01 Kusarudza Sei Chikoro chikuru: Mazano kuvabereki
Vamwe vana vanopinda musasa vachiziva chaizvo zvavari kuda kuita; vamwe havana chokwadi zvakadaro. Saka zvinotevera ndezvipi mazano kune mhuri imwe neimwe, zvisinei kuti chii chakaitika ...
- Mwana wangu akasarudza mukuru wake - Handina chokwadi.
- Mwana wangu ane clueless pamusoro pekorogi majors.
- Mwana wangu anoda rubatsiro runopfurikidza runyoro kune rimwe chete guru-kana maviri.
- Kunyanya, mashomanana mapoka uye zvigadzirwa.
02 Mwana Wangu Akasimudza Mukuru Wake, Handisi Wechokwadi Zvakadaro
Hazvisi zvisizvo kuti mubereki afunge nezvekusarudzwa kwemwana wekoljiji. Iwe nguva dzose wakarota kuti anga ari gweta; iye anoda kuenda kune unyanzvi hwezvakaitika panzvimbo. Kana, iwe unoziva mwoyo wake uri muzvinyorwa zvekugadzira, chii chiri kuita mu nyukiliya sayenzi? Asi ichi ndicho chisarudzo chake chekuita. Uye zvakanyanya kukubatsirai mose kana mukakumbira mibvunzo isina mhosva uye mumukurudzire kutaura nezvechisarudzo chake. Kukurukurirana kunounza zvakajeka kune izvo zviroto uye vavariro - imi mose.
Iwe unogona kuona kuti chikuru chaanotaura hachisi icho iwe waifunga kuti chaiva. Kubvira kune imwe nyika kusvika kune viticulture, pane dzakawanda zvakawanda zvinotyisa zvino zvisingambovipo apo taive kuchikoro. (Uye kuzivisa kuti chinonzi astronautics chikuru chinoreva munhu wako wemakore makumi maviri nemashanu anoda kugadzira spacecraft, kwete kuvabhururuka.)
Iwe unogonawo kuona kuti mumwe kana iwe mose mave muchigunun'una muchirume chisinganzwisisiki pamusoro pekorogi guru - rudzi rweva nenzara yevashandi uye mazita asina maturo.
Asi kazhinji, unofanira kufara kuti mwana wako anoziva chaizvo zvaanoda kuita! (Kana uchida maonero matsva, taura chete nemubereki we clueless-about-wangu-mukuru-mhuru.) Iva nechokwadi chokuti mudzidzi wako wekoroji anonzwisisa kuti--ss anobatanidzwa pakuzivisa mukuru kune chikoro chake, kusanganisira nguva, nguva, mapepa, uye zvinowedzera uye kutadza kwekumirira kusvika kuminiti yekupedzisira.
03 Kana Mwana Wenyu Ari Clueless About College Majors
Sarudza Chikoro Chekudzidza Pakutanga
Runyora rwemazana makumi maviri nemaviri anotadza haunzwi sokunyadziswa kwepfuma. Inonzwa sechinyadzisa chokudzvinyirira. Uye iwe ungasava rubatsiro rukuru. Zvizhinji zvemazuva ano hazvina kumbovapo muma1970 uye '80s. Asi kana mwana wako pakupedzisira apedzisira astronautics (iyo yakagadzirirwa spacecraft), informatics (kudzidza kwemakombiyuta uye maitiro ayo anoshandiswa nemapoka) kana viticulture (winemaking uye vineyard management), zvinobatsira kutanga nekutarisa nzvimbo dzinofarira. Ndiye munhu wezvesayenzi kana mudzidzi wesayenzi here? Sarudza chikamu chakakura pakutanga, uye chengetedza mukati mezvakanyatsoshandiswa uye wanyatsonyora urongwa.
Tora Quiz
Kutora bvunzo yepamusi kuti uone chimwe chinhu chakakosha sekukoroji guru rinoratidzika seusina hanya pakutanga. Iwe unogonawo kutora mumwe wevaya "Unofadza sei kutsvoda?" mibvunzo mumagazini yemakore ari kuyaruka, chaiko? Asi mibvunzo inogona kuva chinhu chinobatsira zvinoshamisa, kunyanya kana yakaitwa pamwe chete neMarquette University inofadza, quirky, uye eerily zvakarurama kusarudza-yako-guru mibvunzo. Pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, Marquette's version inobvunza pamusoro pezvirongwa zvekupera kwevhiki, Netflix mutsara wako uye mukurumbira - Steve Jobs, Oprah Winfrey, Stephen Hawking kana Chris Nolan - unoda kutora kune imwe yeWisconsin inonzi famous frozen custard. Kunakidza, chaiko? Asi pandakazviita, mazita mashanu ezvinyorwa zvinowanzobatanidza zvangu chaizvo uye zviduku, zvakakosha kupfuura basa rangu remazuva ano uye iro riri pedyo nepamusoro pebasa rangu rakapfuura. Ndiani aiziva custard yakagadzirwa nemutungamiriri we "Inception" angabereka zvibereko zvakadaro?
