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Chiitiko chakakosha che "slacker" hachisi chaicho chakaonekwa musangano-kana-guru asi kune vashandi vashandi vanofanirwa kushanda nesimba kuti vafukidze "slacker." Apo maneja angave asingazivi nezvemamiriro acho ezvinhu, kana, anosarudza kusaitarisa, tsika dzinotambura, uye pakupedzisira, vashandi vakaderedza mitemo yavo kana kusiya.
Kusarudzira Mushandi Anosvibiswa
Chii chaicho "mushandi" anoshanda? Izwi rinosvikirwa zvirokwazvo ndiro rinotonga uye rinomirira nguva, saka vatungamiri vanofanira kuchenjerera pavanoshandisa mabhii se "simbe," "slacker," kana " kuurayiwa ," kuvashandi varombo. Vanoda kutanga kutarisa chinokonzera kusaruramisa kwekushanda, uye zvadaro tora chiito chakakodzera kuti chigadzirise.
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Rubatsiro Rwakasarudza "Haugoni Kuita" Kubva "Usingaiti"
Magera anopa muenzaniso unobatsira maneja kuziva kana mushandi haagoni kuita chimwe chinhu (unyanzvi), zvichienderana nemushandi asingadi kuita chimwe chinhu (kuda). Akaita ruzivo rwakasiyana nemibvunzo ye "hongu-kwete" iyo vatungamiri vangashandisa kugadzirisa dambudziko.
Nzira iri nyore yekuudza mutsauko ndeyokubvunza mubvunzo uyu, "Kana iwe ukaisa bhuti kumusoro wemushandi, vanogona kuzviita here?" Kana mhinduro yacho asiri, saka inyanzvi yehutano. Mhinduro yacho inogona kuva yekuwedzera kudzidziswa kana kudzidzira. Kana mhinduro yacho ihwo hungu, ipapo ichazobuda kana kusava nekutungamira kwakakodzera.
Bhuku raMager rinopa mibvunzo yakasiyana-siyana (ine tsanangudzo yakajeka muchitsauko chimwe nechimwe) mutungamiriri anogona kukumbira kuti aone kuti nei mushandi asingakurudziri kuita paanotarisirwa. Zvichienderana nemhinduro, maneja anogona kutora matanho akakodzera-izvo hazvirevi nguva dzose kuranga kana kurova mushandi.
Mibvunzo Yokubvunza Vashandi
1. Unoda here kushanda kuranga kana kuti kuripa mubayiro? Muenzaniso wekare we "kupa mubayiro maitiro akaipa" ndeyekuti mwana paanoita zvisakarurama kuti aonekwe nemubereki wavo. Munzvimbo yebasa, mushandi anogona kupiwa mubayiro nemari yepamusoro yekusabhadhara basa ravo richiitwa. Iwe unogona kudonhera pasi kumashoko acho nemibvunzo iyi yekuongorora:
- Ndeipi mugumisiro wekuita sezvaunoda?
- Iri kuranga kuita sezvinotarisirwa here?
- Ko vashandi vanonzwisisa basa ravanoda sevari kutarirwa nezvikwereti here?
- Ko nyika yevashandi ingadai yakava shoma shoma kana basa raidiwa rakawanikwa here?
- Chinokonzerwa nei nekuzviita nenzira yemazuva ano pane nzira yangu?
- Vashandi vanobvei kubva pane zvavanoita zvino munzira yekupa mubayiro, mukurumbira, chimiro, jollies?
- Ko vashandi vanonyanya kufunga nezvekusava nemafungiro pane kungofambisa here?
- Ndezviitiko zvipi zviri munyika zvinotsigira (mibayiro) nzira yezvino yekuita zvinhu? Ndiri kusinganzwisisiki kukomborera maitiro asina kukodzera apo ndichitarisa maitiro ekukosha?
- Vashandi havaiti zvakakwana here kana kuti vashoma nokuti hachina kunetsa?
2. Kuita zvakakosha kwavari here?
- Inoita sezvinodiwa nehutungamiri nyaya kune unoita?
- Pane chiitiko chakanaka chekuita here?
- Pane chimwe chinhu chisingafadzi chekusaita here?
- Pane kune chikonzero chekugutsikana pakuita here?
- Vashandi vanogona kudada nemabasa aya semunhu mumwe nomumwe kana sevamiriri veboka here?
- Pane pane zvido zvemunhu oga kugutsikana kubva kubasa here?
3. Pane zvipingamupinyi pakuita here?
- Chii chinodzivisa vashandi kuita?
- Vashandi vanoziva chii chinotarisirwa?
- Vashandi vanoziva nguva yekuita zvinotarisirwa here?
- Pane zvinopesana zvinodiwa panguva yevashandi here?
- Ko vashandi havana simba here? nguva? midziyo?
- Pane nzira dzekudzivirira, kana "nzira yakarurama yekuzviita," kana "nzira yatakagara tichiita" inofanira kuchinjwa?
- Ndinogona kuderedza "makwikwi kubva kubasa" - foni, "kusvitsa moto," zvinoda zvisinganyanyi kukosha asi zvinetso zvakanyanya?
Pakupera kwezuva, maneja angangodaro akarovedza mushandi kunze kwebasa kana kutora matanho anofambira mberi. Mukuita kudaro, vanogona kuva nechivimbo chokuti vakapa mushandi kubatsirwa kwose kwekusava nechokwadi uye vari kutora chiito chakanaka chekugadzirisa dambudziko rakanaka.