Chipi Chipi Chine Mukana Wokubatana weChirungu Unofanira Kugamuchirwa?

Kana zvose zvikafamba zvakanaka pamubvunzurudzo wako zvakare , iwe uchakurumidza kutarisana nesarudzo yakashata: Ndeupi shamwari yezhizha inopa iwe unofanira kugamuchira?

Kupindura mubvunzo uyu nenzira yakakosha kunokosha nokuti nzira yakaderera-yekutsvaga yekuchengetedza basa mushure mokunge wapedza chikoro chemutemo ndekudzoka kune wakasimba iwe wakanyatsotarisa pa2L. (Haisi mhedziso yakakwana yenyika kana iwe usingadzokeri, asi zvinoita kuti zvinhu zvive nyore.)

Saka, chii chaunofanira kuongorora?

12 Zvinhu Zvokuongorora Kana Uchisarudza Kuti Mupiro Wekudyidzana wezhizha weChirungu Unogamuchira

Iwe uchave uine zvimwe zvinhu zvako zvekuwedzera pane izvi, asi mibvunzo iyi inofanira kukuita iwe kutanga:

  1. Icho chakasimba chiri nani pane rudzi rwemutemo waunoda kuita? Chokutanga uye chakakosha, chinhu chakakosha kufunga pamusoro pekuti tsika iyi inobatsira sei iyo firimu inofanirana nehupenyu hwako. Kana iwe usingazivi kuti ndeupi mutemo waunoda kuita, mubvunzo uyu unogona kuva wakaoma. Asi, tarisiro, nenguva iyo iwe uchiongorora kupiwa, unenge uchiziva chimwe chinhu pamusoro pezvinangwa zvako. Mune mhaka yangu, somuenzaniso, ndaiziva kuti ndaida kuva mutongi. Pasinei neizvi, ini ndakanyora pane imwe nzvimbo inonyanya kuzivikanwa nezvekushanda kwayo. Ichi chakanga chiri kukanganisa - usazviita! Edza kuwana zvakasimba izvo zvaunofunga kuti iwe unoda kuita, uye enda ikoko pamusoro pekambani yakanyatsocherechedzwa kune dzimwe nzvimbo.
  2. Iwe uine simba rakadini raunayo pamusoro pezviitiko zvako zvezhizha? Mubvunzo wakabatana ndihuwandu hwekutonga kwaunenge uine pane zvakaitika kwauri muzhizha. Vamwe vadzidzisi vemitemo vanonyatsoziva mutemo wavanoda kuita, uye vamwe vangada kuedza nzvimbo dzakasiyana. Zvimwe zvirongwa zvezhizha zvakarongeka zvakasiyana, naizvozvo zvakakosha kubvunza pamusoro pehutungamiri hwakawanda huchava nacho pamusoro pemhando yebasa rauchaita. Kana iwe uchida kuparara, purogiramu ine kushanduka zvakananga inogona kuva inonzwisisika. Kana iwe uchiziva kuti wakazvipira kune rumwe rudzi rwemutemo, edza kutsvaga chirongwa chinokuratidza kuti iwe unonyanya kukwanisa kuita basa iroro, panzvimbo yekurima kuti uite maitiro iwe usingafariri zvachose.
  1. Ndeupi muzana wekirasi yemazhizha anowanzowana zvipo zvekusingaperi? Kune nzira dzefemu dzinoshambadza zvipo zvekugovera zvikamu ("inotonhorera," somuenzaniso), asi zvakakosha kana kutarisa kuti zvikamu zvipi zvekirasi yezhizha zvakagamuchirwa kuti zvidzoke. (Unogona kuwana humwe ruzivo urwu mumapato maviri aya pamusoro peMutemo.)
  1. Ivo vane mari yakaoma here? Vadzidzi vakawanda vemitemo vanocherechedza izvi, asi-kana iwe uchifunga nezvekuita basa kwemakore mashanu anotevera - haufaniri kufunga here kana iyo yakasimba ichave yakapoteredza nguva yakadaro? Pachine zvishoma, tarisa Pamusoro peMutemo uye ona kana imwe yezvikambani zvaunofungidzira zvave zvichiita kuti urege kushandira kana kutengesa zvinhu. Uye, nokuda kwechikwereti chakawedzerwa, ingadai iri pfungwa yakanaka yekudziridza chido mumutemo wekodzero yemari!
  2. Vabatsiri vanobhadhara sei? Nenzira, mahofisi emitemo akakwirira aive "akavhara" mubhadharo, unobva paukuru hwevanhu, pane maawa akatengeswa, vatengi vakabva, nezvimwewo. Nedzidziso, makambani aya anowedzera kushanda uye asingakwikwidzi (mileage yako inogona kusiyana). Ichokwadi, zvakadaro, ndeyekuti makambani akasiyana ane huno hwakasiyana. Kana iwe uchibudirira mukukwikwidzana, funga zvakakurumbira "uuraye izvo unodya" zvakasimba. Kana iwe uine rumwe rutivi rwekubvumirana, tsvaga (mashoma) makambani achiri kushandura pakachengetedzwa kwekuvhara.
