5 Dzimwe Nyaya Inobvunzurudzwa Red Flags for Employers

by Susan M. Heathfield

Nzira yekubvunzurudza kuti inzwisise mapegi matsvuku

Vashandi vanofanira kuongororwa maitiro uye zvisingaiti nezvekubvunzurudza vanotarisira vashandi. Zvimwe zviito neavo vakatsvaga, kunyange zvakadaro, pakarepo pfuti dzvuku. Kana uyo anoshandira achinzwa mapegi aya matsvuku, vasarudzwa vakasarudzwa vanowanzobudirira mubasa renyu.

Kana iwe ukazviwana uchishamisika, "chero zvaaifunga," mushure mokubvunzurudza, iwe wakarova mutsvuku mutsvuku. Mhanya, usafamba, kuti uwane imwe tariro.

Iyi mitsvuku yakatsvuka yose inobatanidza vanhu vakasiyana-siyana uye iwe unozovaziva zvakanyatsobudirira mune zvakanyatsofungisisa-kunze, kusagadzikana, kusarudzwa kwevashandi . Heino zvakawanda pamusoro pekukurukurirana nevashandi vanogona uye mamwe mapegi matsvuku kuti vaone.

Nzira Yokubvunzurudza uye Kubata Mipira Dzvuku

Iwe unoda kupfuurira kune vatsvaki vanoratidzira idzi 5 mubvunzurudzo dzemabhogi matsvuku.

01 Ratidza Kuratidzira Kusina Kukodzera Mazano Kune Vanyori

Nekunzwira tsitsi kwose kune vanobvumirwa, nokuti vashandi vanoziva kuti kubvunzurudzwa chinhu chinoita kuti vanhu vazvidye mwoyo, asi kutaura kwakashata kunouraya mukana wemuiti. Zvakakodzera here? Muhupenyu hwangu - hongu.

Iwe hausi kutarisira kuti munhu wese anogadzirisa ane unyanzvi hwokukurukurirana wehutengesi wako wepamusoro kana mutauri, asi kukurukurirana kunobudirira kunokosha mukubudirira mune mamwe mabasa. Ichokwadi, ihwo humwe unyanzvi hunowanzorongwa nevashandi mubasa ravo.

Vamwe vanobvunzurudza vanotaura zvishoma, uye hauzombodzidza zvakakwana pamusoro pemunhu kuti aite chisarudzo chakanaka chokuhaya. Vamwe vakagadzirira kutaura vachitaura zvakawanda. Ndinoyeuka mumwe mubvunzo asina kukanganwa uyo akapindura mhinduro yangu yekutanga yekubvunzurudza nemaminitsi makumi mana emutambo wekutambira mutongo.

Kana chiyeuchidzo changu chinoshanda kwandiri, handina kumbokumbira wechipiri, ndakangomuendesa kumukova. Akanga akakumbira nzvimbo iyo unyanzvi hunokosha hwaidiwa kwaive kuteerera uye kubudisa zvinodiwa nevatengi.

Mune imwe nharo isingakanganwiki yekubvunzurudzwa, vakadzi varipo vakanga vasinganzwisisiki nemafungiro asina kufanira evakabvunzurudzwa . Vakanga vari kutambura kuti vaone maitiro ainge avashandura vose, kusvikira mumwe wevashandi akati, "Ndichangozvitaurira sezvazviri.

"Ndainzwa sokuti akanga achitaura mazamu angu nguva yose - kwete kwandiri." Vamwe vakadzi vakabvumirana.Kana vaine nharo kana kuti vakafuridzirwa, mubatidzi uyu zvechokwadi, akatarisa, mazamu, sezvaaipindura mibvunzo yese.

Unoda zvakawanda here? Pasina kupinda mukuongororwa kwepfungwa, mumwe mubvunzo, akatarisana neboka rekubvunzurudza revakadzi vatatu nevarume vaviri, havangatarisi vakadzi. Hazvina mhosva kuti ndiani akabvunza mubvunzo uyu, akatarisana ndokupindura kuvanhu vacho. Zvinosuruvarisa kwaari, mutariri wemukana aiva mumwe wevakadzi.

Sezvaunoongorora zvinodiwa nevadzidzi, tarisai mazano ake ekukurukura. Chinovhenekera mubvunzurudzo chichadzoka nekukurumisa iwe pabasa.

