Ndeupi munhu wechitatu asina pfungwa yekuona?
Munhu wechitatu asingazivi (kureva kuti "vose vanoziva") maonero ekuona ndeye nzira yekutaura nyaya iyo munyori anonyatsoziva kuti unhu hupi huri kufunga.
Chechitatu munhu ane maonero mashoma , pane rumwe rutivi, inzira yekufananidza nyaya iyo iyo munyori anoziva chete pfungwa uye manzwiro ehumwe unhu , nepo mamwe mavara anongoratidzwa kunze. Munhu wechitatu anopa rupo anopa munyori rusununguko rwakawanda kupfuura munhu wekutanga , asi ruzivo rudiki kudarika munhu wechitatu asina kuziva.
Sei uchifanira kusarudza munhu wechitatu asina maonero ekuona?
Pane zvikonzero zvakawanda nei uchigona kusarudza kuti munhu wechitatu asina kukwana angave akakodzera mubasa rako rinotevera renhema. Heano kungoita mikana shomanana:
- Iwe unoda kukwanisa kuratidza mamiriro kuburikidza nemaziso eunhu hunofadza kana hunosiyana;
- Iwe uri kunyora chakavanzika, uye unoda kuti muverengi ave neruzivo rwezvinyorwa nemigumisiro kubva pakuona kweumwe wevanhu vako;
- Iwe uri kuudza nyaya iyo maonero ako ehutungamiri hunochinja kana kuchinja, uye unoda kuratidza kuchinja uku kuburikidza nemeso avo;
- Iwe unoda kuchengeta pfungwa yekusava nechokwadi pamusoro pevamwe vanyori 'mafungiro, manzwiro, kana kuti akapfuura.
Mienzaniso yevanhu vatatu munhu maonero mashoma ekufungidzira
Mabasa mazhinji enhema anoudzwa kubva kumunhu wechitatu asina chinangwa chekuona. Semuenzaniso, Kuzvikudza kwaJane Austen nekudzvinyirira kwakakurumbira kunoumbwa zvachose kubva pakuonekwa kwechiratidziro Elizabeth Bennett.
JK Rowling waHarry Potter nyaya inozarura zvakavanzika zvaro kuburikidza neHarry himself uyo, semuverengi, ari mutsva kunyika yenyika nemashiripiti uye wizardry.
Muenzaniso wekare wevanhu vatatu vasiri mutsva ndeye Ernest Hemingway ndeye Uyo Bull inoputira , iyo inonamatira zvakasimba nehumwe hutano hwemunhu, iyo yaJohan Jordan, uyo anogovera:
"Uyu Anselmo akanga ari mutungamiri akanaka uye aigona kufamba zvinoshamisa mumakomo.Robert Jordan aigona kufamba zvakanaka zvakakwana iye uye aiziva kubva pakumutevera kubvira masikati asati avapo kuti murume mutana aigona kumuendesa kurufu.Robert Jordan akavimba nemunhu, Anselmo , kusvika kure, muzvinhu zvose kunze kwekutonga.Akanga asati ava nemukana wekuedza kutonga kwake, uye, zvakadaro, kutonga kwaiva kwebasa rake. "
Muverengi achaziva chete pfungwa dzaAnselmo nemhinduro sezvaanovadzidzisa kuburikidza nezviito zvake. Asi maRobert Jordan mafungiro achagoverwa munyaya yose. Ndizvo zvaanoita uye kududzirwa kwezviitiko izvo muverengi achanzwisisa nekutevera.
Nokuti munhu wechitatu asingagoni kutsanangurwa kunyanya nezvaasingaiti, zvinogona kubatsira panguva ino kuti uverenge muenzaniso wevanhu vatatu vasingazivi kuti vanofananidza.