Iwe Unogona Kuwedzerwa Kunyaradzwa Kusungirira Mharidzo Dzakaoma
Kana, kunyanya pakurongwa kwematambudziko akaoma, kufema kwevashandi uye maporesti anobva kune inonhuwira inonhuwira inokuita kuti urware; mbatya dzomushandi dzakachena, asi iye anoita seanoshambidza zvishoma, uye iwe unofunga kuti kutaura chero chinhu chingave chechimiro chisina kunaka.
Kugamuchirwa kumunhu unoshanda naye mumamiriro ezvinhu kubva kugehena.
Tanga kugadzirira kwako nekuverenga " Nzira Yokubata Nhaurirano Dzakaoma " sei kune dzimwe nguva kunzwisisa kwekukurukurirana uku kwakaoma. Zvadaro, shandisa aya mazano matsva pamusoro pekutora hurukuro dzakaoma mumhinduro yako nzira.
Dzimwe Mazano Okubata Zvokukurukurirana Zvakaoma
- Tanga nekutaridzika kwakanyatsonaka kuti ugadzire mushandi akasununguka, asi usati warova musango. Hunhu hwekushanya kwevashandi huri kudenga uye huri kutaura zviduku kana achitarisira kuti mashoko akaipa aoneke, ane utsinye. Kana wambomuudza kuti unoda kukurukura nyaya inonetsa, famba uchienda kumusoro wehurukuro yako yakaoma.
- Taurira mushandi zvakananga chinetso chacho sezvaunoona. Kana iwe uchitaura zvakapoteredza nyaya yacho kana kuderedza zvinokonzerwa nenyaya yacho, mushandi wacho haambofi akawana kuti dambudziko racho rakaoma. Kana iwe uchitaura dambudziko se "vamwe vevashandi vedu vanoita zvinotevera," mushandi angasazomboziva kuti iwe unoreva iye.
- Pose pazvinenge zvichibvira, shandisa mhinduro kune bhizinesi nyaya. Iyi haisi yevendetta yega; kukurukurirana kwakaoma kune chinangwa chebhizimisi chaiyo. Zvichida vamwe vashandi havadi kutora chikamu muboka rake, uye iwe wakacherechedza kusasha kwevadzidzi vanozvipira. Zvichida kutaridzika kwake kunobatsira kuona kwevatengi maererano nehutano hwezvinhu zvegadziriro. Zvichida, tsika yakatsamwisa yakaita kuti mutengi akumbire kutengesa zvakasiyana rep. Ita kuti chinangwa chebhizimisi chekukurukurirana chive pachena.
- Iwe unodawo kubvumira mushandi kuti azive kuti kwete chete mararamiro anokonzera bhizimisi uye vashandi vashandi varo, zvinopikisa basa romushandi. Taura zvakananga nemagumisiro aunofunga kuti unhu huri kuve nekugadzirwa kwevashandi, kumutsa, mikana yebasa, uye ukama munzvimbo yebasa.
- Kurovedza vashandi vako haisi nzira yakakodzera. Ndinogamuchira ma-e-mail kakawanda kundibvunza kana chirongwa chekudzidzisa chakakodzera mumamiriro aya. Vanyori vanonyora vanoratidza kuti vacharamba vachigadzirira uye sangano remabasa kuti vashandi vose vapinde. Mushandi ane dambudziko achawana shoko kuburikidza nekudzidziswa. Hazvizoitiki. Mushandi ane dambudziko haazooni kuti iwe unomureva uye iwe uchange wakaisa vamwe vasingaverengeki kudzidzisa vasina chavanoda.
Unyanzvi hwokurovedza, hupfeko yemitemo yekudzidzira, uye mabasa akafanana anokurudzirwa apo vashandi vanoda chikamu chekutanga chezivo. Imwe kambani yakatotsigira fesheni yekuratidza mafashoni kuratidza maitiro akakodzera emabhizimisi asina kuwanikwa . Iwe unofanirwa kupikisa kudzidziswa senzira yekugadzirisa matambudziko evanhu pachavo. Inonyanya kukurudzira iyo kambani yaifunga kuitevera? Dzidzisai chete avo vanoonekwa nemapoka ehurumende kuti ave nechinetso. Izvi zvinogumbura uye kusarura. Taura nyaya yacho nemushandi-mumwe nomumwe.
- Iva nehanya nepfungwa yokuti tsika dzakasiyana dzine tsika dzakasiyana nemitemo yekuonekwa, kushambidza, uye kupfeka. Ndingangodaro ndisiya hurukuro iyi kumutariri wevashandi, asi nzvimbo yako yebasa yakarurama mukukumbira vashandi kugamuchira mitemo yebasa iyo inoshanda iyo mushandi. Izvi zvinonyanya kuitika kana kusawirirana kune muitiro kunopesana nekubatana nekubudirira kwebasa rako.
- Iva nehanya nemusiyano mukubika nekudya tsika, zvakare. Mumwe mukadzi akataurirwa kwandiri munguva pfupi yapfuura kuti vamwe vaaidzidza navo vakanga vamuseka uye vakamunyomba nokuti aigara achinhuwa semarori uye garlic nezvimwe zvinonhuwira. Sezvo ari munhu mukuru akashanda, akachera pasi muwandu wezvinonhuwira mukubika kwake, asi akakuvara nekusafunga kwemakore. Heck, baba vangu vaiwanzogara vachin'un'una kuti ndakanzwa sekarlichi, uye haaireve kuti sekumurumbidza; akanga asingadi garlic, uye ini ndiri.
- Kana mushandi akaedza kakawanda kugadzirisa nyaya yehutsanana yakadai sokufema kwakaipa uye haasi kufambira mberi, zvinoratidza kuti mushandi anoona chiremba kuitira kuti vagone kuziva kana chirwere chepachirwere chinogona kunge chiri kukonzera dambudziko. Kufungisisa kwako kunogona kuponesa hupenyu hwemushandi.
- Pakupedzisira, kana iwe uri mutariri wevashandi, iwe unokwereta kumushandi kubata hurukuro yakaoma. Kunyanya, kana vamwe vashandi vakanyunyutira iwe, nyatsonzwisisa kuti kana iwe usingagoni kubata hurukuro yakaoma, vashandi vashandi vako vachazviita. Uye, vangave vasina kukwanisa kukurukura nekubudirira nechinangwa chokuderedza kunyadziswa uye kusagadzikana. Bhodhoro rezvokudya zvinodhaka rinogona kuratidzira padhesiki yevashandi. Soap yave yaiswa muvashandi mabhokisi emaresi, mumakambani angu maklayeri. Nhamba dzakashata dzakasarawo mubhokisi mabhokisi uye pazvigaro. Hapana chimwe chezviito izvi chinobatsira pakuita basa rinoenderana. Uyezve, mushandi anogona kukwanisa kubhadhara mubhadhari achibvumira nekubvumira kushungurudzwa uye nzvimbo inoshusha yebasa iripo.
Kuchengetedza zvakakwana pamusoro pemushandi uye yako inobereka, nzvimbo inobatsira yekuita hurukuro yakaoma. Iwe uchafara uchiita.