Kusarudza Vashandi Vachaita Zvakanaka MuSangano Renyu Zvinonetsa
Iwe unoda kutarisa zviratidzo zvisingaoneki zvinokuudza pamusoro pemafungiro omunhu, maonero, zvido, uye kusvika. Vanotaura zvinonzwika kupfuura kutaura kwemashoko panguva yekubvunzurudza. Kutaura kusingabatsiri kunobatsira iwe nekunyatsoongorora nhengo dzese dzomugadziri maererano ne:
- unyanzvi hunodiwa kuti uite basa racho,
- maitiro awakaratidza kuti akadikanwa kuti ubudirire mubasa, uye
- tsika uye mamiriro ezvesangano renyu.
Aya ndiwo mienzaniso yekusataura kwemashoko iwe unofanirwa kubhadhara uye "kunzwa." Unogona kutenda zvaunoona; kutanga kutora nyaya.
Maonero Ekutanga
Maminetsi mashomanana ekugadziriswa kwevamwe kubvunzurudza kwakakosha zvikuru zvokuti hapana chimwe chinhu chinokosha. Iwe unotarisa mubvunzo uye unotarisa zvose zvisingabvumirwi zvaanotaura. Iwe unogadzira zvinyorwa kubva kumubatsiri wekutsvaga, kubata maoko, chipfeko uye zvishandiso, kushandiswa kwemhepo, kutarisa , kutarisa kweziso , uye chiso chemaziso.
Uye, zvino iwe unoteerera pane zvaanofanira kutaura mukupindura mibvunzo yako.
Nzvimbo uye Nzvimbo Yokushandisa
Ndiko iwe unofanirwa kugara wakanyarara asi wakarurama, asi kwete nechisimba, pachigaro chake? Anofamba nerunyararo rwechokwadi here? Anogona kunge ane chivimbo uye anonzwa akasununguka naye. Slouchy posture inotaura zvikuru pamusoro pebasa rakashata uye kuzvidzora.
Chimiro chinoita kuti munhu atore chikamu chakafanira chemukati muimba yacho anokuudza kuti uyo anenge akakumbira akachengeteka mumano ake. Kushushikana kwemazuva ano kunopa pfungwa yepasi shoma uye kusava nehanya. Teerera.
Handshake
Cherechedza kana mukana wako ane simba rakasimba, rakaoma, rakasimba. Zvakare, munhu ane chivimbo, munhu akasununguka anoshandisa ruoko rwechibvumirano sekushamwaridzana kwakanaka kwemashoko. Kubata ruoko kunofanira kukuvimbisai nezvechido chemufambisi chekuda kukurukurirana nekutanga. Kubata ruoko kunomiririra kuderera kwakadzika uye kusazviremekedza. Kushanda kwemaoko zvakasimba kunogona kukuudza kuti munhu wacho anonyanya kupesana kana kuedza kukudzora iwe.
Nguo uye Zvitsva
Hazvina mhosva kuti unoisa sei nzvimbo yako yekushandira, nzvimbo yepamhizha yepamhizha inoda kupfeka sutu kumusangano wake wokutanga. Chokufukidzira chakasarudzwa chinokutaurira kuti munhu anozobvumirana sei uye achaonekwa nevatengi.
Nhumbi dzakasarudzwa kana telegraph zvidzidzo - kana hazviiti. Chikwereti, chikwama cheganda, peni yakanaka, chikwama cheganda uye shangu dzakapenya zvinoratidza kuonekwa kwakasimba, kwehutano. Vanokuudza iwe mubatirwe anotarisirwa zvakakwana kuti ude kuita zvakanaka pakutanga.
Mazamu, zvinonhuwira, uye zvishongo, zvakapfeka zvakanaka, zvinogona kuwedzera pakufunga kwako kwehutano hwavo.
Zvimedu zvidema kana shangu dzakaputirwa zvinokuudza kuti munhu haana hanya, uye akakurumidza, kana asingazivi maonero avanoita kune vamwe. Kwete zvakanaka.
Zvimwewo, kana mukana wacho akaedza kutarisa akaputika uye unyanzvi hwekubvunzurudzwa - uye haasi-izvi zvingave zvakanaka sezvazviri. Sarudza chii chinoshanda kumasangano ako, uye ita sarudzo yako yakanakisisa. Munhu anosarudzwa akasungirirwa zvipfeko uye zvigadzirwa inzira yekushamwaridzana kwemashoko ane simba. Teerera paunenge uchihaya. Kuteerera, kutarisa kwemaziso, mutauro wemuviri uye chiso chemaziso hazvina matauro ekutaurira anogona kukuudza zvakawanda nezvevatsvaga iwe unofunga kuti uri kukwereta.
