Nhepfenyuro Yakakosha, Mazano Anokosha Achatakubatsira Kuderedza Basa Rako Rokubhadhara
Asi, vashandi vanogona kuderedza kushandiswa kwevashandi mune dzimwe nzira dzakawanda. Tarisiro, pfungwa gumi nemasere ekuderedza kushandiswa kunoitwa pano inotungamirira pfungwa dzakawanda apo iwe unofunga nezvenzvimbo yako yebasa inoshanda uye nzvimbo yevashandi.
(Uye, kana iwe uchifunga kuti idzi dzinoverenga sezvinoitwa Golden Golden, iwe chaizvo, vanozviita.)
Mazano Okuderedza Kuwedzerwa Kwevashandirwi
Kuderedza kushandiswa kwevashandi kunoenderana nebasa rose rekushandira iwe unopa vashandi. Vashandi vanobudirira kana nzvimbo yebasa ichivatsigira pakuzadzisa zvinangwa nezviroto . Vakuru vakanakisisa vesangano renyu vanogovera maonero enyu uye maonero pamusoro pezvavanoda kuwana pane basa.
Izvi zvinokurudzira pamusoro pokuderedza kushandiswa kwevashandi zvakafananawo-pfungwa, inokosha uye inoshamisa zvakaoma kuwana mumasangano nhasi. Kushamisika nei ichi zvakadaro? Ndechokuti masangano mazhinji haana kufunga kuti kukosha kwevashandi ndiko kukunda-kukunda vashandi nevashandi.
- Sarudza vanhu vakarurama munzvimbo yekutanga kuburikidza nehutano-based test uye kukwanisa kuongorora. Zvechokwadi, kubvunzurudzwa kwepamwechete kunokupa manzwiro ekuti munhu wacho anogona kukodzera mukati memutsika wako , asi chinangwa chako chokusarudza vashandi vakanakisisa ndechokuti vaone kuti vanogona sei kuita basa racho. Munhu akakodzera, ari pachigaro chakanakisisa, pabhasi yakarurama ndiko kutanga.
- Panguva imwe chete, usaregeredza kubhadhara vanhu vane tarenda, inn, uye smarts kuti vashande munharaunda chero ipi zvayo kunyange iwe hausati wava nemukana wakanakisisa uripo. Tora vanhu vakachenjera kupfuura vose vamunogona kuwana kuti kuderedza kushandiswa kwevashandi-kushandiswa kwavo kuchaita kuti vape zvipo zvakasiyana. Iwe unongoda kuve nechokwadi kuti havasi kushushikana kuita chinhu chakare chakare. Funga basa rekuvandudza nekusimudzira.
- Ipa iyo inofadza, inokwikwidzana, yakawanda inobatsira purogiramu nezvinhu zvakadai shuwarhu yehupenyu, inshurensi yekuremara uye maawa anofanana. Mumwe musikana mushandi uyo ane chikonzero chekubvuma basa raive kuwanikwa kwema 401 (k) musangano haisi izvo chete, Tsvakurudzo yeMillennials nemari inoratidza kuti havadi kudzokorora kukanganisa kwevabereki vavo. Nzira dzakanakisisa dzinobatsira zvakaenzana kuderedza kushandiswa kwemabasa
- Ipai mikana yevanhu kuti vagovere ruzivo rwavo pane-mu-basa kuburikidza nekudzidzisa, zvirongwa, kurayira vamwe uye nhengo dzeboka. Vashandi vanofarira kugovana zvavanoziva; chiito chekudzidzisa vamwe chinovimbisa kudzidzira kwomunhu wacho . Kudzidzisa vamwe ndiyo chiratidzo chikuru chekudzidza.
- Kuratidzira kuremekedza vashandi panguva dzose. Teerera kwavari zvakadzama ; shandisa pfungwa dzavo; usambovaseki kana kuvanyadzisa. Nekutaurirana kwako, shandisa iwe unokoshesa.
