Tora Zvaunofunga Zvisinganzwisisiki Kuti Uwane Huri Nani, Zvimwe Zvakakodzera Vashandi
Asi, sezvakataurwa naPressner, akanga asina chaanoda. Akacherechedza izvi paakaona kuti akanga aporesa chikumbiro chemukomana wevarume kuti atarise mari yake yakasiyana kusiyana nechikumbiro chakafanana kubva kumudzimai wechikadzi akafanana nechikumbiro.
Akanga achifunga nezvake semhare kumadzimai muutungamiri asi akaziva panguva iyoyo kuti akazvibata zvakasiyana pane zvaaifunga kuti aizozviita. Zvichida, iwe wakafanana nekusada kuziva.
Chii Chisinganzwisisiki?
The Equality Challenge Unit inotsanangura kusafarirwa kwekusaziva sezvinotevera:
"Kusarura kwakakwana kana kusaziva kunoitika kuburikidza nehutano hwedu huchiita kutonga kunoshamisa nokukurumidza uye kuongororwa kwevanhu uye mamiriro asi isu tisingazivi. Kuda kwedu kunokonzerwa nemamiriro edu ezvinhu, mamiriro ezvemutsika, uye zviitiko zvedu. Tingave tisingatombozivi nezvemaonero aya nemafungiro, kana kuti tinyatsoziva zvavanoita uye zvakakwana. "
Munhu wose anouya patafura asina chaanoziva, uye anogona kuchinja zvakanyanya matanho aunoita nekugadzirira, pasina iwe unomboziva kuti izvo zvisingazivikanwi zvinokonzera zvisarudzo zvako.
Maitiro Asinganzwisisi Anogadzirisa Sei Kuongorora Kuongorora
Vazhinji vanoshandira mari vanopedza zvishoma kweminiti vasati varamba kudzoka kana kusarudza kuidzidzazve.
Kubvunzurudza kwakakurumidza kunoreva kuti kusava nechokwadi kwedu kunenge kuri kutamba.
Chirongwa chakazivikanwa muna 2003 chinonzi "Are Emily naGreg More Vakashanda kupfuura Lakisha naJamal here? Munda Unofunga Nezvemabhizimisi Emakambani Kusarura "kwakawanikwa kuti vanhu vane mazita e" Black "mazita vakanga vasingagoni kuwana mhinduro kunezvezve munhu ane zita rainzi" White ".
Icho chakanga chiri nguva refu yapfuura, kunyange, uye zvichida zvinhu zvakashanduka. Ivo, asi kwete kutsigira. Chidzidzo che 2016 chakawana kuti misiyano iyi yakanga yanyangarika, asi kune mavhavha ane simba: vakashandura mazita ekutanga mukudzidza. Vakashandisa Washington neJefferson sezita rekupedzisira kune vatevedzeri vemaBlack, Anderson uye Thompson kune vatsva veVhite White, naGarcia naHernandez kuvadzidzi veSpain.
Asi, mazita okutanga eVhite White uye Black aiva mazita anozivikanwa muMuzinda weVhite (Megan naBrian kune vatsva veVhite White naCloe naRyan kune vanyori veBlack).
Saka, zvakashata zvakanyangarika here , kana vanhu vasingatombozivi kuti 90 muzana ye "Washingtons" uye 75 muzana ye "Jeffersons" yakasviba? Asi vaMexico vaida, zvisinei, vakanga vaine mazita okutanga eSpain: Isabella naCarlos. Chidzidzo chacho hachina kuwana cherozve kusarura kwevadzidzi veMichelin, kana ichienzaniswa nevatsva vatsvene.
Asi, nhangemutange haisi yega inogona kukanganisa iyo iwe unonyatsoona . Zera uye zvepabonde zvinosanganawo nekutadza kwedu kusingazivi .