Kuteerera uye Kutarisa Kwameso
Cherechedza maitiro ekuteerera uye ekubvunzurudza evanhu vako. Anofanira kuita sokunge ari kubatanidzwa nekutsamira zvishoma mberi pachigaro chake kuti avhare imwe nzvimbo iri pakati pake nemubvunzurudzo.
Iwe unoda kubhadhara mumwe munhu anokwanisa kunyatsokwanisa kuisa mbiri yake pahofisi yako kutora zvinyorwa, asi kwete kutora nzvimbo yako yakawandisa. Iwe unoda mushandi anokwanisa kuchengetedza maziso akasvinura pasina kutarisa kana kumanikidzwa kuteerera.
Kana munhu akakurukura achipedza kubvunzurudza nemaziso ake achifamba kwose kwose, asingatarisi nekutarisa kwauri, izvi zvinogona kuratidza kusava nekuvimba-kana kuipa-haana hanya. Nguva refu, kushungurudzwa kwemaziso kumanikidzi kunogona kuratidza munhu anonyanyisa ane utsinye asina hanya nezveshoko rako. Uye, kana asina hanya nezvekunyaradza kwako panguva yekubvunzurudzwa, izvozvi hazvisi nani kana iwe uchimushandira.
Teererawo kune mhinduro yemubvunzo kumibvunzo yako. Akanzwa mubvunzo wako here? Akapindura zvakanyatsonaka uye akagovera nyaya, kana kuti akaregerera kubva pamusoro? Iyo yekare inokuudza kuti yakagadzirirwa kubvunzurudzwa uye ine nhau dzinopfurikidza dzekugovana. Izvozvo zvinoratidza kuti hazvigadziriki, hazviregi, kana kuti haana hanya kuti ateerere.
Kutaura Kwepiso uye Mutauro Wemutauro
"Zvaunoita zvinotaura zvakanyanya zvokuti handigoni kunzwa zvaunotaura," akadaro Ralph Waldo Emerson mune rimwe remashoko angu aidiwa. Uye, hapana chakafanana sekukurukurirana sechitarisiko chechimiro uye mutauro wevatendi vako. Iko mabhuku ose akanyorwa akashandura chiso chemazwi uye mutauro wemuviri. Chinokosha chokuteerera kusataura kwavo kwemashoko ndechokuti maziso avo uye mutauro wavo zvinomirirana nemashoko akataurwa.
Kutarisa kwechiso kunokundikana kufanana nemashoko akataurwa kunogona kuratidza kusagadzikana kwakanyanya kana kureva nhema - hakuna unhu hunodiwa kune munhu anenge asarudzwa. Munhu akasarudzwa asingatauri maziso uye achitaura kune imwe nzvimbo pamusoro pefudzi rako haanzwisisi uye anoratidza kusava nechivimbo. Iwe unoda kubhadhara mushandi ane chiso chemufananidzo chinopindirana uye otora mashoko ake.
Mutauro wemuviri unotaura zvikuru, zvakare. Muyoti anotsigamira muchigaro chake nemakumbo ake akapfuura pamabvi here? Akasununguka zvikuru zvekugadziriswa kwehurukuro. Akatora doro rako rose nemaoko ake nezvimwe zvinhu here? Anonyanyisa.
Anonamatira kumashure nemaoko ake akayambuka mushure memusoro wake here? Izvi zvinokuvadza kubvunzurudza maitiro mune zvakanyanya. Usatarisira unhu husina kunaka kana iwe uchimubhadhare. Kana munhu akanganisa achitaura uye achitarisa kure newe kana kuonekwa achitya, angangodaro asingatauri chokwadi. Kana akatarisa mumaziso ako sezvaanoudza nyaya yake, angave achigadzira.
Kana iye achikwanisa kunyora peni yake nguva dzose, anoshandura zvishongo zvake pamagumo emutsara wega wega, achirova vhudzi rake maminetsi mashomanana, ari kutumira mhando dzose dzemashoko pamusoro pekunetseka kwake - pamwe nekugadzirisa mibvunzo kana kuburikidza neunyanzvi hwake uye mano ake zvachose? Zvakaoma kutaura. Teerera kune zvavasingarevi.
Mhedziso
Kubvunzurudza nekubhadhara vanhu avo vachava vashandi vakakura vanofanirwa zvakanaka musangano renyu inetso. Kuteerera kune zvisingatauri kukurukurirana kwevadzidzi vako kunogona kukuudza zvakawanda pamusoro pevatsvaki semashoko avo anotaurwa, maitiro avo, uye ruzivo rwavo. Nzira dzokukurukurirana dzisingabatsiri.