Kunyora muTatu Munhu

Kunyange zviri nyore kuwira mutsika yekugara uchinyora mumunhu wokutanga, zvakakosha kuti ugone kushandisa munhu wechitatu zvakare. Munhu wekutanga wekutanga uye munhu wechitatu ane simba ravo uye kusava nesimba; izvo zvinoshanda munyaya imwe zvingasashanda kune imwe.

Ichi chiitiko chichakubatsira kuti uone kukosha kwekunyora mumunhu wechitatu pfungwa yekuwedzera iyi chigwaro kubhokisi rako. Inogona kukuratidzawo mazano kune nyaya yausina kufunga kare.

Chero mararamiro aunokwanisa kuva nawo kubva peji, kana nzira itsva dzaunogona kuva nadzo pakuona nhoroondo imwechete yakakosha.

Kazhinji, sevanyori, tinonyanya kufunga pamusoro pezvatinofunga nyaya yacho, pane-zvichida-zvave zvave pane peji. Kuchinja maonero kunogona kukupa maonero matsva, kazhinji kujekesa zvikamu zvitsva zvezvinyorwa zvako, zvinokurudzira pfungwa itsva, uye-pakupedzisira - kugadzira zvakadzama uye zvakanyanya kufungidzira zvenhema.

Zvaunoda

Nzira yekunyora sei mumunhu wechitatu

  1. Sarudza kunyanya kukumanikidza - kana chinetso - chiitiko kubva muchikamu cheprose iwe uchangobva kunyora mumunhu wokutanga. Edza kutsvaga chidimbu chinosanganisira zvose mharidzo nekuratidzwa.
  2. Dzorerazve chidimbu kubva kumunhu wechitatu pfungwa yekuona. Tora nguva yako. Icho chinogona kutora humwe hugadziro hwekubvisa kuchinja. Iwe uchafanirwawo kutarisa kana iwe usingadi kushandisa munhu wechitatu asingazivi kana kukwana . Mukufamba kubva kutanga kusvika kunechitatu, zvinogona kunge zviri nyore kuedza munhu wechitatu asina kutanga.
  1. Cherechedza kuti kuchinja kwechinangwa chekuona kunoshandura sei inzwi uye mafungiro ehupenyu. Ive rusununguko runai nemurondedzeri uyu wausina kumboita? Kana iwe wakasarudza munhu wechitatu asina kukwana, pane chimwe chinhu chaunoziva zvino pamusoro pemunhu wausina kumboita? Kana ukasarudza munhu wose, inozivo itsva inodzidzisa kana kudzivisa nyaya yacho here? Saizvozvowo, pane zvisizvo pakushandisa pfungwa iyi here?
  1. Ita rondedzero yezvipo zvitatu kana zvina zvemaonero matsva ekuona: nzira itsva izwi rinobatsira kuvaka urongwa uye / kana unhu . Inochinja sarudzo here? Ko mwoyo wenyaya yacho inoshanduka, kana inova yakanatswa here?
  2. Ita runyora rwekukwanisa kwevanhu vatatu pfungwa yekuona pamusoro pechinhu ichi. Ndiyo nzira yakanakisisa yekuudza nyaya iyi here? Paiva pane nzira dzaive zvakaoma kukudziridza munhu wako wepakati nemunhu wechitatu? Yakakushongedza iwe kushandisa dzimwe nzira pakuzarura unhu hwako here? Izwi rakanga rakasimba here kana kuti rakanyanya kusimba? Kana yakanyanya kusimba, yaive yekutengeserana-yakakosha?
  3. Kana iyo pfungwa itsva yemaonero inoshanda zvakanaka nechiitiko ichi, funga kuchinja pfungwa yechitarisiko chechikamu chose. Kana zvisina kudaro, dzokera kune yako yepakutanga.

Mazano

  1. Kunyangwe kana kuchinja kune munhu wechitatu pfungwa yekutarisa hakuna kuvandudza chidimbu ichi, ramba wakasununguka kwairi mune ramangwana basa. Shandisa zvidzidzo zvakadzidzwa mubasa iri kuti uongorore pfungwa yekuona mune zvose zvenhema unonyora. Sezvaunowedzera kunyatsogadzikana nemunhu wechitatu, unogona kutanga kutora nzvimbo iyo inogona kukupa inobatsira iwe une maonero matsva pamashoko ako.
  2. Lorrie Moore ane tsananguro yakanaka yekuti anosarudza sei PVV: "Pane nguva apo munhu wekutanga anodikanwa pakucherechedza vamwe (kwete protagonist) nezwi iro panguva imwechete rinogadzira unhu (kazhinji protagonist); saka pane nguva apo munhu wechitatu anodikanwa pakucherechedza protagonist mune izwi risati riri runhu asi nyaya yacho. "
  1. Unoda kuita zvimwe zvinhu zvekashandisi uye nzira? Tsvaga mamwe maitiro echikwata pano.