Kubatsira Kwomukadzi Pabasa
Famba Mutsara
Maererano neCatalyst mugore ra2002 Census Women Women Officers uye Top Earners, vakadzi vanozadza zvishoma pane gumi kubva muzana zvigaro zvakatarwa nevatungamiri vekambani uye 5.2 chete yevashandi vepamusoro pamakambani Fortune 500 ndevakadzi. Pane kuwirirana here?
Zvakanaka.
Hafu yevatariri vevakadzi uye makumi matanhatu nevasere vezana veEECO vanoti kusava nemukana wezvakakosha "kunotora vakadzi" (Catalyst, Women in US Corporate Leadership , 2003).
Kuziva kuti ruzivo ruzivo rwakakosha, gadzirira. Dzidza kugadzirisa zvemari, kuva nyanzvi munzvimbo yakashanda yakadai seurongwa hwekugadzirisa , kushandiswa, kutengesa kana kutengesa, kushanda kune risina ribatsiro kana bhuku rezano uye, muminiti mukana unotanga, tora chinzvimbo nehupfumi uye kurasika mutoro.
Kudzidza pamusoro pemari yemari hazviitiki usiku hwose. Apo Margaret Morford, makore makumi mashanu, weBrentwood, Tennessee, akanga ari Mutevedzeri weMutungamiri weHuman Resources kwekambani huru yekuparadzira, anoyeuka, "Ndakatora mari imwe chete kune vatongi vasiri mari katatu kusvikira ndawana."
"Ndakashandisa ruzivo rwezvemari kuratidza kuti Human Resources 'inoita kuti pave nehuwandu." Pandakangotanga kutaura nhamba, vatungamiri vakuru vezera rangu vakatanga kutarisa Human Resources sebhizimisi shamwari panzvimbo yekuti hurumende iwedzere mari. "
Yeuka Kuti Ndiwe Ani
Muna 2005, The Center for Work / Life Policy yakabvunza vakadzi zvavanoda kubasa. Makumi makumi manomwe nemapfumbamwe zvevakadzi vakati, "rusununguko rwekushanda neni." Kumbira murume kana achida "kuva pabasa," uye iwe uchave wakaona girazi rakafanana randakawana apo ndakabvunza murume wangu mubvunzo iwoyo .
Asi pandakabvunza vatungamiri vevakadzi, ndakanzwa nyaya dzakafanana neshamwari yangu, Pam Judd, ane makore makumi mashanu, akagovana.
Nguva pfupi mushure mekunge atanga kushandira Revhi, Pam akakurudzirwa naiye mukuru wake nevezera rake kuti kana aida kuenda mberi, haafaniri kunge akanaka. Pamusoro pePam munhu akanaka kwazvo-ane hanya, ane hanya, mumwe munhu anoyeuka zviitiko zvose kune shamwari neshamwari dzemhuri nekadhi kana foni.
Pamu haana kuteerera zano iroro rekutanga, akaita sarudzo yega, uye akarega dzidzo. Iye zvino, makore makumi matatu nemashanu gare gare, iye mutungamiriri wekutengesa, mumwe wevatungamiri vevakadzi vepamusoro mukambani yake, uye achiri akanaka.
Kurukura Nesimba
Vanenge makumi mashanu kubva muzana yevakadzi vanoita basa vanotaura "kukura musimboti iyo vatungamiri vevarume vane hutano" sezvakakosha kubudirira (Catalyst, Women in US Corporate Leadership , 2003).
