Kana zvasvika pakuongorora kuti tinosangana sei nevamwe, vazhinji vedu tine mapofu. Tinowanzozviongorora isu zvichibva pane vavariro dzedu dzakanaka, asi vamwe vanoongorora kwatiri pane zvavanoona uye vanonzwa.
Kuti tivhare musiyano pakati pokuti tinozviona sei uye kuti vamwe vanotiona sei, tinoda mhinduro. Maererano nehurumende guru Ken Blanchard, "mhinduro ndiyo kudya kwemauto."
Zvinosuruvarisa, kune vatungamiri, kunyanya vatungamiri vakuru, mhinduro dzakakosha ndeyezvinhu zvisiri nyore, asi hazvifaniri kunge zviri. Kana iwe unonyatsoda mhinduro, kune nzira dzekuzviwana.
Ingova nechokwadi chokuti kana iwe ukawana mhinduro, unoteerera, chengeta muromo wako wakavhara, uye uti, "Maita henyu."
1. Tora Kuongorora 360
360 kuongororwa kunongororwa, kunowanzogadziriswa nevechitatu kutengesa. Izvi zvinongobvunza mubatsiri wako, vezera rako, uye vashandi kuti vawane maonero uye mazwi pamusoro pezviito zvako kana unyanzvi. Kunyange zvazvo mamwe mitsara ari kuzvitsanangura, kazhinji zviri nani kuva nemudzidzisi anonyatsokubatsira kuti uratidze kuburikidza nemigumisiro.
2. Edzai "Gumi kusvika Gumi" Nzira
Chokutanga, taura chimwe chinhu chaunoda kuchinatsira-taura kutungamirira musangano, kupa vamwe, kuteerera, kana kutungamirira imwe-pa-imwe.
Zvadaro, pamagumo ekukurukurirana nomumwe munhu, (zvinongotora maminetsi mashomanana), bvunza mubvunzo uyu: "Pamwero we1 kusvika kune gumi, ungatora sei unyanzvi hwangu hwokuteerera?" Kana chiri chinhu chisingapfuuri gumi, bvunza mubvunzo wekutevera, "Ndingadirei kuti ndikuite iwe kuti uverenge ini gumi?"
Inoshanda zvakanaka nokuti inokupa mazano chaiwo ekuvandudza, maererano nezvakakosha kune mumwe munhu.
Inotanga kukurukura nhaurirano nenzira isingatyisidzi, inovaka kuvimba, uye inogadzira kukunda-kukunda kukurudzira kubatana.
3. Bvunza Mutori
Vakagadziri vakanaka vanoita kuti vararamiro avo vanyatsokurumidza . Vanogona kutarisa paunotangazve, uye mushure memaminitsi gumi neminomwe yevhenekeri, funga zvakanaka pamusoro pesimba rako uye utera. Iwe unofanirwa kuvabvunza kuti vabvunze, vanovaka, uye vane utsinye kuongororwa. Zvakare, teerera chete, chengeta muromo wako uvhare, uye uti, "Maita henyu."
4. Edza FeedForward
Imwe nzira yegumi kusvika gumi. Panzvimbo pokukumbira mienzaniso yezviito zvekare, unenge uchikumbira mazano pamusoro pokuti ungave wakakwanisa sei mune ramangwana. Vanhu vachava vakasununguka zvikuru neizvi, asi iwe unowana ruzivo rwakadaro ruzivo.
5. Zvichenjerere paVhidhiyo
Nzira yakanaka yekuwana mhinduro pamakondomu ako ekutaura. Izvi zvaisimbova nzira inotyisa yekudzidza pamusoro pako, kunyange muzera reYouTube, zvichida tiri kutojaira kuzviona isu pamakera. Zviri nani kana iwe uine mutambi kana kuti mudzidzisi wekurindira newe kuti utaure zvinhu uye kupa mazano ekuvandudza. Kana uine ganda rakasvibirira, kumbira boka rehama neshamwari uye ugobudisa mapikori uye doro.
6. Tora Utungamiri Nzira
Nhungamiro dzakawanda dzehutungamiri dzinosanganisira mamwe marudzi ekuongorora maonero.
Zvakawanda zvinosanganisira kusanganiswa kwema 360, unhu, uye mhinduro kubva kune vatori vechikoro uye mudzidzisi.
7. Tora Kubvumwa, Kuvimbika Kwevanhu
Edza Hogan, MBTI, DISC, kana vamwe uye zvakare, taura nemumwe munhu akubatsire kududzira mhinduro.
8. Job Interviews
Zvakare, kufanana nokuwana mhinduro kubva kune muchengeti, iwe unofanirwa kubvunza nenzira yakanaka, uye iva nechokwadi chokuti iwe: teerera, chengeta muromo wako uvhare, uye uti, "Maita henyu . " Kunyange kana iwe usiri kutsvaga basa, iri pfungwa yakanaka yekuenda kumubvunzurudzo wekodzero nguva dzose.
9. Bvunza Baba Vako Mubvunzo Uyu
"Kwete kuti ndiri kuenda kune imwe nzvimbo, asi kana iwe waifanira kutora nzvimbo yangu, iwe waizotarisa chii mumunhu akakodzera?" Uyu haisi mungozi, nokuti haufaniri kupa mubatsiri wako chero pfungwa, asi kana iwe une chivimbo chikuru, iwe unogona kuchikwevera.
10. Bvunzai Vana Venyu Vechidiki
Takaponesa iyi yekupedzisira, nokuti ndiyo inonyanya kuratidza mhinduro yezvose! Ndizvo chete kune vakashinga-mwoyo uye vakaoma-ganda.