Kuti Vashandi Vanoita Sei
Amy Nicole Salvaggio, anotsigira purofesa wepfungwa panyaya yeYunivhesiti yeTulsa, akaongorora vanhu vanosvika mazana maviri evashandi venguva yakazara munzvimbo dzakasiyana-siyana dzebasa. Zvakawanikwa zvaratidza kuti vazhinji vakapindura havafungi kuona rudo ruchikura pakati pevakaroorana vaviri vasina kuroorwa.
Ivo vanopesana neukama umo mumwe kana vose vaanoshanda navo vakaroora kune mumwe munhu, zvisinei, uye ivo vanorambawo kana ukama huri pakati pemutariri uye mharidzo yake yakananga.
Andrea C. Poe, mutungamiri weHIV ari oga, akawanikwawo muChristian Society for Human Resource Management pepa rekuti hupombwe hwakanga huri dambudziko kune dzimwe nzvimbo dzebasa. Kubva pane zvakagadziriswa kubva kuVault.com kuongororwa kwezviuru zvevashandirwi nevashandirwi, akafunga kuti maitiro asina kunaka zvepabonde kune kubasa anojairika panguva yekambani uye panzvimbo dzekambani.
Nzvimbo dzekushanda
Tichifunga nezvehuwandu hwenguva iyo vanhu vakawanda vanopedza kushanda, kupi kune imwezve iyo vaviri vakaroorana vanosangana?
Nzvimbo dzekasiki sechechi, zviitiko zvemhuri, uye nguva dzekuzorora hazviwaniki dzimba imwechete yevadzidzi sezvavakaita munguva dzakapfuura.
Nzvimbo yebasa inopa purogiramu yakafananidzwa yevanhu vanogovera imwechete inokosha nzvimbo inowirirana. Vanhu vanoshanda pamwe chete vanotarisa kurarama mukati mechikonzero chakanaka chekufambidzana, uye vanoona mumwe nomumwe zuva rega rega.
Saka kudai rudo runofanira kuora mwoyo?
Pakutanga SHRM tsvakurudzo, 43 muzana yevashandi veH HR vakati ivo vakave nerudo rwehofisi munzvimbo dzavo dzebasa. Mune dzimwe tsvakurudzo, 55 kubva muzana yevashandi veH HR vakapindura vakati kuroorana ndiyo inogona kunge yakaguma yehutano hwehofisi dzavakawana. Zvimwe zvidzidzo zvakashuma yepamusoro yehupfumi kubva kune vakaroorana vakaroorana kubasa.
Uye zvakadaro, imwe sangano reSRR romudzino rwenharaunda rakawanikwa muna 2013 iro 42 muzana yemakambani akanga aita sangano rekunyora, rakanyorwa, rakashanda. Maererano naDana Wilkie, shanduro yeSRR inowanikwa paIndaneti, kuongorora nguva nenguva neHSRM kunoratidza kuti 99 muzana yevashandi vane mitemo ine rudo munharaunda inoratidza kuti rudo runowirirana pakati pevatariri nevashandi havabvumirwi.
Izvo zvinokwira kubva ku80 muzana muna 2005, uye kubva pa64 kubva muSURR's 2001 Workplace Romance survey. Inenge hafu yemitemo iyi-45 muzana-dzidzivisa rudo pakati pevashandi vepamusoro zvakasiyana. Ichi chikuru chakakwira kubva ku16 muzana muna 2005.
Masangano mazhinji anorambidza ukama hwepedyo kunyange kunze kwehukama hwehutano. Makumi makumi matatu nematatu muzana emasangano haabvumirane rudo pakati pevashandi vanoparidzira mutariri mumwe chete, uye 12 muzana havangabvumiri vashandi vari mumasangano akasiyana-siyana kuti vatarise.
Rudo pakati pevatengi kana vatengi
Tsvakurudzo yeSRR yakawana zvakare kuti mamwe makambani anorega kubatana pakati pevashandi nevatengi kana vatengi, uye 11 muzana vanorega kuratirana pakati pevashandi vavo nevashandi vemakwikwi avo.
