Kukurukurirana uye Professional Professional mu Networking

Mifananidzo Yenyu ndiwe-Ita Zvose Zvakanakisisa Mukana wePurojekiti Yezvokuita

Vanhu vanobudirira vanofunga kuti kubudirira kwavo kunokonzerwa nehutano hwehukama hunobatsira hukama, zvakanyanya sekuda kwekwanisi hwehuchenjeri kana ruzivo rwebhizimisi. Kukurukurirana kwako uye chimiro chauri kupa chinopa maonero ekutanga-kazhinji kanofungwa kwenguva refu-kune vanhu vaunosangana navo.

Unoda imwe nyanzvi yemufananidzo here? Maitiro aunozviita iwe danho rekutanga mukugadzira iyo inobatsira mitambo yevatengi.

Zvidzidzo pamusoro pevanhu vakaungana zvinoratidza kuti vanhu vakawanda vanoita zvisarudzo pamusoro pekuziva zvishoma mukati memaawa makumi matatu ekutanga kusvika kumaminitsi maviri ekubatana. Izvi hazvikupi nguva yakawanda yekuita zvakanaka.

Kuongorora kwakaitwa naDkt. Albert Mehrabian kuUCLA kwakaratidza kuti kana vanhu vachiedza kutaura zvinoreva kuburikidza nekukurukurirana kwavo nevamwe , huzhinji hwemashoko ako hunobudiswa pachena pasina mazwi uye kuburikidza neshoko uye chiso chekutaura.

Zvidzidzo zvake zvakavhenekera kuti kusvika kusvika 37 muzana yekutanga kutaridzika inobva pazwi remukurukuri wezwi. Pafoni, nhamba iyoyo inokwira kusvika ku80 muzana kana yakakwirira, maererano nevakawanda vekukurukurirana.

Iyi ndiyo nzvimbo ina dzinobatsira zvikuru pamufananidzo wako uye kuti unozvipa sei unyanzvi:

Unyanzvi hwekuonekwa huripo

Zano rakapiwa rakapiwa nevarayiridzi nevatungamiri kune avo vanoda kuwedzera basa ravo nguva dzose vave vachigadzirira basa raunoda, kwete basa rauri ikozvino.

Kunyange muzuva rino rekushongedza kwemaitiro kusingabatsiri , basa rako rehupenzi richakushandira zvakanaka apo kukurudzirwa , kushandiswa kwemafambiro , kusarudzwa kwezvasarudzo uye kuonekwa kwebazi kunowanikwa.

Unhu hwehutano hunokonzera iwe kuparadzana nevashandi vaunoshanda vasinganyanyi kunetseka nezvekujekesa kubudirira, mufananidzo wemhizha.

Pano pane zvinyorwa zvebhizimisi zvisiri zvekugadzira uye nezvemabhizimisi asina kushandiswa mune zvekushanda mumhepo . Aya mazano emitemo achakubatira iwe zvakanaka kune imwe nzvimbo yebasa iyo inokurudzira nzvimbo dzisina kuchena dzemazuva ano.

Taura ku Groups kuitira Kuvandudza Zita rako

Unoziva here kuti zvidzidzo zvakaratidza kuti vanhu vakawanda vanoti vanotya kutaura kwevanhu kunze kwekuti vari kufa? Asi, kutaura kwevanhu vose, mharidzo pamisangano , uye kutaura zvakananga mumapoka maduku kunogona kuita zvakawanda nokuda kwekuonekwa kwebasa kupfuura chero imwe mimwe mikana. Kukurudzira kunouyawo kakawanda kuvashandi vanogona kutaura zvakanaka kubudikidza nemunhu.

Shandisa a Professional Image mu Kunyora

Kuzvidavirira kwako kuburikidza nemishumo yakanyorwa, email, tsamba, nemamwe marudzi ose ekukurukurirana kwakanyorwa ndeye chiso chako chaunowanzopa pane zvebasa rako kana munharaunda yevashandi. Ne email tsamba, IMs, kutumira mameseji, uye kutumira kune unhu hutano hwevanhu , kutadza kunowanzotonga. Iko kukanganisa kwechimiro chako chemhizha.

Izvi zvishandiso zvekukurukurirana pamabasa ndezvomutemo uye zvigadzirwa zvekukurukura zvishandiso uye zvinofanira kutarisa sekutaurirana kwakanaka

Mune email, somuenzaniso, kutanga nekwakwazisa (Dear Mary), yekuvhara (Vatongi), uye fesita faira inoudza kuti uri ani, zita rako, dhipatimendi, kero yebasa uye nhamba yefoni.

Kuti uwane mirayiridzo yakawanda mukunyora, tarisa Purdue Yunivhesiti yekuRainyorera Rakabha. Ndiyo hurukuro huru. Kuti uwane ruzivo rukuru pamusoro pezvakanyorwa uye zvebhizimisi, Purdue inouya zvakare zvakare. Nhamba iyi ichakutungamirira kune dzimwe nyaya dzakadai seGeneral business business writing , Tsamba, memos uye mishumo , uye Samples uye Models . Zvose zvakakodzera nguva yako.

Kuvimba kuti mazano ari munzvimbo idzi mana achakubatsira iwe kuronga chimiro chemhizha iwe unoda kuti vamwe vaone pamusoro pako, shandisa mazano aya kuti uwedzere basa rako.

Mufananidzo wako unyanzvi hunyanzvi, unofanirwa kuburikidza nokutaura kwako, chiso nekunze misangano, kukurukurirana kwakanyorwa, uye kuonekwa, kuchaguma nemikana yakawanda yekutengesa.

Nhengo dzekugadzira mitambo dzinovaka unyanzvi, pamwe chete kushumira hukama nechinangwa chekubatsira vose vari vaviri kuwana zvigaro. Izwi rinotangira tsanangudzo yeduramazwi: "chirongwa chezvinhu (semitsara kana mitambo) iyo inopinda nenzira yemakumbo mumambure." (Merriam-Webster) Mufananidzo wako nekukurukurirana zvakakosha mukusimudzira kufambisa kwako mitambo.

Vanhu vakagara vachigadzira unyanzvi hwehutano husinganzwisisiki, asi kutarisa mumakore achangopfuura zvakanyanya kuronga kugadzirisa ukama neshamwari dzepamusoro neshamwari neshamwari.

Mubhuku rake, The Tipping Point (enzanisa nheyo), Malcolm Gladwell anorondedzera munhu anoziva vamwe vanhu vazhinji sechibatanidza uye anokwereta vabati pamwe nekufambisa zvakawanda zvekubatana kwevanhu vane mumwe nomumwe.

Zvingave ruzivo rwemudzimai webhizimisi, basa, rekutsvaga rekutsvaga, kana bhuku rakanaka rokuverenga, zvibatanidza kubatsira vamwe kuwana zvavanoda nekubatana nevanhu vasingazivi. Iyi ndiyo nzira iyo iwe unovaka unyanzvi hwehutano.

Izvi zvigaro zvinofanira kupa munhu unyanzvi, ari kutsvaga mikana yekubatanidza, ruzivo rwemashoko anobatsira.

Kana iwe wakabudirira kubudirira mufananidzo unyanzvi kuburikidza nechiso chako-ne-chiso, chakanyorwa, uye chinotaurwa; kuonekwa kwako uye kuvapo kwako, basa rako richawedzera. Ndinovimba nemidziyo iyi ichakubatsira kuenda chero kwaunoda kuenda.