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Chiiko chikonzero chikuru chevashandi mabhuku akashandurwa pakurondedzera mhaka dzinogona kuvepo uye chirango chinokonzerwa nevashandi vanogona kutarisira kubasa?
Mhinduro yemibvunzo iyi yakabatanidzwa uye inogadziriswa seyomubvunzo upi zvaunoyedza kupindura pamusoro pevanhu.
Sei Chigadziriswe Chekuraira Kurangwa Chinokosha?
Isangano redu rinoshamwaridzana ndechimwe chikonzero nei vashandi vangave vachida kurapa vashandi nguva dzose uye vasina kunaka. Iwe unogona zvakare kuongorora nzira iyo vana vanorerwa mumhuri dzakawanda.
Kutsvaga paIndaneti nokuda kwemashoko okuti " kuzvidzora " kwakadzoka nemabhuku akawanda pamusoro pekuti vabereki vanogona sei kurera vana nenzira dzinokurudzira kuzvidzora. Zvinyorwa pamusoro pekugadzirisa zvakakwana nzira dzekugadzirisa chirango zvinowanikwa nyore nyore zvakare.
Kana iwe wakashanda semunhu wezvemagariro evanhu kana mutsika, iwe ungatotarisa nekubudirira kwevanhu vegimme umo vanhu vazhinji vanoita sekuti upenyu huri kune avo vanorarama nekuda kwebasa shoma. Iwe unoziva chii, zvakadaro? Kwete zvizhinji zvekuongorora uku zvingakubatsira iwe pakugadzirisa basa revanhu vari musangano rako.
Solution? Mamiriro Ebasa rekuzviraira
Mubvunzo uri nyore nyore. Iwe haugoni kuita chero chinhu pamusoro pekare; sekushanda, iwe haugone kuchinja maitiro ayo vashandi vako vakakurira. Iwe haugoni kudzora nzvimbo dzebasa umo vakagadziridza unyanzvi, ruzivo, uye maitiro avashandi zvavanounza kusangano renyu.
Chii chaunogona kudzora? Iwe unogona kugadzira nzvimbo yebasa uye kushamwaridzana kwevatariri kunokurudzira vanhu vamunoshandisa kuti vawedzere uye vadzidze kuzviranga.
Apo vanhu vanodzidzira kuzvidzora, zvinodikanwa zvekutungamira kupindira, kana chirango chakaiswa kunze, chinoderedzwa. Vatariri vanopedza kushandisa nguva yavo pazvinhu zvinonakidza : kukurudzira, kukura, nekuvakidzani-kuvaka. Mazano anotevera achakubatsira kuumba nzvimbo iyo vanhu vanodzidzira kuzviranga.
Nzira Yokugadzira Nzvimbo Yebasa rekuzviraira
- Ita zvaunotarisira zviri pachena. Vanhu vanoda kuziva zvakatarisira kwavari . Kana iwe uchida kuona kuenderera mberi kwekuvandudza, chinangwa, uye kugadzirisa matambudziko, regai vazive. Ipa rondedzero yebasa rinokosha iyo inodzidzisa, asi kwete yose-yakapoteredza nokuti unoda kukurudzira kumwe kuchinja. Mukuwedzera, shandisa nguva nevashandi vatsva vachitaura nezvezvinokosha kwauri nesangano rako. Iko nguva yakanaka-inotengeswa.
- Paunotarisa chiito uye kuzvidzora muchiito, shandisa moto. Rumbidza munhu wacho , shandisa rubatsiro uye iva nechokwadi chokuti pfungwa kana nzira inoshandiswa. Udza munhu wacho kuti unoonga zvakadini zvavanoita uye kuti unotarisira kuti zvipo zvinoramba zvichienderera mberi. Ropafadza munhu nenzira dzinokosha kune mumwe munhu. Funga zvakasarudzika zvakadai sokubhadhara, nguva, nguva uye kutarira kubva kumutariri, basa rinokosha, basa rehutungamiri hwemakomiti, kana kudzidziswa uye kubudirira kwevanhu pachavo mukana.
- Tora vanhu waunoshandisa sekunge vakura, izvo zvavari. Funga nezvekuti vanhu vakuru vanoda kurapwa sei . Vanoda mitemo shoma uye mirayiridzo, chete mitemo inofanirwa kuita kuti hurumende yakarongedzerwa, yakarurama, isingagumi. Vanoda kupa mazano pamusoro pechisarudzo chero chipi zvacho chinosanganisira ivo pachavo kana basa ravo.
Vanoda kubatwa noruremekedzo. Vanoda basa kuti vawane zvakawanda kupfuura kungova mubhadharo . Basa rinobatsira kune zvido zvevanhu; vanhu vazhinji vanoda kunzwa sokunge vari kugovera pane chimwe chinhu chikuru kudarika ivo. Vanhu vanoda kushevedzera kana vachifunga nezvekuenda kubasa; nzvimbo dzakanakisisa dzekushanda dzinokurudzira mumwe nomumwe neboka kubudirira uye anosimudza kuzvidzora kwevashandi. - Ipa ruzivo rwakanaka kunyanya kune vashandi vatsva, kana paunenge uchiita basa idzva remabasa. Kupa ruzivo mukugadzirisa zvinetso uye mukuvandudza kushandiswa kuitira kuti vanhu vane zvigadziro zvavanoda kuti vabatsire pakuenderera mberi kunatsiridza.
- Ita mazano ose nemitemo inowanikwa kune vashandi vose. Kumbira mazano kubva kuvashandi vasati vashandisa mutemo mutsva. Tora mapoka ekutsvaga kuti aone kuitika kwevashandi kune zvingave zvitsva zvinotungamirira. Kurukura mitemo mitsva muvashandi kana mumisangano yeboka. Bvumira nguva yemibvunzo nekukurukurirana. Zvadaro, simbisai mazano semirairo sezvaunokwanisa.
- Ita nzvimbo yako yebasa nzvimbo yakachengeteka kuti vanhu vaedze kufunga, pfungwa itsva. Ita zvose zvaunoita kuti uone kuti vanhu havasi "kurangwa" apo pfungwa yakanyatsofungidzirwa inokundikana kushanda sezvinodiwa. Ipa bhajeti yevashandi kuti vashandise munzira itsva dzokushanda.
- Shandisa nguva musangano nevashandi nguva dzose. Famba nebasa rako rekugara nguva dzose.
- Kurudzirai kukurukurirana pachena pakati pevanhu nevanhu vanokuzivisai. Kurukura zvose zvemashoko anowanikwa nezvebhizimisi rako, vatengi vako, kubatsirwa kwako, uye basa rako uye chiratidzo . Itaiwo zvinangwa zvegungano rose. Kana vanhu vakawanda vachiziva zvakanyanya zvavanogona kuita pachavo kuti vakubatsire.
- Sezvo basa richigariswa nevanhu, pane dzimwe nguva vashandi havazozvidzi kuzviranga. Mune zviitiko izvi, kero yekutadza isingagamuchiri pakarepo. Hazvina chinhu chinoderedza tsika dzevashandi vako vanokurumidza kukurumidza kupfuura kuona kusaita kwebasa kushanda kusina kukonzerwa.