Kukosha kweMentor Role
Mupi anopa mazano anobudirira ndiye anogona kukanganisa-muiti mumabasa evanhu vaanoshanda.
Vakawanda vashandi vanobudirira vanotaura kune mumwe munhu akaisa nguva, simba uye rubatsiro mukuvabatsira kufamba nenzira inoita muupenyu hwavo.
Ini pachangu, ndinotaura kune vadzidzisi vaviri vanoshamisa vakashandisa nguva mukushanda neni kuti vandibatsire kukura semutungamiri munyika yekambani uye semudzidzisi wevatungamiri munyika yezvidzidzo. Mukuona, ndinoona hukama ihwohwo se "mahwendefa mumugwagwa" parwendo rwangu rwomweya, uko rubatsiro rwevadzidzisi ava rwakandibvumira kuti ndive nechokuita nenzira itsva iyo ingadai yakavharwa kwandiri.
Sei Uchishumira seMentor
Kune avo vakabatsirwa nemubatsiri anobatsira muupenyu hwavo kana mabasa, pane kazhinji kacho kunotyisa kwakasimba kubhadhara izvi mberi kune vamwe nekushanda mubasa rimwechete. Chiito chekubatsira mumwe munhu kukura, kukura nekufamba zvipingamupinyi zvehupenyu nemabasa zvinoshamisa zvikuru. Vaya vanopa rubatsiro urwu semupi wezano vanobatanidzwa mukuzvipira kusina udyire, pasina tarisiro yekudzoka kana mubhadharo.
Mukuwedzera kune ruzivo rwawakazvipa iwe pakutsigira mumwe munhu, kudzidza kudzidza semuongorori unhu hwehutano uye hwehutano hunoita kuti iwe ufungisise pamusoro pezviito zvako uye maitiro pane nguva. Mumwe muongorori kwenguva yakareba akati, "Mukuedza kubatsira vaduku nevasina ruzivo, ndaifanira kufungisisa uye kudzidza kubva pane zvangu kukanganisa nekukanganisa."
Ziva kuti kune nzira dzakasiyana-siyana dzokutanga seMentor
Mentori anotora maitiro akawanda nemafomu muupenyu hwedu. Kubva kune mudzidzisi anotitinhira zvakaoma kuti tiwedzere mumusoro kumudzidzisi uyo anotibatsira kuziva nekutsaurira uye basa rakaoma rinotora kuti ribudirire, ava vanhu vanga vari vanyori mune chokwadi, kwete mumusoro. Iwe unogona kushanda semuongorori kubva kune dzimwe nzvimbo dzakawanda muupenyu hwako uye kune vateereri vakawanda.
Bvuma Kuti Basa reMentor Rashanduka
Basa rekupa mazano rinopomerwa nekubatsira vanhu kufunga nezvesarudzo huru uye mazano mumabasa avo. Muongorori anogona kupa nyeredzi inokura mazano ekuvandudza sechirongwa nekuwedzera hutungamiri hwake hune simba. Mumwe mudzidzisi angatarisira nyaya dzakanaka dzekuita kuti akubatsire kusimbisa kana kukura; mutevedzeri unokubatsira nekambasi mirayiridzo yemapu yebasa rako.
Tora Nhamba Yenzira Yako Yenyu, Kusanganisira Zvikanganiso Zvako Penguva
Chiito chekufungisisa pane zvose zvipo uye zvikanganiso zvinotsigira kukura kwako nekukura kwehutano uye kunokugadzirira iwe kubatana nemumwe munhu achaita zvikanganiso zvake uye nekuzvigadzirira kukunda kwake.
Tsvaga Maonero Ako Nezvinobudirira Zvinoita Sekuita Mentor
Chikoro chako hachina kunyanya kufambidzana nekufambira mberi kwemazuva ako kwementee uye zvose zvaunofanira kuita nekunaya kwepfungwa kunobatanidzwa kwako uye kutungamirirwa kunopa kune mumwe munhu.
Muzviitiko zvizhinji, hauzombozivi zvakakosha zvekutsigirwa kwako. Yeuka, ukama huri pamusoro pako.