- Ipa mhinduro yehutano uye rumbidzai maitiro akanaka uye zvigaro kuderedza kushandiswa kwevashandi. Kuonekwa kwako kwevashandi vemhizha ndiyo nzira yako yakasimba yevashandi kusimbisa nekuchengetedza. Vanhu vanoda kuziva kuti basa ravo rinoita mutsauko.
- Vanhu vanoda kufarira basa ravo. Ita basa rinonakidza . Itai uye mushandise matarenda anokosha emuumwe nomumwe. Zuva risina kuseka rinofanira kuva risina kujairika.
- Ita kuti vashandi vaenzanise basa nebasa . Rega kushanduka kunotanga nguva, nguva huru yebhizimisi uye nguva dzinogadzirisa nguva. (Hungu, mutambo wenhabvu yemwanakomana wake unokosha sebasa.)
- Itai vashandirwi muzvisarudzo zvinobaya mabasa avo uye mutungamiri wese wekambani pose pazvinogoneka. Vabatanidze muhurukuro pamusoro pekambani yekuona , basa , maitiro , uye zvinangwa. Iyi hurongwa huchazombofa huri kuraramira ivo kana kuti huve navo kana vakangoiverenga e email kana kuti vaturika pamadziro.
- Ziva basa rakanakisisa, uye kunyanya, kubatanidza kubhadharwa kushanda kuderedza kushandiswa kwevashandi. Vashandi venyu vakuru vanokurudzirwa apo avo vanopfuura-kuwedzerwa miitiro vanozivikanwa uye vanopiwa mubayiro.
- Iva nechokumusoro kwebasa rinokwanisa pakubudirira kwevashandi pamwe nekambani uye eite zvisingagumi mukati memakambani emakambani. (Semuenzaniso, kubhadhara 10% yemari yekambani kuvashandi .)
- Ziva nekupemberera kubudirira. Ratidza mararamiro avo sezvinangwa zvakakosha zvinobudirira. Isa pizza kana kudya kwekudya chamangwanani kupemberera zviitiko zvinokosha uye shandura chikamu chive mhemberero pfupi iwe uchipemberera kubudirira.
- Vashandi vakakwana zvokuti nguva yakawanda inoderedzwa kune avo vasingadi uye vanhu havazvipfeki. Iwe uchaona kuti vashandi vanobhadhara vanobatanidzwa uye vanofara vachashanda maawa anodiwa kuti vawane mabasa avo.
- Kubatsira uye kupemberera masangano . Iva nekapfeko yepfekete Halloween yose . Mhanya chikafu chekudya chekutya munaNovember. Sarudza rudo rwegore negore kuti ubatsire. Iva nekambani yegore yega yega yekutengesa pane imwe hotera yakanaka.
- Ipa mikana mukati mekambani yekupedza kudzidzira uye kubudirira kwebasa . Vanhu vanoda kuda kuziva kuti vane nzvimbo yekufambisa basa. Ichi chinhu chinonyanya kudzivisa kubhadharwa kwevashandi.
- Ipa mukana wekushanda nekukura kwevanhu pachavo kuburikidza nekudzidziswa uye dzidzo, mabasa akaoma uye mamwe mabasa.
- Kukurukura zvinangwa, mabasa, uye mabasa kuitira kuti vanhu vazive zvinotarisirwa uye vanonzwa sechikamu chemu--vanhu .
- Maererano nekutsvakurudza nesangano reGallup, kukurudzira vashandi kuti vaite zvakanaka, kunyange vakanakisisa, shamwari , kubasa. Izvi zvinowedzera kuzvipira kwavo kwauri semushandi.
Iye zvino kuti une runyora ruchaita kuti vashandi vashandise, nei usingaiti kuti sangano rako rive rimwe ravashoma, rakanakisisa, rinokudza zvechokwadi uye rinokoshesa vashandi .
Kana iwe uchibata vashandi vako zvinoshamisa, iwe unotapudza zvakanyanya kushandiswa kwevashandi uye zvikwangwani zvemabasa . Iwe uchazozivikanwa seunoshandira zvikuru, mushandirwi uyo uyo akakisisa uye akajeka kupfuura ose achafudza-uye kugara.