Nzira Yokuvaka Nhoroondo Pamusangano weAvhangeri
Kunyange zvazvo nguva dzose zvichikosha kuti uve neruremekedzo uye unyanzvi, kugadzira ukama nemubvunzurudzo wako zvakare chinhu chinokosha pakubudirira. Kana mubvunzurudzo achinzwa ukama hwenyu semunhu, angave akanzwa zvakanaka pamusoro pokukubhadhara somushandi.
Mushure mezvose, vashandi vanotarisa vashandi vanobatana nekubudirira nevashandi pamwe chete, vatengi, uye vatariri, uye zvechokwadi, munhu wose anoda kushanda munzvimbo inonakidza kuva zuva rimwe nerimwe.
Kana iwe ukakundikana kuwirirana nemubvunzurudzo wako panguva yemubvunzurudzo, iye angafungidzira kuti iwe haungatauri zvakanaka nevamwe kune basa kana iwe wakabhadhara, saka zvakakosha kuita chimiro chakanaka.
Saizvozvowo, kubvunzurudza kwekubvunzurudza kwako kunofanira kupfuurira kupfuura zvaunotaura pamusangano wako. Iwe unofanirwawo kufunga nezvenzira yaunofanirana nayo kune mubvunzurudzo wako pamunhu. Aya mazano anotevera achakubatsira kuti uwedzere humwe hutano hwebvunzurudzo yako.
12 Mazano Okubatana Nomubvunzi Wako
- Tanga hurukuro iyo nzira yakarurama. Kwazisai muchengeti wenyu muchidimbu sekuti iye ari munhu waunotarisira kusangana. Taura chimwe chinhu chine "Saka kufara kukusangana newe" sezvaunoshandura zvakasimba asi kwete kushungurudza maoko. Heino nzira yekuzvizivisa iwe pabasa rekubvunzurudza.
- Iva noushamwari uye munhu akanaka. Smile uye usunungure huni hwemunhu pazvinenge zvakakodzera pamusangano wako. Ivai vechokwadi mune zvamunofambidzana uye ratidza manzwiro akanaka pamusoro pechigaro uye nekambani. Vabvunzurudza vanowanzoona vanhu vanovhiringidzika zvakanaka, saka zvakakosha kuva nechido uye chivimbo.
- Ratidza kufarira kwako kumunhu pamwe chete nebasa racho . Ratidza kufarira mubvunzurudzo wako panguva yechikamu chekudziya-gara rehurukuro yako nekubvunza mibvunzo pamusoro pavo. Kuita hurukuro duku zvishoma mushure mokubvunza mubvunzo kunotanga kunogona kubatsira kuisa mubvunzurudzo wako nyore nyore. Mibvunzo yakaita "Wakashanda kwenguva yakareba sei ?," "Wakamboitawo mamwe mabasa panzvimbo yakasimba here?" Kana kuti "Unotora nguva yakareba sei?" inogona kubatsira kubvisa mubvunzurudzo wako.
- Itai kuti ive yega. Pazvinenge zvakakodzera, igovera ruzivo rwako pachako pamusoro pako. Kuzarura zvimwe zvekunaka kwako kunze kana ruzivo rwemashure kunogona kubatsira mubvunzurudzo achireva iwe semunhu.
- Yeuka zvakanaka kugadzirisa. Gara wakananga uye urerere mberi zvishoma mberi kune vabvunzurudzo vako kuti uite navo uye kuratidza kufarira mune zvavari kutaura.
- Kutarisa kweziso kunokosha. Ita kakawanda asi kwete kuvhara ziso kumubvunzurudza kuratidza kuti uri kunyatsoteerera.
- Ratidza kufarira kwako. Nod uye nekushingaira kuratidza kuti uri kuterera nokutaura zvinhu zvakadai se "Ndinoona," "Ndinonzwisisa," "Inzwa zvakanaka," uye tevera nemibvunzo kana yakakodzera.
- Ngwarira munhu wose. Munowanzobvunzurudza mamiriro ezvinhu, iva nechokwadi chekuparidzira kutarisa kwako kumunhu mumwe nomumwe. Zvakakosha kugadzira hukama hwakanaka nemunhu wese anobvunzurudza, kwete chete nevaya vamunonzwa semakemikari chaiwo. Heino nzira yekubata nayo hurukuro yeboka .
- Ratidza kuti unozviwana. Kunyatsotsanangura mashoko anokosha kana akaoma anopiwa nemubvunzurudzo wako kuratidza kuti unonzwisisa pfungwa yake.
- Bvunza nezvekambani tsika. Ratidza kuti iwe unofarira mukambani yekambani , kana kuburikidza nekubvunza mubvunzo wekutevera kana kutanga mubvunzo iwe pachako, kuitira kuti mubvunzurudzo wako aone iwe unofarira kuva chikamu cheboka. Somuenzaniso, unogona kubvunza kuti, "Ndezvipi zvakafanana pakati pevashandi ?," "Vashandi pamwe chete vanoungana pamwe chete kunze kwehofisi here ?," kana, "Iwe unopa chero mikana yekubatanidza kambani kana kufamba?"
- Ongai vanyori vekubvunzurudza. Ratidza kuonga kwako kwechokwadi kwenguva yavo uye kunzwisisa kwavakapa apo iwe wapedza hurukuro.
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