Mumamiriro ezvinhu akaipisisa, kubatanidza bhizimisi uye kufara kungaita kuti kutsvaga, kusingadi kuwanikwa kwebasa - vanhu vanogona kubudiswa nekuda kweukama hwemabasa kana kuti kumanikidzwa kusiya basa nekuda kwehukama hwakashata.
Izvozvo zvakati, rudo rwehofisi dzinoitika. (Ingobvunza Bill naMelinda Gates, vakasangana nebasa racho.) Zvichienzaniswa nenguva yakawanda yevanhu vanopedza basa, hazvishamisi kuti vanhu vangave vachikuvara kana kuwira murudo.
Kana ukama hwako hutsva hunosanganisira mushandi pamwe chete, iva nechokwadi chokuti ofisi yako yerudo haina kukanganisa nebasa rako - kana rako rinokosha kune rimwe! Heano mazano edu akakwirira, ane mazano kubva kuna Peter Handal, mutungamiri, CEO, uye sachigaro weDale Carnegie Training.
Mazano Okubata Ihofisi Romudo
Iva chaizvo, chaizvoizvo. Usati wapinda muukama, iva nechokwadi chekuti inoshanda chaiye. Uri kubatana pamusoro pechirongwa chakasimba chinoda usiku hwekupedzisira kubasa kana kugoverana kushungurudzika kumubati, kana iwe une hukama hunoenderera kunze kwehofisi? Iva nechokwadi kuti unoziva mhinduro kumubvunzo iwoyo usati watanga ukama hwepamuviri.
Tarisa mazano emakambani . Kana uchinge uine ukama newaunoshanda naye - kana, zvakanaka, usati hwave hukama huripo - uverengere kumusoro kwemitemo yekambani pamusoro pekuroorana nevashandi.
Makambani akawanda makuru uye maduku ane zvakaoma uye anotsvaga mitemo inopesana nehukama huri kukura pakati pevashandi. Kana zvichipesana nemitemo, unofanira kuzvibvunza: "Zvakakosha here?" Uye, kana ukama huri kubvumirwa, ivai vakangwara uye gadzirirai chero migumisiro. Zvichienderana nekambani, dhipatimendi rako revanhu rinogona kukuda iwe kuti usayine chibvumirano, udzivise vatungamiri kana vashandi pamwe chete, kana kutevera mamwe mitemo kana mitemo.
Ramba uchikudzwa uye unyanzvi . Usarega hukama hune rudo hunochinja hutano uye kubudirira kwebasa rako. Pasi pepamusoro: Haufaniri kuchengetedza ukama hwako chinhu chakavanzika, asi iwe haudi kuve nezvakadaro zvichiratidzira kuti zvinokonzera vamwe vako kusagadzikana. Kunyanya, kana kune uchapupu hwekuti hofisi yehofisi inobata basa, umwe kana iwe mose mungabvunzwa kugumisa rudo rwako kana, zvakanyanya zvakadaro, tsvaka rimwe basa.
Kunze kwekudzivisa kuratidzira kuratidzwa kwehutano pahofisi, edzawo kuziva kuti vashandi vese vanogona kunge vari kutarisira kusarura. Iwe hauzombodi kuti mushandi pamwe chete wako afunge, "Joanne ari kungobvumirana neurongwa hwaJosea nokuti vari kufambidzana." Dzivisa kugara pedyo nemumwe mumisangano, kudya kwemasikati pamwechete zuva rega rega, kana kuita zvakakwana semumwe. Uye, usatumira maunyopi ega ega uchishandisa akaunti yako yebasa.
Dzivisa kufambidzana nomumwe munhu pane imwe nzvimbo yakakwirira kana pasi . Hofisi yezvematongerwo enyika uye hurumende inofanira kuva yepamusoro-ye-pfungwa, zvikurukuru kana ichiuya kune mahofisi ehofisi. Kusarudza kusungurudzika nemumwe mushandi pamwe chete - kunyanya mumwe pane imwe nzvimbo yakasiyana-siyana - kunogona kuchinja zvakanyanya mubhadharo wako kana kufamba mukati mekambani yako. Kunyanya kutengesa kwako ndekudzivisa kufambidzana nevanhu vamunoshanda navo nguva dzose.
Chengetedza rudo rwacho kunze kwehofisi . Hazvina mhosva kuti iwe unonzwa sei murudo, haufaniri kuva nehuwandu hwekuratidza rudo kune unoshanda. Gara kune unhu humwe unyanzvi nehumwe hunokosha kune imwe nzvimbo kubasa raunenge uine chero umwe mushandi pamwe chete. Izvozvo zvinoreva kuti hapana kubata maoko, kusina kutsvoda, kwete mazita okuda ane rudo, uye zvechokwadi hapana supply closet liaisons.
Taura nezvemashure maawa-awa . Usambofa, uchingorwisana kana kukakavara kubasa. Chero kusagadzikana kupi zvako kunofanira kuitwa kune kunze kwehofisi.
Purogiramu yakaipa . Bvumirana mukutanga kwehukama hwekuti iwe uchagadzirisa sei zvingaita kuparara. Dzivisa, chero zvese, dambudziko rinoputsa. Haisi iwe iwe nemumwe wako waunobatanidzwa, iyo yose yehofisi yako uye remangwana rekuita zvekufambisa kwekambani. Uye, kana iwe ukasarudza kuti mumwe-kana kuti zvose-iwe unoda kuenderera mberi, ita izvi maererano nemitemo yako.
Tanga basa kutsvaga usati waita uye usapa rudo rwako rudo sechikonzero chekusiya apo iwe unobvunzurudza.
Funga nezvekusiya kambani. Kana ukama hwacho hukava hwakakomba, nhengo imwe inofanira kuongorora nzvimbo itsva kunze kwekambani.
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