanira kufunga. Kwemakore anoverengeka ekushanda, zvichida wakawana matarenda uye mano aunogona kushandisa mune mamwe mabasa akasiyana-siyana. Vamwe vashandi vanogona kukubvumira kuti uende panzvimbo yavo kuti vadzidziswe. Kana vakadaro, zvichaita kuti kuchinja kwenyu kuve nyore nyore uye nokukurumidza. Kana iwe uchifanira kusarudza pakati pebasa raunogona kushandisa unyanzvi hwauripo iye zvino uye imwe inoda chikoro chakawedzerwa, unogona kusarudza kusarudza yekare. Ichakubvumira kuti upinde mubasa rako idzva nokukurumidza. Sezvo nguva iri parutivi rwako, zvisinei, iwe unogona kutora nguva refu.
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Kuita shanduko kazhinji kunowanzosvika pamutengo, pasinei nezera rako. Kana iwe une ziso rako pane basa rinoda chikoro chekuwedzera kana kudzidziswa, ungafanira kusiya basa rako kuti usunungure purogiramu yako. Izvozvo zvinoreva iwe unogona kunge usingashandi kusvikira iwe wakanyatsogadzirira kupinda mubasa rako idzva.
Iwe uchafanirwawo kukwanisa kubhadhara mari yako. Usati watanga kuchinja kwebasa, iva nechokwadi chokuti une mari kana imwe nzira dzekutsigira mari. Zvinogona kunge zvakakodzera kupedza nguva shomanana mubasa rako razvino kuti uchengetedze mari yekubhadhara kuchinja kwako.