Semuenzaniso, chii chinoitika kana mubvunzurudzo achisimudzira mubvunzo unofungidzira se "Ndingawana mapepa akawanda edzimba kuti atore nyika yeNew Jersey?" kana mibvunzo isingadikanwi yakadai se "Mhuka ipi inonyatsomiririra kuti iwe ndiwe ani?" kana kuti "Kana iwe ungave mhuka chero ipi zvayo pamotokari iwe waizotora uye nei"?
Iwe haufaniri kuedza kuuya nemhinduro. Iwe hauzozivi kuti chii chauchazobvunzwa, uye mhando dzemibvunzo haina mhinduro yakanaka kana isina kururama . Pane kudaro, mushandirwi ari kuedza kuwana maitiro aunoita kumibvunzo iri pasi pekunetseka uye kuti nzira dzako dzekufunga dzinoshanda sei.
Tora nguva yekufunga kuti iwe ungapindura sei pane kufunga pamusoro pezvauchazoti. Heano mamwe mazano ekupindura nenzira yakanakisisa yekuita mibvunzo isingatarisirwi.
Nzira Yokupindura Nayo Kubvunza Mibvunzo Isingawanzoitiki
Tenga Dzimwe Nguva
Chokutanga pane zvose, kutenga nguva asati apindura kuti iwe unogona kugadzira mhinduro inofungisisa nokutaura chimwe chinhu chakadai "Icho mubvunzo unofadza chaizvo, handina kumbobvira watora izvozvo."
Kumbira Kujekesa
Zvakanaka kubvunza kutsanangurira kana zvakaoma kuziva zvakaitwa neanoshandira mubvunzo. Semuenzaniso, nemubvunzo pamusoro pekunge mapepa akawanda embudzi aizotora sei kutarisa New Jersey, ungati "Mubvunzo unofadza, waifunga kuchamhembe / kumaodzanyemba kana kumabvazuva / kumadokero, pane yakawandisa / yakareba kupfuura mamwe ose kana kuvhara?"
Mafungiro Aunoita
Zvakakosha kuziva kuti mibvunzo yakawanda isina kubvunzwa inobvunzwa kuona kuti mafungiro ako anoshanda sei uye kwete nekuti waanotarisira anotarisira kupa chero "mhinduro" chaiye. Iva nechokwadi chekutaura kufunga kwako apo iwe unopindura mibvunzo iyi yemibvunzo. Somuenzaniso, kana iwe ukati kati ndiyo mhuka inonyatsomiririra iwe, unogona kutaura kuti iwe unoda kuziva kana kukurumidza.
Zvechokwadi, kutsanangura unhu huri maererano nezvinodiwa nebasa inzira yakanaka yekupindura.
Tanidza Unyanzvi Hwako Kubasa
Mibvunzo yakawanda yekubvunzurudzwa yakagadzirirwa kuziva kana iwe une unyanzvi hwakanaka kana unhu hukuru kune basa mubvunzo. Nzira yakanakisisa yekugadzirira mibvunzo isingawanzogadzirirwe ndeyekugadzira runyora rwema 6 - 9 ruzivo rwako ruchakubatsira kuti uite zvakanaka mubasa. Iva nechokwadi chokuti wakagadzirira kupa anecdotes kana mienzaniso yekuti wakashandisa sei simba idzodzo pakugadzira injini mumapurogiramu akapfuura, basa kana kuti co-curricular basa. Pane mukanano wakanaka kuti ruzivo rwemhando iyi ruchakubatsira iwe kuumba mhinduro dzakasimba kumibvunzo yakawanda isina mubvunzo yekukurukurirana.
Apo Iwe Usina Mhinduro
Kana iwe wakanyatsoputika nemubvunzo unoshamisa, gadzirira kutaura kuti iwe haugoni kufunga nezvepinduriro inobatsira kumubvunzo iwoyo ikozvino. Zvakagamuchirwa kubvunza kana iwe ungadzoka kwairi gare gare. Kana zvisina kudaro, regai iende. Haudi mubvunzo wakaoma kukumanikidzira zvikuru zvokuti unorasikirwa nekutarira kwako.
Usarega kukwanisa kwako kupindura kuparadza kusagadzikana kwako panguva yose yehurukuro. Iwe haufaniri kuva wakakwana kuitira kuti ubudirire mune imwe hurukuro. Kana zvichikwanisika, shandisa mhinduro gare gare mubvunzurudzo kana mumataurirano ako ekutevera .