Hatisi kuzoedza nekugadzirisa nyika yebhadha gap . Asi izvo zvatinogona kukuratidza iwe ndezvokuti ungaderedza sei gari rako rekubhadhara. Hezvino izvo zvaunoda kuziva, kutaura, uye kuita kuti uwane mari yakawanda.
Zvaunoda Kuziva
"Chinhu chokutanga chaunofanira kuziva ndechekuti iwe unofanirwa zvakadini uye kuti munhu akaenzana zvakakosha sei," anodaro Alison Doyle, Job Search nyanzvi yeThe Balance.
Iwe unogona kutanga nokuenda kuGreendoor.com, Payscale.com, Indeed.com uye mamwe mimwe mibairo kuti uwane manzwiro emari mibairo yakafanana nemabasa auri kutarisa. Asi ziva kuti nhamba idzi-nokuti dzinobva pamwero wevhesi yevarume nevakadzi -ichava yakaderera. Iwe unoda kuronga kuti uenzanise nevarume, saka tora nhamba dzaunowana uye uwedzere ivo nema 25% akanaka.
Zvigadzirwa zvevanhu uye mapurisa emabasa zvinogona kuvawo tsime rakanaka remashoko, Doyle manotsi. "Bvunza: Pane here mararamiro emararamiro echigaro ichi? Vamwe vavo vanorinyorera zviri pawebsite. "
Kana iwe uri kutaurirana pamusoro pekusimudzwa panzvimbo yebasa idzva, iwe unodawo kuva nemaitiro akanaka pane zvawakaita, anodaro Dr. Ben Sorenson, Vachigaro weMutungamiri weOptimum Associates. Panzvimbo pane kuedza kugadzira rugwaro runoratidzira ichi kutarisa kumashure, tanga nhasi uye uite kuti uende mberi. Kana iwe ukakwanisa kuwana email kubva kumubhizimisi wako iyo inokugadzirisa iwe kumashure kuti uwane kukunda kukuru, iise iyo faira.
Izvo zvinoenda kune nhamba dzekutengesa mawakamboita nayo-zvikurukuru iyo inoratidza kuti kushanda kwako gore rino kwakagadzirwa sei pakupedzisira.
Zvaunoda Kutaura
Apo chipo chinokuvadza tafura, iwe unoedzwa kuti uite mutambo muduku wekufara. Ita izvi mumusoro wako-asi usazvirega zvichirova chiso chako. Iti 'ndinokutendai,' hongu (Doyle anoti kuva akanaka panzvimbo pokukakavara chinhu chinokosha), saka bvunza nguva yekufunga.
Kana wakagadzirira kupindura, iyi ndiyo imwe nzira yekukumbira zvimwe: "Ndiri kufara chaizvo pamusoro pekupa, asi zvichibva pakutsvakurudza kwangu, zvinoratidzika sezvishoma." Uyewo, rega kambani izive kuti haisi iyo chete mutsara mutaundi: "Ndinofanira kupa mamwe makambani andinotaura nekutenderera kwekuvaudza kuti ndine chipo. Ndaizoita zvakafanana kwauri. "
Kana pane kudaro, urikumbira kukura, unoda mutauro wakasiyana. Zvakare, inodzokera kumabasa ako. ("Usafunga nezvezvauri kuita nekambani yako," mumwe wevakuru vangu vepakutanga akandipa zano, achishungurudza JFK, "asi pane zvauri kuita nekambani yako.") Isa iri patafura, ndokubvunza kuti: "Somugumisiro zvekuita izvi, zvingave zvichikwanisa here kukwidziridzwa kana kuwedzera mukubhadhara? "Kana mhinduro yacho iiwa, tevera pakarepo ne:" Ndingada kuwana mhinduro yako pakuwedzera mubhadharo wangu kusvika kune iyi, kubva pane ini mira mumasangano uye pamabasa angu, "Sorenson anopa zano.
Zvausingafaniri Kutaura
Paunenge uchitsvaga kune rimwe basa, zvinowanzodiwa kubvunzwa mubhadharo yako, kana kuti mari yaunoda kuita. Usapindura mibvunzo iyi, anodaro Katie Donovan, nheyo ye equalpaynegotiations.com.
"Kupindura imwe yemibvunzo iyi ndiko kukuchengetedza iwe pasi," anodaro, achiwedzera kuti kana uri kuzadzisa shanduro yekutsvaga, unofanira kuisiya isina chinhu.
("Kana iri munda unoda kuiswa muna 0.00," anodaro. "Kune dzimwe nyika dzichagamuchirwa, dziri kutsvaga chidimbu.")
Uye kana iwe wakabvunzwa kuti uri kuitei iye zvino ? "Kana iwe uri pakati pemakumi matanhatu kubva muzana emaAmerica ari kushanda munharaunda yega, ndeyechokwadi," anodaro Donovan. Uye Massachusetts vakangoita kuti zvibvumirwe kubvunza pamusoro pemari yemari mumubvunzurudzo webasa , chiitiko chinogona kuenda munyika yose. Saka mune dzimwe nguva, iwe unogona kutendeseka kuti iwe haubvumirwi kuzviratidza.
Kana iwe unogona kuwana imwe nzira yekuderedza mubvunzo uyu:
- "Handizvo pamusoro pangu, ndezvemabasa. Basa rakarongwa chii? "
- "Ndiri kutama kubva kuguta uko mari yeupenyu inodhura."
- "Ndangova nedhigirii, saka handizivi kuti mari yangu yapfuura yakakodzera."
Kana zvimwe zvose zvisingakwanisi, Doyle anoti, iwe unogona kukanda kunze, asi ita ne codicil pamusoro pekuti iwe unotarisira kuva pamagumo akareba ezvo.
Nzira Yokutaura Nayo
Ndagara ndichibvumirana naJulia Roberts mu "Erin Brockovitch" uye Meg Ryan mu "Iwe Wakawana Mapepa": Basa riri roga. Uye nokuda kwechikonzero ichocho, inogona kuva nemweya. Asi paunenge uchitaurirana, unofanira kusiya mafungiro iwayo pamusuwo. Izvozvo zvinoreva pfungwa yekururamisira-uye kuti vamwe vekambani vanogona kuwana zvakawanda-havafaniri kupinda muhurukuro.
"Iwe hausi kutaurirana nezvekubhadhara zvakaenzana," anodaro Sorenson. "Uri kutaurirana pamusoro pekubhadhara kwakakwirira ."
Ndiina Kelly Hultgren