Yose yekoroji yepamusoro pabasa inopa chido chekufarira uye chikonzero chekuita, uyewo. Yunivhesiti yeMinnesota inopa inthanethi, kuongorora kwepfungwa inozivikanwa seRIASEC, yakagadzirwa naDkt. John Holland. Inokumbira iwe kufungidzira kuenda kumabiko eimba ine makamuri matanhatu, imwe neimwe izere nemhando dzakasiyana dzevanhu. Iwe unotora makamuri matatu iwe waunoda kushandisa nguva mukati, uye zvino shandisa iyo tsamba dzekutsvaga kuti uwane majors anokodzera. (Kutaura chokwadi, kudai ndakanga ndatovhunduka pamusoro pevakuru, ndingadai ndapindura mibvunzo pamusoro pekuchengetedzwa kwechando.)
04 Kusarudza Rimwe Chete Guru (Kana Zvimwe Zvichida)
Kana mwana wako wekoljiji awana ruzivo rwekoroji yake huru kubva pane zvakawanda zvakakosha kune zvishoma, izvo zvinonakidza. Iye zvino zvose zvaanofanira kuita ndezvokusarudza imwe - kana maviri:
Kusarudza Major
Kurudzirai mwana wenyu wekoroji kuti afunge mberi kweSvondo 101, uye kutora zvakanaka, kutarisa zvakanyanya dhipatimendi, guru uye zvese zvidzidzo zvaro zvakakosha paIndaneti. Fambai mabhuku epahofisi uye ona mabhuku ekudzidzisa mapeji ari kusarudza makirasi aya. Zvadaro tora kirasi yekutanga. Gara pane vamwe. Taura nevadzidzi vakasarudza mukuru uyo, uyewo mudzidzisi wezvidzidzo kuti aratidze kuti nzira iyo huru yaizoita sei. Uye kana ichiri kutarisa zvakanaka, tora mamwe makirasi kuti amubatsire kusarudza.
Iva nechokwadi chokuti mwana wako wekoljiji anonzwisisa kuti--ss anobatanidzwa mukuzivisa chekukuru, kusanganisira matanho uye mapepa, kwechikoro chake chaiye uye chikuru.
Kusarudza Kupfuura Mumwe
Vamwe vadzidzi vekukoloni vane shungu kwazvo pamunda wavo, vangave vasingadi kuzviisa kune imwe chete huru. Asi hukuru hwepamusoro basa guru uye imwe, iyo zvichienderana nekoroji, inogona kushandura kusvika mugore rechishanu rekudzidza (uye dzidzo). Saka zvakakoshawo kuongorora kupesana pakati pevakuru uye vaduku.
05 Mipango, Manyevero neRuzivo
Nyeredzi 101 Haana Kuudza Nyaya Yose
Kosi yekutangira haisi kureva zvakanaka zviratidzo zvehutano nekunyengedza kwebindu, kana kuti mararamiro evanhu vanogona kutarisira. Nyeredzi uye astrophysics mathemoni uye mafizikiki-mazana makuru, asi iwe hauzombozvizivi kubva mune dzimwe dzidzo dzeAstronomy 101. Iva nechokwadi chokuti mwana wako wekoroji akaongorora zvakakwana dzidzo inotarisirwa kuvakuru-nehanya zvakanyanya zvakabhadharwa nesayenzi, masvomhu nekunyora zvinoda - asati atora.
Marejiya Anotsvaga Kwazvo
Munhu wose anogadzira mafungiro pamusoro peimwe nzira yemabasa. Pasinei nokuti inosangana nevanotya nenzara kana varairi vemapfumi, ita kuti iwe nevana vako musagumburwa nemafungiro asina kunaka pamusoro pekorogi majors. Uye, sevadzidzisi veStfordford University vakati, "Wakamboongorora zvaunofunga pamusoro pekukurukurirana kwebasa here?" Majors iwe unofunga kuti haubatsiri chaizvoizvo kutengeswa. Uye avo vaifunga kuti vaiva slam-dunks - psychology, somuenzaniso-musabvumira reisheni kuti vashande pasina chikoro chekudzidza.
Uye Rubatsiro Runowanikwa Kwose Kwose
Yeuchidza mwana wako wekukoreji uyo anobatsira anowanikwa munzvimbo dzakawanda. Mukuwedzera kune vayunivhesiti yepayunivhesiti uye vadzidzisi vezvidzidzo, dhipatimendi rimwe nerimwe rine vadzidzisi vezvidzidzo. Vaporofesa vane zvinhu zvakawanda, zvechokwadi, asi mawero-makirasi uye vadzidzi vakakura vachapa mwana wenyu nyaya chaiye pamatambudziko asina kutarisirwa ezvo makuru. Uye usakanganwa chikoro chekateji. Career centre mazano mazano ehuwandu hwemhando yemabasa anowanikwa kuvadzidzi mune mamwe mazita makuru.