Nzira Yokuteerera Zvakadzama
Mukudzika, kana kuteerera, izvo zvinoshandiswa kurondedzera mafaira ekuteerera mitambo, mutereri anoratidza mamwe maitiro ekuteerera ane simba. Paunoisa pfungwa dzako kune mumwe munhu kana basa, iwe unoteerera zvakanyanya kune zvavari kuedza kutaura.
Iyi inoteerera inoonekwa nemumwe munhu sekuremekedza uye kutarisira .
Izvi zvinonzwisisika zvakare, nemunhu waunoteerera, sehuchapupu hwokuti uri kunyatsoteerera uye unonzwisisa izvo munhu ari kuedza kutaura. Dzidza kushingaira uye kunyatsoteerera kuti uve sangano rinobudirira rekutaurirana . Iwe haugone kuva mutauriri mukuru wemashoko pasina chikamu chechipiri chekuteerera kwekuteerera, kuteerera kwakasimba, kwakagamuchirwa zvakasimba.
Kunzwisisa Zvinogadziriswa Zvakagadzikana kana Kunyatsoteerera
Mukuteerera kushingaira, munhu anoteerera, anotumira kune munhu waanoteerera, kuremekedza kwavo kwakadzama . Izvi zvinonzwisiswa kuburikidza nekuedza kwakasimba kuisa pfungwa pazviri uye kuisa pfungwa pane mazwi uye zvinoreva kuti munhu ari kutaura navo, ari kuedza kuratidza.
Mukuteerera kana kushingaira:
- Muteereri anobvunza mibvunzo iyo inoongorora uye inotarisa pakunzwisisa nekujekesa zvinoreva izvo communicator iri kuedza kuratidza. Muteereri haashandisi nguva inoita mhinduro kana mhinduro kumutauri wehurukuro.
- Muteereri anotarisa pfungwa yake uye kunyatsoteerera pamashoko uye zvinoreva munhu anenge achitaurirana sezvaakacherechedza uye akanzwa kuburikidza nezvinhu zvakadaro zvekutaura semashoko avo, inzwi rezwi, maziso asingaoneki uye mutauro wemuviri , mienzaniso, uye kutaurirana nokukurumidza.
- Chinangwa chekuteerera zvakasimba chinoreva zvakananga umo mutereri nemunhu anenge achitaurirana vanobvumirana pamusoro pemharidzo iyo yakataurirwa kubva kune imwe kune imwe.
- Mukuteerera kushingaira, muteresi anopa munhu anenge achiedza kukurukura, kusimbisa mutauro wemuviri, kugunun'una kuvimbiswa kwemashoko, nemamwe manzwi nezviito zvinobatsira munhu kutaurirana kunzwa akanzwa kunze uye kuteerera. Somuenzaniso, unogona kudonhedzera musoro wako, kusemwerera, kuti "hongu, ndinonzwisisa," uye shandisa dzimwe nzira yekupa mhinduro sezvaunoteerera.
Kurega Kuteerera Maitiro Akaipa
Zviri nyore kuwira mumitemo yakaipa yekuteerera mubasa rezuva nezuva raunosangana naro kubasa. Izvi zvinowanzoteerera tsika dzakaipa dzinokudzivisa kuti usanyanya kutaura.
- Kana mushandi kazhinji achisimudza nyaya imwechete kana maonero ekuona iwe, semuteereri anoshanda, dambudziko guru rinofanira kufunga nderokuti mushandi ari kuzvidzokorora pachake nokuti haanzwi iwe uri kumunzwa. Tarisa maitiro ako anoteerera ekuteerera kuti uone kana uri kuratidza maitiro ekuteerera anodiwa anozokurukura kune mushandi iwe unoteerera chaizvo-uye kunzwa uye kumunzwisisa.
- Usaedza kubhadhara chikamu kune mumwe waunoshanda naye kana mushandi. Iwe unonyomba munhu uye iwe hauzombogoni kunyatsonzwisisa nzvimbo yavo kana chido. Apo umwe mushandi kana waunoshanda naye anokusvitsa iwe mazano, kufemerwa, mhinduro kana kukurukurirana , teerera kuti unzwisise izvo munhu wacho anoda kubva kwauri.
Kana iwe usingakwanisi kupinda zvakakwana kumunhu unoshanda pamaminitsi iwayo nokuda kwechikonzero chipi nechipi, zviri nani kuti udzokerezve hurukuro. Kana iwe uri, somuenzaniso, munzira yako kuenda kumusangano, uchirwisana nechirongwa chekupedzisira, uchiedza kubva kubva pakutanga, kana kuti uchitarisana nezvimwe zvinokanganisa, zviri nani kuita musangano apo iwe unogona kunyatsoteerera munhu wacho.
Mumamiriro ezvinhu akaipisisa, kana iwe ukanyatsoteerera, mushandi wacho anofamba achifunga kuti hauna hanya nezvaanoita . Zviri nani kuti udzokerezve kukurukurirana kana iwe uine nguva yekuteerera nekushanda kwako kwakasimba uye kwakadzama. Iti, "Tom, ndave kukanganiswa chaizvo nemusi we3 mambakwedza nguva yakatarwa purojekiti yemazuva ano. Tingaungana pamwe chete mangwana mangwanani pa9 kuitira kuti ndikwanise kuteerera uye kunyatsonzwisisa zvinetso zvenyu?"
- Teerera nekunyatsoteerera kwako kunonzwisiswa kunzwisiswa izvo waunoshanda naye kana mushandi wako anoda kubva kwauri. Vatungamiri vazhinji, zvikurukuru, vanoshandiswa kubatsira vanhu kugadzirisa zvinetso izvo nzira yavo yekutanga yekuita ndeyokutanga kugadzirisa mafungiro nekupa mazano. Zvichida mushandi wacho anoda kungoteerera. Nzira yako yakanakisisa ndeyokuteerera nekushingaira uye zvakadzama. Bvunza mibvunzo kuti ujekeswe kuti uone kuti iwe unonzwisisa chaizvo izvo mushandi ari kuedza kutaura. Paunotenda kuti iwe unoita, zvino, uye ipapo chete, kumbira munhu zvavanoda kubva kwauri. Vimba izvi. Vanowanzoziva, uye kazhinji, vanopfutidza kugomera uye vanoti, "Ndinokutendai zvikuru nekungoteerera, ndizvo zvandaida.Handidi kuti iwe uite chimwe chinhu."
Iwe unogona kuva munhu anonyatsoteerera anoteerera kana iwe ukanyatsocherechedza izvi zvitatu zvinonyanya kukanganisa kuteerera.
Izvi zvinoshandiswa zvitatu zvinokuita iwe unyanzvi hwekutumira mabhizinesi .