Zvechokwadi Nhau dzeBasa Rinokuvadza
Bullying Stories
Pasi pane zvitatu kuvhiringidza nyaya dzechokwadi. Iyi nyaya dzinoratidza kukanganisa kunokonzera kudzvinyirira uye kuratidza kuti vanhu vakasiyana-siyana vanodheererwa vakashandura sei kushungurudzwa kwebasa .
Bonnie Russell: Triumphing Over Workplace Bhuku
"Mushure mokunge mutevedzeri wangu ari oga wepamutemo kuparidzira mushizha akaisa maoko ake kwandiri mukutsamwa uye akandidzinga kunze kwehofisi yake, ndakadana mapurisa. Pamberi pevatengesi vose vanotengesa, ndakatanga hurukuro na," Ndinoda kurondedzera kushungurudzwa, "ndokubva atapa mashoko acho.Vashandi vakaita nokukurumidza.
"Kunyange zvazvo mutungamiri mukuru aive akavaka imwe nzvimbo, akazosvika mumaminitsi maviri.Ange ataura nemunhu anodheerera, uyo akabvuma zvaakaita, akandikumbira kunze kuti ataure." Uri kuitei nekambani yangu? "Akandiudza ane hasha kwandiri." Izvi hazvirevi nekambani yako, "Ndakati, kufanana nekutaura kwake.Kuziva kuti ndaiva nechokuita kwenguva uye kushamiswa parutivi rwangu, yaiva nguva yangu yekushamiswa apo mukuru weGurukota akacheka kunditsvaga nokundibvunza kuti chii chaizotora kuti ndikudzivise kudana kune mapurisa.Ndakamuudza kuti aparadze uyo anodheerera uye akaita pakarepo. "
Angela Anderson: Akadzingwa neBurly
"Ndakashanda kuMutemo weChikoro Admission Council, kambani inotungamirira LSAT .
Mubati wangu haana kumbofarira ini uye nei akandibhadhara ini hachiri pachena. Akandinyadzisa zvikuru, achindidanidzira pamberi pevandaishanda navo, achityisidzira basa rangu ari oga muhofisi yake, uye achideredza kushamwaridzana nevashandi. Akabata vanhu zvakafanana mune mamwe madhipatimendi, achidanidzira kwavari mumisangano. Ndakaedza kumunyaradza kusvikira atyisidzira basa rangu, panguva iyo ini ndakagadzira tsamba kuvanhu .
Ndakamupa ruremekedzo rwokumuudza kuti ndaienda kuH HR, uye akandidzinga ndisati ndawana mukana wekutumira kunyunyuta. Nokuda kweizvi, ini handina kumubvumidza pamutemo kana kambani uye handigoni kubvunza kutsiva. "
Natalie K. Camper, Ph.D., Mugadziri & Mutungamiri, The Bully-Proof Company: Kuvhiringidzika Kunofuridzira Bhizimisi Idzva
"Kushungurudzwa kwakaitika pandakanga ndava nemakore gumi nemasere uye ndaizvikudza zvikuru nebasa rangu idzva.Ipapo pane dzimwe nguva apo ndakanga ndasvikirwa nevarume vaviri vakasiyana.Iye aiva mubati wangu uyo akaedza kunditengesa uye akandibata sezvo ndakabuda kubva pasi pake maoko uye akadzokera kuchigaro changu.Izvi zvakaitika kakawanda uye ini ndakataura uye handina kuita chinhu.Ndakanga ndisingazivi zvokutaura kana kuita.Ndakagara nebasa iri muzhizha uye ndangotarisana neshamwari dzangu dzandiudza kuti ndiite.
"Zvino pakange pane murume uyo bhizinesi rake rakanga riri pasi pasi." Rimwe zuva akauya kwandiri patafura yangu akati, "Ndangoona bundu pamuzamu wemudzimai wangu. Ndakataurira zvakare kana kuti handina kuita chinhu, chii chakanga chiripo kuti ndiite? Izvi zvaive zvisati zvaitika mushure mekusarura kusarura zvakabudiswa.Akabvunzwa kuti kushungurudzwa kwepabonde kwakadanwa tisati tava nezita rayo, Gloria Steinem akati, 'Wakatumidza kuti Upenyu.' Kwakange kusina mitemo yekudzivirira vanotambudzwa kubva kumabasa ekudzvinyirira .
"Pandakavhiringidzwa nemakore gumi nemasere ndakangogara nayo uye ndakachengeta musoro wangu pasi." Kubhadharo yangu yakanaka, murume akanaka, mhando dzakakwirira pamusoro pangu maererano nezera uye ruzivo, aizoita zvemashiripiti uye aipindira kwandiri. yezvisikwa zvekuti apo bhizimisi mukuru aindinyorera ini uye aizomuvhiringidza.
"Pashure pemakore makumi maviri nemakumi maviri nemakumi maviri nemanomwe evashandi vekuUnited States vakati ivo vakadzvinyirirwa kana vakaona chiitiko chinodheerera kubasa, icho chinowedzera kusvika kumamiriyoni 73 evanhu. "