Zvinonzwisisika: dai iwe uri mutariri wemukana, iwe unogona kunge uchitaurirana nemunhu anenge asishamwaridzana nekambani, kana iyo inouya inokurudzirwa nevashandi vemazuva ano vakamira zvakanaka? Munhu wekupedzisira angangoziva kuti chii chakafanana nekushanda kwekambani - pamwe, mushandi uyo akavataurira angave anonzwisisa kuti mukurumbira wavo uri pangozi. Zvingangodaro, vangadai vasina kureva mumwe munhu akanga asingakwanisi.
Simba rekushandisa Vashandi Vanowedzera mu Tsamba Yako Yekuvhara
Vanotsanangurwa vanotsvaga vanobhadhara pamusoro pezvikamu zvitatu zvechitatu, maererano neongororo kubva kuICIMS, tarenda remhinduro yekupa. Hazvina mhosva kuti mamiriro ako ekubatana kwako anobata chii, kungova kungoenderana uye kutumira iye anokuitira iwe.
Makambani anotendawo kuti munhu anenge ataura zvinotaurwa nechomukati achange aine mukana wakanaka wekufananidzwa nekambani uye tsika yake saka vanofarira basa ravo.
Vanopfuura hafu yevashandi vanoita kutumira. Ongororo iyoyo yakaratidza kuti 60 kubva muzana yevashandi vakatumira munhu mumwe chete mubasa rakasununguka uye 38 muzana vakatumira vanhu vakawanda.
Zvitsanangudzo kubva kumusoro-ups chisimbise chikamu. Taura nevatungamiri vepamusoro sevatungamiri vekugadzirisa kwakanakisisa. Maererano nenhamba yekuongorora, 91 muzana yekutumira kune mumwe munhu kumutungamiriri wepamusoro vakashandiswa, zvichienderana ne5 muzana yevakatora basa vachibva kune mushandi wepamusoro.
Kunyora Kwaungaita Tsamba Yechivharo Inotaura nezvekushandiswa kwevashandirwi
- Kumbira kutumirwa. Izvi zvingaita sezviri pachena - zvekuti iwe uchakumbira kuburitswa usati watumidzwa -kudonha mushandi wezvino mune tsamba yako! - asi zvakakosha kuti hutano hwako hutsanurwe musati watumira tsamba yako yekuvhara. Pasi pacho, unoda kuti vagadzirire kuimba nziyo dzenyu apo mutariri wemukana achikumbira maonero avo. (Uyewo: nguva dzose pane mukana wekuti vangati kwete ... kana kuti vachakukurudzira kuti urege kushanda, nokuda kwezvikonzero izvo munhu wega wega angaziva.)
- Ipa wako wekutumira mashoko. Uye achitaura nezvekuimba rumbidzo dzako, iwe unogona kungoita izvozvo kana iwe ukavaudza kuti vazive basa rauri kukumbira. Usafungidzira kuti nemhaka yokuti vanoshanda kusangano, vachaziva kuti basa iri rinosanganisirei. Shandisai tsanangudzo yebasa, uye sanisa zvinodiwa kune zvidzidzo zvako . Izvi zvichavapa dzimwe pfungwa dzekutaura kuti varambe vari muhomwe yavo kumashure, kana vakabvunzwa pamusoro pako.
- Gadzirirai kopi yetsamba yekuvhara. Tungamira email yako kana kupa iwe tsamba yako yepanyama tsamba yako yekuvhara, nokuda kwekutsvaga.
- Iti tenda. Zvingave kuti mushandi ari kunyora tsamba yekutsvaga kana kungobvumirana kuiswa mune tsamba yako yekuvhara, zvakakosha kuti uonge. Tumira tsamba yekuonga kana email kuti uvazive kuti unoonga rubatsiro rwavo. Vachakoshesa chiito uye chichasimbisa ukama hwako.
Muenzaniso Wekutsvaga Kwekuvharirwa Kwevashandi Tsamba
Dear Ms. Green,
Ndiri kunyora maererano nechinzvimbo cheVakuru Vechidiki paSunnyside Group Home. Ndine ruzivo rwekuziva mumwe wevarayiridzi vashandi venyu, Eleanor Seville. Ini naEleanor takaita basa redu rekudzidzira pasi pasi kuSundayville University uye tanga tine hutano hwakanaka uye isu pachedu kubvira ipapo.
Akandibatsira kuziva nezvenzvimbo yakasununguka uye ndakakurudzira kuti ini nditaure newe.
Ndave ndichishanda nevatadzi vari pangozi kwemakore gumi nemashanu, uye ndakawana ruzivo rwakakosha zvikuru. Ndakataurira vechidiki vane matambudziko akasiyana-siyana, kusanganisira mamiriro ezvinhu emhuri, kushandiswa kwezvinodhaka, zvinetso zvekudya uye nyaya dzekuita. Zvakaitika kwandiri zvinoita kuti ndive akakodzera kuti ndibatsire vagari vomuSouthside kudzidza uye kukura munzvimbo yakachengetedzwa.
Kunyange zvazvo ini ndine ruzivo mukushanda nemakore ose, ndinotenda kuti vechidiki vanogara panzvimbo yako vanobatsirwa neruzivo rwandakawana mumakore mashanu apfuura ndichishanda muVadzidzi veSundayville High School. Ndakataridzirwa neRuwa se "Akakosha Teen Leader 2009" nokuda kweGore Rekuchikoro-Chikoro Chekuita Maitiro I ndakagadzira uye ndakashanda pamwe nekubatanidzwa kwezvikwangwani zvepamunharaunda.
Ndinoda chaizvo kukoshesa mukana wekusangana nemi kuti mukurukure zvandinofanira kuisa panzvimbo yaSunnyside. Ndinokutendai kuburikidza nekudzokororazve zvandinoda zvakare.
Regards,
Stephanie Smith
Zvimwe Zvinyorwa Tsamba Semuenzaniso
Dzokorora shanduro dzevhesi dzezviitiko zvakasiyana-siyana zvinosanganisira tsamba yekutevera, tsamba dzekutsvaga, tsamba dzinoshandiswa mumabhizimisi, mapepa ekubatana uye kutumira tsamba shanduro.
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