Unhu Hwakawanda Hwakatanga Kutanganisa kana "Yomunhu"
Ndakatora mentees kuburikidza nokucherechedza uye kubatana nevamwe vanhu vasiri kunze kwekutonga kwangu kunongoratidzwa. Pane imwe nguva, ndakapa rumbidzo kune unyanzvi wechidiki akajeka mushure mokutaura uye izvi zvakaita kuti pave nehurukuro yekukurukurirana iyo pakupedzisira yakashandurwa kuva hukama husingagumi asi huripo kwenguva refu hwakapfurikidza makambani akawanda uye shanduko kuchinja kwe isu tose.
Kana Simba Rako Kana Sangano Rine Chirongwa Chekunyora Chimiro, Nyora!
Mamwe masangano ane unhu hwakakura kwazvo we-on-boarding vatsva vatsva uye achashanda kuenzanidza navo vane mentees anofarira. Shandisa chero ipi zvayo uye zvose zvinowanikwa zviripo kutsigira izvi.
Tarisa Kupfuura Iwe Wako Wakasimba
Funga kutarisa kune masangano kunze, kusanganisira kwete-kune-pfuma, masangano echitendero, uye mamwe masangano evechidiki. Kune zvakawanda zveizvi, iwe unofanirwa kutarisira kuenderera mberi chekuongorora yakatarisana usati wagamuchirwa semuongorori.
Rongedza Zvakamirira Zvakakodzera
Tanga nekutsanangura basa rako nekuzvidavirira kwehukama uye kurukura zvakafanana kune mentee. Iva nechokwadi chokuti munhu wacho anonzwisisa musiyano pakati pekudzidzisa nekudzidzisa.
Iva Nenguva Yokuziva Mukuziva
Bvunza mibvunzo yako pamusoro pemamiriro ake ezvinhu, dzidzo uye tarisiro dzenguva refu nekurota. Taura zvishoma nezvenyaya yako, zvisinei, usabatwa mune imwe nhoroondo refu pamusoro pebasa rako. Ukama uhwu huri pamusoro pe mentee, uye chinangwa chako chinofanira kunge chiri kuedza kuratidza zvinangwa. Chimwe chikamu chebasa rako ndiko kubatsira munhu kuti agadzire mapepa kubva kuhurumende yezvino kusvika mune ramangwana kana huchida hurumende.
Ramba Uine Nguva Yese, asi Usingaregi Kukurukurirana
Yeuka, iwe hausi mupi wezuva nezuva wepfungwa shoma shoma kana dambudziko rako mentee encounters. Chinangwa chako chiri pamufananidzo mukuru uye kwenguva refu. Kamwe ukama hwakatanga uye shure kwekukurukurirana kwemazana ekutanga, ndakaona kuti kusangana kwegore negore kunopa huwandu hwakanaka hwekufambisa uye mari.
Pakukurukurirana kwako, shandisa mibvunzo yakawanda uye yakasununguka kuti uite hurukuro. Semuenzaniso, chimbofunga:
- "Uri kuzviita sei?"
- "Iwe unoda kutaura nezvei?"
- "Wadzidzei nenzira yakaoma munguva ichangopfuura?"
- "Unozoita sei izvi zviri nani munguva yemberi?"
- "Wakaita chii mumwedzi wapfuura kudzidza kana kukura?"
- "Unoda kuitei mune nguva inouya?"
Mibvunzo inogadziriswa inokurudzira mentee yako kufungisisa uye kuratidza maonero pamusoro pezvinhu zvinokosha uye vanokupa mhedziso yakawedzerwa yemamwe mibvunzo uye mazano.
Ramba Chido Chokupa Mirayiridzo Yakananga
Kana zvichidikanwa, shandisa mubvunzo wenyika wakajeka wokudzidzisa: "Unofungei kuti iwe unofanira kuitei?" Shandisa mentee yako kuti ufunge nezvenyaya uye uvandudze pfungwa dzavo. Munzvimbo dzakawanda, iwe unofanirwa kubvumira munhu wacho kuti aende uye aise pfungwa yake pachake uye avabvunze kuti vagovere migumisiro uye zvidzidzo zvakadzidzwa pane imwe nguva inotevera.
The Bottom Line
Kushumira semupi wezano zvose zvinokomborera uye zvinotsigira kukura kwako semunhu uye unyanzvi. Ngwarira kuti urege kuzviputira nehukama hwakawandisa: imwe kana mbiri ingave iyo yose yaunogona kubata iwe uchichengeta basa rako pachako. Kushivirira neuchenjeri imhando mbiri dzevanokurudzira zvikuru. Yeuka izvi apo iwe unotanga basa iri rinokosha pakutsigira vamwe.
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