Munhu akangwara ane makore makumi matatu ezvakaitika pakurongwa kwake anowanzove akwegura kudarika mubati wemakore ane makore mashanu. Munhu ane chireji yekoroji kubva muna 1982 angangove akwegura kupfuura imwe nedhigiri kubva muna 2013.
Imwe Jennifer inenge yakagadziriswa kuva mukadzi apo Steven anenge ava nechokwadi chokuti ave murume. Kunyange pasina misi, unogona kufungidzira kuti Jennifer akakura kudarika Emma, ​​zvichienderana nokuzivikanwa kwezita panguva dzakasiyana.
Kusanzwisisika Kwemabhuku Mukubvunzurudza
"Mukomana, ane shungu chaizvo, haasi iye here?"
"Ane chivimbo pamusoro pehuchenjeri hwake! Ini ndakada maitiro ake akatipikisa! "
Iwe unogona kuita mazwi maviri aya pamusoro pevadzidzi vaviri vanoita nenzira yakafanana, asi unogona kutarisira zvinhu zvakasiyana kubva kune varume nevakadzi.
Kana mumwe munhu apinda uye ari pachena kwazvo kuwandisa, unofungisisa here kuti ane usimbe?
Kana mumwe munhu anouya ari nechacheya, unoshamisika kuti acharamba sei nebasa rako rinokurumidza kufamba?
Zvaunofunga zvisinganzwisisiki zvinokurudzira maonero aunoona nekududzira zvose izvo munhu anozviti anotaura kana anoita.
Iwe unofanirwa kutarisa munhu akange agere pamberi pako uye asingatenderi nhoroondo yako uye zvakaitika kuti zvigadzire kutonga kwako.
Nzira Yokugadzirisa Zvaunofunga Zvisina Kuziva
Hazvibviri kuzvibvisa kubva munhoroondo yako uye tsika yako , hongu, asi kuziva kukosha kwako ndiyo danho rokutanga. Pressner akauya nemhinduro inoshanda chaizvo. Anoritumidza kuti "Flip it to test it."
Kana iwe ukashevedza mukadzi wechikwata ane utsinye kuti ataure zvakasimba pamari, flip iyo kuti uedze kana iwe uchizopa tsanangudzo imwechete kumunhu akaoma-bargaining. Kana iwe uchifunga, "mukomana uyo anopfuura kuwandisa muviri anofanira kunge ane usimbe," flip kuti uedze. Kana iwe usingadi kungofunga kuti munhu ane bvudzi aiva munhu ane usimbe, saka ndizvo zvaunofunga zvinokambaira.
Kana iwe ukati, " Tinofanira kukwereta vamwe vakadzi " flip iyo uye vanoti "tinoda kukandira varume vakawanda." Kana iyo mhedziso yekupedzisira inonzwika zvepabonde, unoziva kuti chirevo chekutanga chinonzi sexist.
Uyu muedzo hausi wepakati pehutano nemafungiro evanhukadzi. "Uyu mubvunzo anofanira kunge ari nani pane imwe nokuti akaenda kuHarvard uye mumwe akaenda kuOhio State." Flip iyo uye funga nezvazvo.
Hungu, unoziva kuti mumwe munhu aenda kuHarvard ane zvidzidzo zvishoma zvidzidzo asi iwe hauna zivo kana muyoti weOhio State aine zvidzidzo zvakafanana zvedzidzo uye akaita sarudzo yakasiyana. Iwe haunawo pfungwa kana zvidzidzo zvedzidzidzo, madigiri, kana kusarudzwa kwemahofisi anoita kuti mupiriridzi akanaka mubasa rauri kupa kuti uzadze.
Kana iwe uchitendera kusava nehanya kwako kusanganisa kusarudza kwako, iwe uchasara kune vakawanda vanozvitsvaga uye unomira mukana wekubhadhara mushandi uyo anoongorora zvose zvako zvakanaka kodzero dzebhokisi asi haagoni kuita basa.