Ungadzorera Washandi Akashanda Here?

Mhinduro kumubvunzo ndeyemamiriro ezvinhu

Handizomboregi mumwe munhu wandakafambisa. Ichi ndechokuti ini ndinotevera matanho angu ose akataurirwa ndisati ndapisa mushandi. Izvozvo zvinoreva kuti uyo aimbova mushandi aive nemukana wega wekuvandudza kana kuchinja: kutarisira kudzidzisa, kunyeverwa kwekuraira, uye kukurukurirana kwakakomba kwaisanganisira mutungamiri weH HR .

Muranda uyu haana kuchinja kana kuchinja uye saka, haana kukodzera sangano rangu.

Vanhu havashanduri zvakawanda.

Kana iwe wakagadzirira kusava nehanya nei zvikonzero nei wakadzinga munhu wacho pakutanga, zvikonzero zvakafanana hazvizoperi asi, zvichida, kupisa hakuna kukodzera zvachose.

Vaverengi vakapindura

Vaverengi vakaratidza kuti vanhu vanogona kuchinja kana vakapiwa mukana wechipiri. Vakaratidzawo kuti munhu anogona kutora nguva yakaoma muupenyu hwavo, kurambana, somuenzaniso. Kamwe dambudziko racho rakatemwa, munhu wacho angave akave nekwanisi uye kufarira kuva mushandi anobatsira.

Vamwe vanyori vakaratidza kuti mushandi akadzingwa angave akabudirira kuita basa rake rinotevera uye akakura kuti azive zvakawanda pamusoro pezvaanoda uye kukwanisa kupa. Vamwe vakaratidza kuti ruzivo rwakawanda kana chirongwa chakakwana chinogonawo kutora chisarudzo chekudzorera munhu wacho.

Uyezve, vaverengi vakanyora unyanzvi husina kunaka uye ruzivo sechimwe chikonzero chekutarisa kugadzirisa mushandi wawakadzinga.

Kana iwe uri kuomerwa nekuzadza nzvimbo, uye iwe unoziva uyo wekare mushandi anogona kuita basa racho, unogona kugovera mukana wechipiri. (Iwe unoda kuongororwa nevashandi zvikonzero zvakatungamirira kumabasa ake okutanga kugumisa uye kutaura kuti unoda kushanda kwakasiyana nenguva ino.)

Chisarudzo cheMamiriro ezvinhu Kuita

Kune imwe nzvimbo, iwe unogona kuongorora mamiriro ega ega emunhu wacho asati ari kushanda kuti aone kana chimwe chinhu chiri mumamiriro ezvinhu chakachinja kuti chive nani.

Kutarisa kune mumwe mushandi akadzingwa anoedza kuva mushandi wako zvakare semunhu oga uye kutonga kutamba, unozarura kambani yako kune zvingangodaro zvikwangwani.

Nhungamiro, yaunogara uchitevera, pamhando dzipi dzekudzorera iwe unobvumira, inokosha sekurapa vashandi vemazuva ano nguva dzose. Kana zvisina kudaro, iwe unogona kusiya kambani yako yakazarurirwa kune mhosva dzekusarura .

Ichi ndicho chikonzero vazhinji vashandi vane mitemo inobatanidza kudzorera mushandi akadzingwa uye zvimwe zvavanofunga mukuita sarudzo.

Mushandi Wekuita

Hungu, pachava nehasha nekutsamwa uye vamwe vashandi vachabvunza kutonga kwekutonga kana iwe uchidzorera mumwe munhu wawakadzinga. Ava ndivo vashandi vakashanda nemunhu asati abudiswa.

Zvichienderana nekutaura kwekuti munhu uyu aive ani, kugadziriswa kunogona kunge kwave kuchikanganisa vashandi vose. Vashandi pamwe vangave vakakuvadzwa nemunhu wacho asati apona. Vanogona kunge vasina kuda kana vakagadzirira kutora zvinhu zvitsva pakufunga.

Asi, kazhinji, zvikonzero zvawakadzinga munhu kazhinji hazvina kubva. Unzwisise kuti mitemo nezvimwe zvinhu munharaunda yako zvingave zvakasiyana.

Handizivi nezvemaitiro kana kutsvakurudza panyaya iyi.

Asi, kunze kwemamiriro ezvinhu asina kujairika, handitendi kuti vashandi vanofanira kudzorera mushandi uyo akanga atanga kubviswa.