HR uye Management Zvinonetseka
Vanopindura kuvaridzi veSRR vanoodza mwoyo kana kurambidza kufambidzana kumabasa kunotsanangurwa kunetseka nezvingangoita zvekushungurudzwa kwepabonde, kubhadhara , inotaura kuti ukama hwakanga hwuri kubvumirana, zvipfeko zvehurumende uye kusagadzikana kwebasa kana ukama hwacho hwaifanira kupera.
Zvichienderana neuchenjeri hwekufambidzana nomudzimai, makuhwa kumabasa anogona kukanganisa nekuvhiringidza. Vanoshushikana nekurasikirwa nevashandi vanokosha vanogona kutsvaka basa kune imwe nzvimbo kana ukama hwacho hwapera.
Mazano eVashandi veH HR
Imwe SHRM yakaongororwa yakaona kuti 12% chete yezvikwata zvakatsvakurudza zvakapa mazano kuvatungamiriri nevatariri vakuru pamusoro pekugadzirisa mararamiro emabasa.
Chinhu chakanaka chekutanga chinenge chiri chokupa mazano kuvatariri nevatungamiri pamusoro pekuti vangangwarira sei kutarisana nekuita zvepabonde kunzvimbo yebasa.
Hofisi yeHofisi inowanzotarisa makuhwa , naizvozvo vatariri vanofanira kuziva kuti vangachengeta sei nzeve dzavo dzichivhura maitiro ekukuvadza. Vatariri vakuru vanofanira kunzwisisa zvakakodzera zviito zvekuranga zvavanofanira kutora kana rudo runopera uye runokanganisa nzvimbo yebasa zvichiguma. Kana rudo ruchiva kushungurudzwa kwepabonde , vatariri vanofanira kuziva zvavanofanira kuita kuti vatore danho rekuita-iyi inogona kunge iri mubhedha yemutemo, saka kurovedza kunofanira kuva kwakakosha uye kuvhara zvigaro zvose.
Iva nechokwadi chokuti vashandi vako vanoziva nezvemitemo yose nemitemo pamusoro pemakaro edzimba pamwe chete. Imwe mitemo inorambidza kufambidzana, zvepabonde, uye kuratidzika zvachose hazvikurudzirwi. Chero hurongwa hunoonekwa sehunovhiringidza, huri kunyanyisa kana hunoti hunoita hunosimudzira kupesana.
Mitemo yakagadzirirwa kutungamira vashandi mukugadzira nzvimbo yepamutemo yepamutemo, yakanaka, yakabatana, kwete kudzora mufambiro wakaipa wevashomanana. Iwe unogona kutarisa mutemo unorambidza vatariri kubva pakudanana nomumwe mushandi uyo anotaura zvakananga kwaari. Icho chinangwa chinogonawo kutaura kuti unotarisira vashandi kuti vaite nenzira yehupenzi pavanenge vachifambidzana.
Rega vashandi vako vazive kuti unotarisira kuti mahofisi ehurudo, hukama kana hurumende dzichachengetedzwa zvakasiyana nemamiriro emabasa. Sangano rako haringatenderi kusangana kwepabonde uye zvepabonde pabasa. Taura nemigumisiro kana rudo rwacho ruine utera kune nzvimbo yebasa.
Kana Wakabatanidzwa Mubasa Rokushanda
Pasinei nokuti mushandi wako ane hurongwa hwekuda zvekuita panzvimbo yebasa, iwe unoda kuchengetedza ukama hwako kubasa rekushanda kwese kwese. Kana iwe newawakaroorana naye muchikurukura nguva dzose, chengetedza unyanzvi hwekukurukura. Icho chiito chisina maturo chinokonzera matambudziko.
Dzivisa kutaura muchivande mumakona kana kumashure masuo akapfigwa, kugara uchidya masikati pamwechete pasina vamwe vekushanda navo, uye-pamusoro pezvose-zvinobata. Deredzai nhamba yevashandi vaunoshamwaridzana navo nemashoko aya akavanzika.
Ziva kana iwe uchida kutaurira hukama hweHurumende. Usapofumadza vashandi veH HR. Vanogona kukubatsira nekutaura makuhwa uye nokunzwisisa zvinotarisirwa uye zvakakodzera munzvimbo yako yebasa. Vape mukana wekubatsira.