Vazhinji vashandi vanofunga kuti unyanzvi hunoita kuti huve hunokosha kune vashandi. Mumwe munhu ane unyanzvi hwekushandira pamwe anogona kushanda zvakanaka nevamwe, ndiye mutambi wemutambo akanaka, uye anotaurirana zvinobudirira.
Nokuti hutano hwevanhu hwakakosha zvikuru, tarisira zvimwe mibvunzo miviri yekubvunzurudza pamusoro pehutano hwako.
Verenga pasi apa kuti uwane mazano ekuti ungapindura sei mibvunzo pamusoro pehutano hwevanhu. Uyewo ona mhinduro yemibvunzo yakajairika pamusoro peyanyanzvi, uye sarudzo dzemhinduro.
Kukosha Kwemibvunzo Yomumwe Munhu
Anoshanda anoshanda anogadzirisa zvinetso, anogadzirisa kukakavadzana, uye anotsanangura kugadzirisa mhinduro. Anokwanisa kuita izvi kuburikidza neunyanzvi hwevanhu. Unyanzvi uhwu hahuna unyanzvi hunooma hwaunogona kuverenga uye huchiyera, sekuita unyanzvi hwekushandisa pakombiyuta kana ruzivo rwepamutemo. Pane kudaro, ivo vane unyanzvi hwakadzika - unhu kana maitiro ayo munhu anoratidza.
Kunyange zvazvo vashandi vebasa vangave vanoziva, vakawanda vanoedza kubata mumapoka akasiyana-siyana, saka zvakakosha kuwana vashandi vanogona kushanda pamwe chete. Nokudaro, mibvunzo yevamwe vanhu inofanirwa kujekesa kana basa risina basa rakakosha unyanzvi hwakakosha.
Vashandi vari kutsvaga nzvimbo dzenyu dzisina simba. Kana iwe uine dambudziko nemakakatanwa ako , somuenzaniso, icho chiratidzo chokuti haugoni kuparadzanisa zvido zvako nebasa, nyaya huru kune imwe nzvimbo yebasa.
Zvakakosha kukwanisa kuisa miganhu yakasimba pakati pebasa rako nehupenyu hwako.
Mazano ekupindura Mhinduro dzeMibvunzo
Gadzirira mhinduro pamberi penguva. Ongorora mibvunzo yakafanana yevamwe vanhu mberi kwenguva, uye ita maitiro ako. Ichakubatsira kuve nechokwadi chokuti une maverengedzero anecdotes anofungidzirwa akagadzirira kupindura chero mibvunzo yekubvunzurudza.
Iwe unogonawo kuderedza pasi runyorwa rwemibvunzo yaunogadzirira nokutanga kugadzira runyoro rweunyanzvi hunokosha hunodiwa rwebasa. Tarisa kumashure kwebasa rakatarisa uye denderedzwa chero humwe unyanzvi huripo hunotaurwa. Iva nechokwadi chekugadzirira anecdote inoratidza kuti une humwe hutano hunyanzvi hunodiwa mubasa.
Shandisa mienzaniso chaiyo. Paunopindura mibvunzo pamusoro pehutano hwako, kushandisa mienzaniso yakakosha inokosha. Chero ani zvake anogona kutaura kuti ivo vane dambudziko guru-solvers; asi kana uine muenzaniso wekushandisa kwaunoita kunze kwe-bhokisi kufungidzira kutsvaga zvingasarudzwa uye kusarudza pane imwe nzira yakakodzera yekuita, iwe unotarisa zvakanyanya kuvimbika.
Funga kushandisa shanduro yekuita kuti upindure mibvunzo. Iyo nzira inobatsira yekupindura mibvunzo yekubvunzurudza iyo yaunofanira kupindura neanecdote. Chokutanga, tsanangura mamiriro ako aive (iwe waive uchishanda panguva iyo?). Zvadaro, tsanangura basa rakananga kana dambudziko rawakatarisana naro. Zvadaro, tsanangura zvawakaita kuti ugadzirise chinetso kana kupedza basa racho. Pakupedzisira, tsanangura migumisiro yezviito zvako (wakapedza kubudirira iwe pachako here? Tende rako? Yambani yako?).
Ratidza maitiro ako. Mukati pebvunzurudzo, unogonawo kuratidza unyanzvi hwako hwehutano mumabatiro aunoita nemubvunzurudzo .
Kubva paunotanga kusimbisa ruoko nekunyomba kumanzwiro ako kunyatsoteerera kumibvunzo yekubvunzurudzwa, mutauro wako uye mutauro unogona kubatsira kuratidza kuti iwe uri munhu anofunga, ane ushamwari anowirirana nevamwe.
Mibvunzo Inowirirana Nevamwe uye Mhinduro Dzakanaka
- Ndiudzei nezvenguva apo waifanira kushanda nemumwe waunoshanda naye wausingadi kana kuvimba naye. Chinokosha kumubvunzo uyu ndechokuti usaisa pfungwa pane zvakaipa kana kupa mhosva mumwe waunoshanda naye. Pane kudaro, funga nezvekuva nyanzvi. Taurira waanoshandira kuti unoziva kuti havasi vashandi vese vanozova shamwari dzakanakisisa, asi zvakakosha kuti tive nekwanisi kushamwaridzana nevanhu vose. Ratidza kuti unogadzirisa sei kusawirirana kwako.
- Rondedzera kukakavara kubasa. Zvakare, usaisa mhosva kune ani zvake. Ratidza kuti kusabvumirana kwakabva kupi, kuti chii chakanga chiri, uye kuti chii chawakafunga. Simbisai kuti makashanda sei nekugadzirisa kugadzirisa nyaya yacho uye kuti chii chakazoguma.
- Kana iwe uine vashandi vanokuudza kwauri, vangakurondedzera sei iwe? Tarisa mhinduro yako pane mienzaniso yakajeka, yakadai saawa yawakapa kutonga kweboka rako kana rusununguko rwekuuya nemagadzirirwo ekugadzirisa.
- Pawakatanga basa idzva, wakavaka sei hukama? Vashandi vanoda kuona kuti iwe uchange uine hutano hwekukwanisa kupinda mukambani yekambani. Simbisa kuti wakazvipira sei kumapurogiramu, wakabatana nevashandi vemakambani, kana wakakoka vashandi pamwe navo kuti vadye zvekare nezvemaitiro avo.
- Vashandi vako vangadai vakatsanangura sei iwe? Panzvimbo pokungorongedza zvigadziro zvitatu, zvakadai se "akazvitsaurira, ane shungu nekugadzira," shandisa mhinduro yako pane dzimwe nguva. Somuenzaniso, iwe unogona kuti, "Wandaishanda neni Frank aizotaura kuti ndine gondo-ziso rinoteerera tsanangudzo. Anogara achitaura pamusoro pekuti akasika sei iyo mapeji ekugadzira mapeji 20, akanyatsotsvakurudzwa uye akaongororwa nevanhu gumi nevaviri. ndakaenda kuzonyora, ndakatorazve imwezve kutarisa, uye ndakaona chipo icho chingave chakanyadzisa kudai chisina kubatwa.
Additional Information
Bvunzurudza Mibvunzo Nemhinduro
Mhinduro Yekubvunzurudza Mibvunzo Pasina Kodzero (kana Yakaipa) Mhinduro