Dhiyabhorosi Pat Heim, munyori weInvisible Mitemo: Varume, Vakadzi uye Matema , anonyora, "vakadzi vanowanzoshandisa mahedheni, kusazvidzivirira, uye kuisa mibvunzo mumatauriro avo ekubatanidza mumwe munhu uye kuchengetedza ukama hunokosha hwevakadzi. Apo vanhu vanonzwa izvi, nenzira dzisina kururama vanofungidzira mukadzi kana kuti haazive zvaari kutaura, kana kuti haasisina chokwadi pamusoro pemafungiro ake. "
Lisa Steiner, ane makore makumi mana nemakumi matanhatu, Vachigaro wePurezidhendi, Brown-Forman Corporation, Louisville, Kentucky, anoti, "Muzviitiko zvangu, vakadzi vanogara vachitsvaka mazano uye vanoedza kutaridzika vanoonekwa sevanoshayiwa - kwete maonero akanaka kana chinangwa chako chiri kusvika kumusoro. "Steiner anowedzera," Zvanditora makore kuti ndivandudze unyanzvi hwangu hwokuita zvisarudzo asi iye zvino ndave ndadzidza kuti ndisati ndambofungidzira ini. "
Kuvhiringidza Unyanzvi Hwako Husi Uhu Hwako hwepabonde
Maria Xenidou, ane makore 35, Senior Associate, National Starch & Chemical Company, Bridgewater, New Jersey, anotevera mazano omudzidzisi uyo akamuudza kuti asapindura mubvunzo wemunhu mukuru, "Iwe uri sei?" Ne "Fine."
Pane kudaro, anoti, "Ndinopa mutsara mumwe chete pamusoro pezvandiri kushanda pazviri kana dambudziko rekupedzisira randakaziva. Nokuita kudaro, ndinochengetedza zvidzidzo zvepamusoro pamusoro pebasa rangu uye izvo zvingave zvakakurumidza kugamuchira muimba zvinowanzova mutauri hurefu. "
Uye, vakadzi vanobudirira zvikuru vanoziva kuti vasaita zvepabonde, kupika, kana kuva vekupedzisira pabhari. Chidzidzo che 2005 chakaitwa neTulane University chakawana kuti vakadzi vanotumira flirtatious email, vakapfeka zvipfeko zviduku, vanoyambuka makumbo avo zvinopesana, kana kuunganidza mafudzi emunhu kubasa kukunda zvishomanana kubhadhara nekusimudza .
Iwe Haugoni Kuva Nezvo Zvose Kana Iwe Uchiita Zvose
Dambudziko guru iro vakadzi vanofanira kukwakuka ndiro kutarisira vana uye basa. Kunyange zvazvo varume vanewo hutano hwehutano uye hwehupenyu hwevanhu, vakadzi vanotakura huzhinji hwemhuri uye kuchengetwa kwevana uye vanobhadhara migumisiro yemabasa. Maererano neCatalyst, Workplace Flexibility Haisi Mukadzi Wose Issue , 2003, vakadzi vanowanzopfuura varume ku:
- Shandisa kunze kwemashumiro ekubatsira kwekumba.
- Shingai mabasa ega nemumwe wako.
- Shandisai mabasa ekuchengeta vana.
- Vimba nehama dzinotsigira vamwe kunze kwemudiwa wavo.
- Dzvora zvido zvako.
Vakabudirira vakadzi vanoronga mabasa avo uye havaedzi kuita zvose. Steiner akaroora nevana vana pamba. Akatanga mhuri yake mushure mekupedzisa dzidzo yake nekuita chiratidzo mune sangano rake. Anoti Steiner, "Handisi kuedza kuita zvose. Ndinopa mabasa mazhinji epamba kuitira kuti upenyu hwedu hushande. "
Rumbidzai Mukadzi Unobatsira
Muna Fast Company , "Women and Men, Work and Power", February, 1998, Sharon Patrick, Mutungamiri naOO, Martha Stewart Living , vanonzi vanoti, "Hatigoni kufuratira makore emamiriyoni ehupfumi - pahofisi kana mu imba yokugara. Varume vanovhima, vakadzi vanounganidza. "Chinhu chinonakidza asi chechokwadi chemuvhimi wemazuva ano" unoenda kumakumbo uye achikukoka iwe kunwa doro shure. "
Maererano naNicki Joy naSusan Kane-Benson, vanyori vekutengesa ndeMukadzi weMutambo , vakadzi vanowanzokurudzira kubvumirana uye kubvumirana, kubvunzana nenyanzvi, vashandi nevezera ravo vasati vaita chisarudzo, uye vanoita hukama hwavo nevamwe kubasa.
Sezvo mamwe masangano ari kure nemafungiro evane masimba uye hutsika hwakasimba kune imwe nzvimbo yakasununguka, isina kurongeka, yekutonga, "kurera somurume hakuna chakanaka" anodaro John Naisbitt, munyori weMegatrends . Ndinobvumirana.