Ita Nekuda Kubatsira Vashandi Vako Kugara Vachiita Unyanzvi Hwavo Hune Simba
Iyi nyanzvi yakakurudzirwa naMarcus Buckingham naChart Coffman mu "Kutanga, Bvisai Mitemo Yese: Zvinonzi Vatungamiri Vepasi Vakuru Zvikuru Vanoita Zvakasiyana" zvichienderana nehurukuro yeGallup yehurumende nevatungamiriri makumi mapfumbamwe makumi mana.
(Vakatarisawo gumi nembiri zvakakosha kune zvinhu zvevashandi kuti vave kana kuti varambe vachiita basa .)
Pamusoro pekuedza kupedzisa basa ravo rezuva nezuva nekuzadzisa zvinangwa zvegore negore , vashandi vane nguva yakareba yekusimudzirwa. Shandisa nguva pane zvinokosha. Ita kuti vashandi vave nesimba-kwete utera, uye mukugadzirisa, dzidzisai hutano hwehutungamiri uye tsika yekambani .
Kushandisa ini somuenzaniso, ini ndakanaka nevanhu uye zvakanaka pakuratidza kunzwisisa, ruzivo ruzivo. Ini handisi akanaka kwazvo nematematical story nharo kunyange ini ndinogona kuwedzera misoro yenhamba yakafanana nemadhimoni. Hazvinei kuti chii, handimbofi ndakakwanisa kugadzirisa zvinetso zvematare zvakaoma. Ndingava nani here? Zvichida. Asi, wadii kupedza nguva yangu ndichikudza simba rangu? Ini ndichakutengesa iwe wakafanana muhupenyu hwako?
Asi, tsika yemadzitateguru ekuvandudza vashandi, chimwe chezvinhu zvakakosha mubasa rekushandira , zvakange zviri pakuona kusimba, kazhinji pamusangano wegore negore wekuongorora .
Mushandi wacho anotumirwa kunodzidziswa kana kungoudzwa "kuti ave nani" pane chero nzvimbo yake isina simba.
Iye zvino, kana nzvimbo yeutera ichinyanya kukosha kumabasa emushandi kubudirira, kusimbisa nzvimbo isina simba kunogona kuve nenjere. Asi, zvichida, mushandi ari mubasa rakaipa. Funga kuenzanisa unyanzvi hwakanaka hwemushandi kune kambani yako inoda mubasa rakasiyana.
Mune mumwe muenzaniso wega, ini ndagara ndiri munyori akanaka. Asi, kusimbisa unyanzvi ihwohwo kwemakore gumi nemapfumbamwe apfuura, kunyora paIndaneti uye kune mabhuku, mazuva ese, zvakandiita munyori ari nani uye munyori anokurumidza. Kunyora ingwaru yaunogona kukura kana iwe uchiitaura nayo nekuita nemaune kazhinji pavhiki.
Pane imwe nguva ndakatanga kunyora zuva rimwe nerimwe, nemaawa ekuita uye kuzvipira nemaune kukura, ndakaramba ndichiwedzera simba. Ndichiri kushanda pakunyora kwangu mazuva ese. Ndine chokwadi kuti une muenzaniso wakaenzana muupenyu hwako-kana iwe unogona. Unyanzvi hupi hwaunofanira kukura zuva nezuva nekuda kwekukura kwako kwebasa uye zvinodiwa nevashandi?
Sei Uchifanira Kuvandudza Vashandirwi Nesimba Nekuita Maitiro Okuzvipira?
Nyanzvi uye vanhu vakadzidza nyaya yekubatsira vashandi kukudziridza simba ravo nekupesana neutera hwavo kupa tsananguro pamusoro pekuti chiito ichi chakakosha uye chakakodzera kufungisisa kwako.
Stephen J. Dubner pabhuku re Freakonomics rinotarisa nemafungiro aya:
"Munguva yakapfuura, takanyora korome ye'New York Times Magazine 'pamusoro petarenda-kuti chii, iyo inowanikwa sei, nezvimwewo. Musoro wekamuri yacho ndeyekuti' tarenda yakasvibirira, 'sezvainowanzonzi, yakanyanya kuderedzwa uye vanhu vanova vakanaka kwazvo pane chimwe chinhu, pasinei nemitambo, mimhanzi, kana mushonga, kazhinji vanodaro kuburikidza nemhando zhinji ye "tsika yekuzvipira," mutsara unoshandiswa neFlorist State mupfungwa wepfungwa Anders Ericsson uye boka rake rakanaka revamwe vaongorori vanoongorora nyanzvi vanoita munzvimbo dzakawanda. "
Muchikamu chinotaurwa mundima yepamusoro, Anders Ericsson anopedzisa kuti:
"... chiito chatinowanzonzi tarenda chakanyanyisa kana kuti, shandisa imwe nzira, vadzidzisi vezviongorori-kana vari muchiyeuchidzo kana kuvhiyiwa, ballet kana purogiramu yemakombiyuta-vanowanzoitwa nguva dzose, vasina kuberekwa.Asi hongu, maitiro anoita kuti zvive zvakakwana. Iva mararamiro ayo vabereki vanofarira kunyunyuta kuvana vavo.Asi idzi clichés dzinongoitika chete kuti ndezvechokwadi.
"Ongororo yeCentre inoratidza chikamu chechitatu zvakare: panyaya yekusarudza nzira yehupenyu , unofanira kuita izvo unoda-nokuti kana iwe usingadi, haunzwisisi kushanda nesimba zvakakwana kuti uwane zvakanaka. havadi kuita zvinhu zvavasingaiti 'zvakanaka'. Saka vanowanzorega, vachizviudza ivo pachavo kuti havakwanisi tarenda yemasvomhu kana kuti kuruka kana violin.
Asi izvo zvavanoshayiwa chaizvo chido chokuva akanaka uye kuita tsika yekuzviita iyo inozoita kuti vave nani. "
Saka, zvinoratidzika kuti kune chokwadi kune simba rekusimbisa simba rako nekuita nemaune nzvimbo dzaunoda kuvandudza. Iniwo ndaifarira ipulagi yavo yekuda basa renyu , pfungwa yandinokurukura kakawanda nekuda kwesimba rayo yekukanganisa hupenyu hwemabasa enyu. Unobvumirana here?