02 Kukundikana Kupindura Nenzira Dzakakwana Kuitevera Mhinduro Pashure Pokutanga Kwadzo Mhinduro

Vakurukura vakagadzirira vanobudirira, vanotaura kurira kunonzwika vakagadziridzwa uye vadzokororwa kuti vapindure mibvunzo inobvunzurudzwa uye inotarisirwa. Vadzidzi vanoda kutarisira kuti iwe uchakumbira tsanangudzo pamusoro pekudzoka kwavo uye tsamba yekuvhara-kureva-uye kutevera mibvunzo iyo nemibvunzo inobvunzurudza mamwe mashoko.

Uchapupu hwezvakaitika, zvakakodzera, uye ruzivo zvinoratidzwa mumhinduro dzavo kumibvunzo yako yekutevera. Mukana wacho angakwanisa kupa tsanangudzo yaunoda kuti uongorore unyanzvi hwake munzvimbo yauri kuongorora?

Muenzaniso wekutevera mibvunzo inokurudzira mukana kuti ajekese uye kupa mashoko angangosanganisira: Nditaurire zvakawanda nezvekuti boka rako rakagadzirisa sei purojekiti yawakatsanangura kwatiri. Ndeipi basa rawakaita paboka?

Tinoswedera kumapurogiramu akawanda tichishandisa makirasi mukambani yedu; makawanda sei iwe wakabatanidzwa mune imwe nzira yekugadzirira chirongwa ? Ndezvipi matambudziko awakaona nevatambi vemakambani avo vakanga vasingaiti uye sei makagadzirisa nyaya idzi?

Uchapupu hwezivo yevabvunzurudzo yako ndeye ruzivo rwakananga uye zvinyorwa zvinogadziriswa. Izvi zvinokupa mufananidzo weunyanzvi hwomubatsiri, ruzivo, zvaanogona kukodzera mukati mechimiro chako, uye kutarisa pane zvaanoona sekukosha - zvose zvakakosha kuti iwe uongorore mubvunzurudzo yebasa.

Kuitevera kwako nekutevera mibvunzo kunokosha mukuongorora kwako kumusarudzo. Uyezve, kana asingakwanisi kukuudza kuti nei, sei, chii, nguva, kupi, uye ndiani, angave akashandura zvidzidzo zvake uye zvaakaita. Pakupedzisira, haana chizivo pamusoro pezvakagadzira zvawanikwa. Zvakanaka, sarudzo inotevera.

03 Usagadzirira Kuramba Wakanyanya Kure Pabasa Rako

Iwe haugoni kufanotaura - uye haugone kubvunza - nguva yakareba sei uyo mushandi angakonzera kukushandira iwe asi tarisa mireza matsvuku akajeka kuti iwe uri kukurumidza kutsvaga kunzvimbo iyo munhu anonyatsoda kuve.

Zvimwe mhuri yavo yepedyo neshamwari inogara kumahombekombe ekumadokero uye basa renyu riri pakati peAmerica. Kana kuti vanotaura kuti vakaedza kudzokera kumhenderekedzo yekumabvazuva asi basa rokutsvaga riri kure rakaoma.

Mumwe mubvunzo akataura kuti musikana wake aishanda muLas Vegas

uye kuti aida purogiramu yakajeka kuitira kuti awane nguva naye. Mumwe akaudza komiti yekubvunzurudza kuti murume wake akanga achizadza dhigirii yake muyunivhesiti yemo uye kuti vaizoenda kune kwaaigona kuwana basa pakudzidza.

Vashandi vanotarisana nedambudziko rinowanikwa mumari yezvino. Vatori veJobho vari kutsvaga basa - chero basa - kuti vauye mubhadharo. Uye, vamwe vekutsvaga basa havambomira kutarisa kunyange kana vachibvuma nzvimbo yako.

Saka, hongu, vamwe vanhu vanoda kutsvaga basa uye pane zvimwe zvikonzero zvinoita kuti munhu agone kubvuma basa raanofanirwa naro, asi akawanda akawanda ari kugadzirisa kusvikira vawana chimwe chinhu chiri nani.

Vadzidzi vanopa mhando dzose dzezvinyorwa pamusoro pezvirongwa zvavo kana iwe ukateerera. Kunyange ini ndichiziva kuti izvi hazvirevi chinangwa pamusoro pezvidzidzo, ndine nguva yakaoma yekuhaya mushandi wandinoziva achagara kwenguva pfupi.

