Iwe Unogona Kupa Mutemo Moto Nomushandi kana Iwe Uchitarisira Kudzivisa Kusarura
An - anoshandira-ndiko kuti, mushandirwi anochengetedza kodzero yekugumisa vashandi pasina chikonzero-kazhinji haafaniri kunetseka nezvezvirevo zvakadaro .
Kufanana nevamwe vose vashandi , zvisinei, pane-paanenge achishandira asi achiri kufanira kunetseka nezvimwe zvizhinji zvinogona kuitwa.
Mumakore achangobva kupfuura, ku-hazviiti nguva dzose kuchengetedza mushandirwi kuitira kuti kuva nemagwaro ekushanda kwevashandi uye zvezvikonzero zvekuregera zvinowedzera kukosha.
Zvinokwanisika Zvirevo zvekusarura Pamusoro Pemabasa Ekugumira
Vose vashandi vanoda kuziva kuti kusarurwa kunogona kuitika kune izvo zvinogona kubuda kubva pakugumira basa. Kuti ibudirire, uyo aimbova mushandi aizofanira kuratidza kuti iye akaregererwa, zvichida muchikamu, nekuda kwehupenyu hwake hwemushandi (hunhurume, hutendero, rudzi, nyika, makore , urema, nezvakadaro).
Mukuwedzera, kusunungurwa kwevashandi kunogona kureva kuti avo vekare vashandi vakazvidzikisa ne:
- kuita nhema, kunyadzisa mazwi pamusoro pavo kune vekushanda navo kana mamwe mapato;
- vakavabata nenzira yakakonzerwa kuti vaite kushushikana;
- vakapinda mukurumbira kwavo nekusaziva pachena chikonzero chekuregera kusingabatsiri; kana
- akadzigumisa mukutsiva nokuda kwekuita kodzero yepamutemo , yakadai sokuzivisa kusarura kana zvimwe zvisiri pamutemo zvemabasa kana kutora zororo pasi peMhuri uye Chirongwa Chekusiya Chikamu kana Military Leave Act.
Mabhizimisi Ezvakanaka Zvikonzero Zvebasa Kupera
Kunyangwe pa--ivo vashandi vanogona kupedza vashandi chero zvikonzero-kana pasina chikonzero zvachose-kuguma kwemazuva ose zviri nyore kudzivirirwa kana vakarurama nemhosva yebhizimisi chikonzero. Zvikonzero zvebhizimisi zvepamutemo zvinogona kusanganisira zvinetso nemupiro wevashandi, kusazvibata, kugadzirisa zvakare kunokonzera kubviswa kwechinzvimbo chebasa, kana kuongorora mari yevashandi.
Pasinei nehukama hwehukama hwebasa, mushandirwi anofanirwa kufunga nezvekugadza mitemo yebasa iyo inorongedza mufambiro unogona kuguma nekuranga kana kupera.
Pa-vashandirwi vanofanira kusanganisira kuregererwa mumitemo inojekesa kuti kuvapo kwemitemo yekambani hakuiti zvachose kana kuti nenzira ipi zvayo kuchinja kushanda kwe-in-status.
Uyezve, vashandi (pa-kana kana zvimwe) vanofanira kusanganisira kuburitsa kunoreva kuti zvikonzero zvakarongwa hazvisi zvose-zvinosanganisira uye kuti muiridzi ane kodzero yekuregedza vashandi avo, muuchenjeri hwevashandi, vanga vaita zvisina kunaka kana vasina yakagadzirirwa pamatunhu anogamuchirwa.
Mukuwedzera, kana chirango chinoramba chichienderera mberi , mushandirwi anofanira kuchengetedza kusununguka kwekusunungura vashandi pakarepo apo mamiriro ezvinhu achibvumirana.
Mibvunzo Vashandi Vanoda Kubvunza Pamberi Pemabasa Kupedza
Asati asarudza kugumisa mushandi, mushandi anofanira kuzvibvunza mibvunzo inotevera:
- Ko mushandi ane tsanangudzo yakarurama yezviito zvake kana kushanda zvakanaka? Usati wasarudza kana kupedza mushandi, fambisa zvakadzama nezvezviitiko zviri mubvunzo uye uwane shanduro yemushandi kana tsanangudzo. Cherechedza kana munhu wechitatu wekusarerekera aizowana tsanangudzo yomushandi inogoneka.
- Ko chirango "chinokodzera mhosva" here? Chimbofunga kana mutori wezvematongerwe enyika asingabatsiri angabvumirana kuti kubviswa kwaive kwakanaka kwakapiwa maitiro ehufambiro kana kuipa kwematambudziko ekushanda.
- Icho chisarudzo chekugumisa kusawirirana nezviito zvekare zvekambani here? Semuenzaniso, ane mushandi munguva pfupi yapfuura akagamuchira kuburitswa kwekushanda zvakanaka, kukurudzira kana kubhadhara kuwedzera ? Kana hongu, izvi zvinogona kuita kuti zvive zvakaoma kumushandi kubvumidza kupedzisa mushandi nokuda kwezvikonzero zvine chokuita nekuita kana iwe wakabatanidzwa mumutemo.
- Icho chisarudzo chekugumisa mushandi wacho nguva isati yakwana here? Sarudza kuti zvimwe nzira dzokugumisa dzakakosha, zvakadai sokupa mushandi mukana wokupedzisira, uchishandisa chirango chinoramba chichienderera mberi kuti ucherechedze, kana kuisa mushandi purogiramu yekuvandudza kubudirira .
