Nzira Yokutaurirana Nomushandi Nezvehutano Hwehutano Hwevanhu

Mazano okugadzirisa Matambudziko anonzwisisika

Mubvunzo wemuverengi uyu wakapindurwa neHuman Resources Director, Carol Reed, uyo nguva nenguva akamira neyaimbova musangano ndokupindura kumibvunzo kubva kune vamwe pamwe nevamwe vakashamisika. Carol ndiye HR Director paMount Rose Herbs muEugene, OR.

Mhoro,

Ndiri kutsvaga nzira yekuchenjera yekubata nyaya iyo inogumbura vashandi vebasa. Mumwe mushandi anoshanda nguva dzose haasvetu chimbuzi pashure pokushandiswa.

Ndingaita sei nyaya iyi noruremekedzo uye nokungwarira kuti ndiwane migumisiro yakanaka? Rubatsiro rwako rucharumbidzwa sezvo ini ndiri kurasikirwa. Tarisa mberi kune pfungwa dzako.

Mhinduro:

Zvakanaka ... Hungu, iyi ndeimwe yezvidzidzo izvo zvinogona kunge zvisinganzwisisiki kubata. Kutanga kubva, ndiri kufunga kuti unoziva kuti unhu hunobva kune mumwe munhu mushandi uye izvi hazvirevi izvo kana munhu wese anotenda .

Kana iwe usati uri zana muzana, pane chiyeuchidzo chikuru kune vashandi vose nezvehutano uye nzvimbo dzakagoverwa panzvimbo yebasa ingava danho rekutanga rakanaka. Kana iwe uri 100 muzana pane imwechete, saka ndakaona kuti nzira yakanakisisa ndeyokutungamirira uye yechokwadi uye kusatenderera sezvinobvira.

Bvuma kuti haisi nyaya iri nyore kuva nayo. Zvisinei, kana iwe ukaona sokuti mamiriro acho haasakanzwisisiki, akaoma , uye / kana asingafadzi kuti iwe uite zvekukurukurirana, ipapo nhengo yevashandi ichave yakakwanisa kudzivirira nekuvhara.

Ita hurukuro iyi mushure mekuvhara masuo (echokwadi) uye usati warova kumativi egwenzi pamusoro pechikonzero chemu musangano. "Hungu ___________, tinoda kutaura pamusoro pehutsanana hwakawanda kubasa uye ndinoziva izvi zvingasava kutaura kwakajeka kuva nezvako. Zvinosvika pandinoona kuti chimbudzi chevashandi hachina kuputirwa mushure mekushandisa.

Unogona kundiudzei nezvenyaya iyi? "(Ndapota cherechedza kuti handina kutaura," Ndakanga ndine zvikwangwani zvizhinji. "Ndakawana zvakanakisisa kuti usasimudza munhu kuti anzwe akasarudzwa.)

Ndakaona kuti chinhu chakanaka kuwana mhinduro yemunhu ichipikisana nekungotora mutemo wekuti "rega!" Kana mushandi achigona kukurukura chikonzero chekuita kwake, iwe une mukana wekuvatungamirira kuti vagadzirise matambudziko avo pachavo. Iva wakagadzirira chikonzero chekuve chinhu kubva kune zvakatipoteredza-inoparadza mvura-zvichida nharo nekubata chimbuzi chechimbudzi nemaoko asina maoko ... kuti urege kukanganwa kare.

Zvakare, itai kuti vaongorore dzimwe nzira yekukubatsira iwe nekambani kubudirira mukugadzirisa nyaya iyi. Mushure mokuvabatsira, dzorerazve mhinduro. Zvadaro zviputire nechidimbu ichi:

"Ndinokutendai nguva yenyu uye mazano munyaya iyi, ndinofunga kuti munokwanisa kuona izvozvi nezvehutano hwehutano hwemahofisi ehofisi, tsika iyi haigoni kupfuurira. Tichaita XYZ, iwe uri kuita ABC, uye izvo zvichagadzirisa dambudziko racho, ini ndinoda iwe kuti uve mubhokisi neizvi. Ungaita here? "

Sezvo tive nemhando idzi dzehurukuro nevashandi pamusoro pehutano hwakasiyana-siyana hwehutano pamusoro pemakore, ndinoziva hazvifadzi uye zvinoita sokuti nyore "kurega uye kurega" kungave kwakakwana.

Zvisinei, ndakaona kuti nekutora nguva yekuwana mhinduro yevashandi, munhu wacho haanzwi seanotongwa kana kuti akadzingwa kubva muboka uye iwe une mukana wakanaka wekutora shoko kuburikidza nekuti mushandi anowedzera kufunga .

Verenga zvakawanda:

• Nzira Yokubata Nhaurirano Inonetsa
• Nzira Yokugadzirisa Nheyo Dzinoshushikana Nevashandirwi Uye Matambudziko
• Vose Bvunza Susan Mibvunzo Nemhinduro

Zvinonzwisisika:

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Nzvimbo iyi ine mitemo yevanhu munyika yose uye mitemo nemitemo inoshandiswa yakasiyana kubva kune imwe nyika kuenda kune imwe nyika uye nyika kune imwe nyika, saka haigone kupa mazano akajeka kune imwe nzvimbo yebasa rako.

Paunenge usina chokwadi, tsvaka rubatsiro rwepamutemo kana rubatsiro rwehurumende, hurumende, kana hurumende dzemitemo, kuti uone kuti kududzira kwako kwepamutemo uye zvisarudzo zvakarurama. Idzi ruzivo rwepaiti ino nderokutungamirira, pfungwa uye rubatsiro chete.