Kunyanya kana iwe uine vamwe vakakodzera, unogona sei kuisa mari yekudzidzisa, kurayiridza , uye kurasikirwa nenguva mukana mushandi wenguva pfupi?

04 Kutaura Zvisingabvumirwi Nezvevaimbova Muridzi Wadzo

Vanhu vane vashandi vakaipa uye makambani akaipa aripo. Vamwe vashandi vanodzvinyiriri uye mweya wakasununguka unonetsa kuchinjira kune imwe nzvimbo yakagadzikana, inoshanda mumamiriro ezvinhu. Asi, nei muongorori aigona kupedza nguva yakawanda yekubvunzurudza nguva yakaipa muromo wake wekare?

Zvinosuruvarisa, mukana wacho arikutumira shoko rine simba kwauri. Kana achitaura zvisina kunaka pamusoro peaimbova mushandirwi mubvunzurudzo newe, unoziva kuti anotaura zvisina kunaka pamusoro pako-zvichida kunyange achiri kushanda.

Sezvo hutano hwevasarudzo dzaunokwevera hunoenderana nehuwandu hwekushandira iwe sevashandi vekusarudza , sei uchibhadhara mushandi uyo achaita, zvakakodzera kana zvisina kururama, akakurudzira mukurumbira wako pasi?

Kunyanya kukoshesa mhinduro dzemhinduro kumibvunzo yakadai seyi: Sei uri kusiya basa rako rekushandira kana mushandi? Sei wakadzingwa mubasa rako rokupedzisira? Rondedzera ukama hwako newaimbova mukuru wako. Wakabata sei ukama hwako nemunhu anoshanda zvakaoma?

Teerera zvakanaka uye teerera mhinduro dzako.

05 Kukundikana Kupfeka Nokutarisira Kubvunzurudzwa

Ndakaroora vatsvaki vakanga vasati vakanatswa zvakakwana uye vakagadzirirwa zvakakodzera kuti vabvunzurwe. Kunyanya kukosha, takashandira amai vaduku vakanga vauya mwana mutsva mazuva masere vasati vambvunzurudzwa. Kutarisira matambudziko matsva emwana, komiti yekubvunzurudza yakagadzirisa pamusoro pekudaro uye yakashaya shoko raakatumira naro risina tsvina, rakagumburwa zvigunwe.

Tichidzoka, patinodzinga mushandi, kutaridzika kwake kunofanirwa kunge kune telegraphed basa rake rinogona kukanganisa. Akasakanganiswa uye akasvibiswa, akanetseka kutevera uye kutarisana nevanosangana nevatengi uye zvikwereti munzvimbo yake yebasa rese.

Uye, kusava nekufungisisa kwezvakakonzera kwakaita kuti avo vaaishanda navo vaite kuti vaongororwe mabasa ose uye aimbova nawo ainge apedza basa rake rokuguma .

Hungu, kutaridzika, zvinhu zvakakodzera, uye kunyanya, utsanana uye kunaka kutora nyaya. Mune mhaka yemubvunzo wekubvunzurudzwa, izvo zvaunoona ndizvo chaizvo zvaunowana.

Usazvitaurira kunze kwekutenda izvi. Ipaiti yefashoni mune mbatya dzinodhura iwe usingadi, asi, dzakasviba, dzisina kuchena, dzakakanganiswa, uye dzisina kukodzera zviratidzo zvakasimba kudarika uyu unotarisira mushandi.

06 Kupedzisa Pfungwa

Idzi ndidzo shanu dzvuku dzvuku dzinoshandiswa nevashandirwi pavanobvunzurudza vanotarisira vashandi. Kusarudza nekuhaya mushandi basa rakaoma, asi funga nezvekuita nenzira iyi.

Iwe uri kukumbira munhu asingazivikanwi kuti apinde mumba mako. Iwe unoshanda nemunhu iyeye zuva nezuva, zvichida kwemakore makumi matatu kana kupfuura.

Izvo zvinogadzirisa chero chinhu chipi zvacho chekuita sarudzo dzekubhadhara zvichienderana nekubatana kwevadzidzi nemumwe mushandi mune imwe bvunzurudzo? Zvinotonyanya kukosha, iwe ungakokera munhu akangwara ane chirwere chinouraya, chawakanzwisisa uye unonetseka pamusoro pebvunzurudzo, kuti ubatane neboka rako? Ndinoda kufunga-kwete.