- Ko mushandi ane chero kodzero yekugadzirisa? Iva nechokwadi chokuti chero ipi zvayo yekugadzirisa matanho anopiwa nekambani inoteverwa. (Cherechedza: maitiro anokosha angave aripo kune vashandi vehurumende vane humwe kodzero dzekutonga dzisina kukodzera kuvashandi vehurumende.)
- Iyo kambani yakaranga chirango nenzira isingachinji here? Iva nechokwadi chokuti nhengo dzepi zvese dzakachengetedzwa dzakarongerwa dzinofananidzwa zvakafanana nevashandi kunze kwekuchengetedzwa kwakachengetedzwa avo vanoita nenzira yakafanana yekuita, pasi pemamiriro ezvinhu akafanana (kuoma kwekuita, maitiro apakutanga, urefu hwebasa, nezvakadaro).
Zvisarudzo Zvinoitwa Nomushandi Anotora Kutora Basa Rinopera
Kutevera kuguma kwebasa, mushandirwi anogona kuderedza mukana wekutonga mudare nenzira dzakawanda.
- Iva nechokwadi chokuti zvakakodzera mushure-kupedza mitemo inoteverwa. Vashandi vehurumende vanogona kuve nekodzero yekutumirwa kwemashure. Vashandi vega vega vangave vane kodzero yekuteerera kana vakagadzirirwa mumitemo yekambani, bhuku revashandi , kana muchibvumirano chebasa kana chibvumirano .
- Iva nehanya nemushandi. Shingairira paunorayira mushandi wechikonzero chekugumisa. Usati ushushike chikonzero kuitira kuti usadzivisa kurwadza kweanonzwa manzwiro omushandi. Kana mushandi akazobvunzurudza, zvinyorwa izvi zvichange zvichishungurudza kushandiswa kwevanoshandira.
- Remekedza manzwiro omushandi. Usaita chero chinhu chinonyadzisa mushandi panguva yekugadziriswa . Kana zvichikwanisika, usapedzisira kuendesa mushandi kubva kubasa kumabasa pamberi pevashandi. Vashandi vakanyadziswa ndivo vanowanzopokana nekugumburwa kwavo.
- Kuremekedza zvakavanzika zvevashandi. Mushure mokugadziriswa, vaudza chete avo vashandi nevatungamiri vane chido chekuziva chikonzero chekugumisa, uye vauye kuti varege kukurukura nyaya yacho nemunhu.
- Gamuchira kusunungurwa. Kana pane zvikwereti zvisingabatsiri zvakapiwa zvakadai sekubhadhara mari, kubhadhara mari yemishonga yemishonga yveshuwarenzi, kubhadhara mazano ehutano, nezvimwewo zvakadaro), kunze kweavo vane chikwereti mushandi pasi pekambani yekambani, funga kuita zvikwereti zvakagadziriswa kune mushandi achinyora kusunungurwa kwemhosva . Kuti rusununguko rwubudirire kurwisana nehurumende yezera kusarurwa kusarura (vashandi 40 kana kupfuura), kusunungurwa kunofanira kuva nemitemo yakasiyana-siyana, kusanganisira zuva rekufungidzirwa kwemazuva 21 uye mazuva manomwe ekudzosa.
- Dzivisa kusawirirana mushure mekugumisa zvirevo. Usaita zvinyorwa zvekugumisa mushure mekucherechedza kwekugumisa, tsamba yekutsvaga kana kupindura kuhofisi yehurumende yekubhadhara mari yehofisi iyo isingaenderani kana inopesana nechikonzero chekugumisa. Zvinyorwa zvakanyorwa zvakadai, sezvinotaura kune waimbova mushandi, zvichaita kuti zvive nekutendeseka matambudziko kune waanoshandira.
- Chengetedza magwaro akakodzera. Anoshandira anofanira kuchengetedza faira yevashandi uye kuchengetedza zvinyorwa zvose, kusanganisira mushandi webasa rakaoma, iro rinotsigira chisarudzo chokugumisa mushandi.
- Batsira mushandi kuwana mamwe mabasa. Funga kugovera maitiro ekugadziriswa uye, mune dzimwe nguva, kutora kwatinorerekera kubatsira mushandi pakuwana rimwe basa. Nokukurumidza mushandi ari kushanda zvakare, zvishoma zvishoma mushandi ndeyekuunza chiito kumunhu wake wekare.
Zvinonzwisisika: Kunyange zvazvo Mel Muskovitz ari gweta, tapota cherechedza kuti ruzivo rwakapiwa, nepo rune simba, haruvimbiswi nehuwandu uye hutsika. Nzvimbo iyi inowanikwa nemitemo yenyika yose uye mitemo nemitemo inoshandiswa inoparadzaniswa kubva kune imwe nyika kuenda kunyika uye nyika kune imwe nyika. Ndapota tsvaka rubatsiro rwemitemo, kana rubatsiro runobva kuHurumende, Federal, kana Hurumende dzehurumende, kuti uone kuti kududzira kwako kwepamutemo uye zvisarudzo zvakarurama panzvimbo yako. Iyi ruzivo nderokutungamirira, pfungwa, uye rubatsiro.
Ichi chinyorwa chinongororongedza muchidimbu chezvinhu zvinogona kuitika mumutemo mukumiswa kwebasa. Izvo hazvifananidzi kuva hurukuro yakazara yenyaya yacho.
Uyezve, nokuti zvikamu zvose zvezvokwadi uye mamiriro ezvinhu zvinogona kusimbisa nyaya dzakasiyana dzemutemo, nyaya ino haifaniri kuve iyo uye haifaniri kuonekwa semafungiro emutemo.