  3. Vanofara sei shamwari? Zvinonzwisisika, iyo American Lawyer inotsvakurudza BigLaw inosangana gore negore kuti ione kufara kwavari. Iwe unogona kunge uchida kutarisa mitsva yavo, usati waita sarudzo!
  4. Iwe unowanzoita sei kuti iwe uite shamwari? Ichokwadi ndechokuti iwe haunzwisisiki kuti uite shamwari kune imwe yeBirLaw firm mazuva ano, asi zvinowanzove kune vamwe kune vamwe (kana ichi chiri chinangwa chinogona). Tarisa kuti uone kuti vangani vanobatsirana umwe neumwe unofungidzira wakaitwa mune imwe neimwe yemakore mashomanana apfuura (uye vangani vakakurudzirwa mukati, zvichienderana nekuunzwa kubva kunze). Uyewo chengetedza kuti zvikamu zvipi zvaive "zvisina kuenzana" varoorana, chikwata chinowedzera kuwanzana icho chaicho chaicho chibharo "mudiwa" asina danda rekutengesa mubhizinesi.
  1. Basa rinopiwa sei uye rakagoverwa pakati pehama? Paunotaura neshamwari, bvunza kuti basa rakapiwa sei. (Inobvunzurudzo yekutevera mushure mokunge iwe uchipa iyo nzvimbo yakanaka yekubvunza mibvunzo yakadai.) Vanove nekutaura mune avo vanoshanda navo kana rudzi rwebasa ravanoita? Kuzvidzivirira kwakanyanya inowanzo chiratidzo chakanaka!
  2. Nhoroondo yavo sei pakasiyana-siyana? Kazhinji makambani haasi bhesheni yemarudzi akasiyana-siyana, kunyanya mupamusoro. Asi vamwe vanoita zvakanaka kupfuura vamwe. Tarisa pane nhamba asi zvakare tarisa mazano pamusoro pe flex-time, nguva yekuberekwa uye kubuda kwevana, uye rudzi rwehukama hwemagariro nemagadziro aripo.
  3. Unofarira vanhu vamakasangana navo here? Izvi zvakakwana zvachose asi zvinokosha zvakakosha. Iwe unonyatsofarira vanhu wawakambambidzana navo pane zvakasimba here? Ndivo vanhu vamunoda kushanda navo here? Iwe uchange uri kutora nguva yakawanda yevanhu ava, saka edza kuwana zvakanaka zvakakodzera?
  1. Ndezvipi zvinoteerera uye zviri nyore kubata nazvo ndezvazvo? Mune zvishoma zvamunoita nehutungamiri hwakasimba, ivo vakave vachiremekedza uye vanofarira here? Kana zvisingaiti, iyo inogona kuva mutsvuku mutsvuku kuti zvinhu zvinoshamisika (izvo zvinongowedzera kuora mwoyo sezvo nguva inopfuurira uye iwe unonyanya kuzvipira kune ukama husina kunaka).
  2. Ndiyo nzvimbo yaunofunga kuti iwe unoshanda here? Pakupedzisira, iyi ndiyo nzvimbo chaiyo yaunofunga kuti unoita? Kukwezva kwe NYC BigLaw kwakasimba kune vadzidzi vazhinji, uye zvechokwadi inogona kuva nzvimbo inofadza yekurarama kwemwedzi mishomanana, asi zvakakosha kuti uone kana imwe sarudzo yakasiyana inguva yakareba yakareba yakakodzera. Sezvakataurwa pamusoro apa, nzira yekusagadzikana ndeyokudzoka kune yakasimba iwe zhizha pa, saka sarudza nokuchenjera!

Mushure mokunge mafunga mibvunzo iyi, uye chero ipi zvayo inoratidzika yakakosha kwauri, zvinganzwisisika kuita imwe shanyi kune firms iwe uri kunyatsofungisisa, saka iwe unogona kubvunza chero mibvunzo iripo. Izvi ndizvo zvakanakisisa, uye kubhadhara kwako kunowanzofara kugadzira zvinyorwa zvekare, zvakagadzirirwa kumarudzi evanhu waunoda kutaura navo.

Rombo rakanaka! Zvadaro, chii chinoitika muhurongwa hwekushandura muzhizha , uye kuti unogona sei kuwedzera mikana yako yekugamuchira chipiro chekudzoka sechikwata chenguva yakazara.