Zvishandiso uye Kubatana Kwevashandi Kuratidzira Unhu Hwako Huripo Paunoona
Kuti uchinje tsika yako , kusimbisa tsika yako, kuti ubatsirwe netsika yako, unoda kuona uye kunzwisisa zvauripo tsika.
Zvakanakisisa kana kuti zvakanyanya, tsika yako iripo inokusimbisa mukuzadzikisa kwebasa rako uye zvinangwa-kana tsika yako haina.
Asi, iwe hauzive mhinduro kumubvunzo uyu kusvikira watora nguva yekuita sarudzo yako iripo tsika. Enda mberi uye utore danho rokutanga.
Dambudziko reKuchengetedzwa Kwemamiriro Emukati
Zvakaoma kuti vanhu vaongorore uye vanzwisise tsika dzavo. Apo vanhu vari kushanda zuva rega rega, huzhinji hwekuratidzwa kwetsika hunenge husingaoneki. Kuongorora sangano rako sangano kwakafanana nekuedza kuudza mumwe munhu kusunga shangu dzavo.
Kana wave uchinge uzvisunga zvipfeko zvako zuva rega rega kwemakore nemakore, zvakaoma kutsanangura nzira yacho kune umwe munhu.
Nokudaro, kuziva kwako kwakakwana nenharaunda yako, kushamwaridzana kweaunoshanda navo, kuitisa kwemisangano, kushamwaridzana kwevamwe nhengo, uye zvigadzirwa mumahofisi nemakubhi zvinoda kuti iwe udzoke shure uye uone nzvimbo yako yebasa nemabasa maziso matsva.
Nzira Yokuchengetedza Maitiro Ako Ano
Iwe unogona kuwana mufananidzo wemamiriro ako epanguva nenzira dzakawanda. Kuti uite chikamu mukuongorora kwetsika yako, unofanira:
- Edza kuva musaruri akasarura wetsika yako mukuita. Tarisa kune vashandi uye kushamwaridzana kwavo musangano renyu neziso rekunze. Ita sewe anthropologist achicherechedza boka rausina kumboona.
Zvibvunze mibvunzo yakadai seyi: Vanhu vanobatana sei nevamwe? Iko kukakavadzana kwakagadziriswa sei (uye kune kukakavadzana)? Vatungamiriri vakuru vanobatana sei nevatungamiriri vepakati nevashandi? Vatungamiri vemapakati vanobatana sei nevashandi vekubika?
- Tarisa nemanzwiro. Manzwiro anoratidza maitiro . Vanhu havafari kana kuvhiringidzika pamusoro pezvinhu zvisingakoshi kwavari. Ongorora makakatanwa zvakanyanya, nokuda kwechikonzero chimwe chete. Vanhu vanoita sevanovimbiswa, vanobatana, vanofara, vanofara, vane ushamwari, vanoita sevanoda, kana kuti vanobviswa? Vanosemwerera uye vanobatana newe sezvaunofamba nemadhoroki avo here?
- Tarisa zvinhu uye zvigadzirwa zvekugara zvinogara pamaekski uye uremberedze pamadziro. Chengetedza nzvimbo dzinowanikwa uye firati yekugadzirira. Vanopindirana here kana kuti ivo vasina maturo? Mune imwe kambani isingakanganwiki, kune vaverengi vanoverengeka vakanga vachifamba mumubhawuniville, kusina kwemamiriro okunze kwakange kuchirova-hapana mifananidzo yemhuri, michero, knick knacks, dawati zvishandiso, kana zvidhi.
Mutungamiri wekambani akaudza vashandi vekushanyirana, vari voga uye pasi pekuvanzika kwakasimba, kuti akanga achivhara kambani pamwedzi wekutanga wemwedzi-uye haadi kuti vashandi vazive. Vadzidzisi vakamuudza kuti vashandi vagara vaziva. Basa ravo risina basa rakanga riri uchapupu hwezivo iyi. - Paunoona nekubatana nevashandi, tarisa zvinhu zvisipo . Kana pasina munhu anotaura chimwe chinhu chaunofunga kuti chakakosha (kufanana nevatengi kana kutarisira kuwedzera kukura), iyo inofadza mashoko. Ichakubatsira iwe kunzwisisa tsika yako sangano.
Chengetedza Nheyo Yenyu Yesangano
Iwe unogona kutarisa yako yemazuva ano musangano nenzira dzakawanda. Izvi zvinogona kusanganisira kufamba-famba, kuitisa mabvunzurudzo nevashandi, kana kushandisa shanduro yekuongorora tsika.
Edzai muMutsika Famba: Imwe nzira yekucherechedza tsika mumasangano enyu ndeyekufamba-famba kupoteredza chivako uye kutarisa zvimwe zvezviratidzo zvenyama.
- Nzvimbo yakagoverwa sei? Ndekupi mahofisi aripo?
- Inguva yakawanda inopiwa kupi? Varipi vanhu varipo?
- Chii chinonyorwa pamabhodhi ehurukuro kana kuratidzwa pamadziro?
- Chii chinoratidzwa pamadhoroki kana mune dzimwe nzvimbo dzechivako? Mune mapoka emabasa? Pakuvhara kana kuvhara?
- Nzvimbo dzinowanzoshandiswa sei?
- Vanhu vanyorei kune mumwe? Chii chakataurwa mu memos kana email? Inzwi rei mharidzo (yakarongeka kana isina kujaira, inonakidza kana ine utsinye, nezvimwewo)? Vanhu vanotaura kakawanda sei? Iko kukurukurirana kwakanyorwa, kana vanhu vanotaura vachitaura?
- Ndekupi kusangana pakati pevashandi unoona ? Mafungiro akawandisa anotsanangurwa panguva yekubatana?
Izvi ndezvimwe zvishoma zvemibvunzo yekupindura kana iwe ukacherechedza uye ukaongorora sangano rako sangano. Tora tsika tsika kufamba nguva dzose kuti uone tsika yehutano muchiito. Iwe uchasvika pakatarisa apo iwe unogona kuongorora uye kunzwa manzwisisiro akavanzika panguva.
Tsika Inobvunzurudza: Imwe nzira yekunzwisisa tsika ye sangano rako ndeyekubvunzurudza vashandi vako mumapoka maduku. Izvo zvakakosha chete, munguva dzekubvunzurudzwa, kuchengeta maitiro uye maitiro ekubatana kwevanhu sezvinoreva kunzwa zvavanotaura pamusoro pemutsika.
Sezvo zvinowanzova zvakaoma kuti vanhu vaise mumashoko izvo tsika yacho yakaita sei, muchawana ruzivo rwakanyanya kuburikidza nekubvunza mibvunzo isina kukodzera. Izvi zvinotevera mienzaniso yemibvunzo isina kukodzera yaunogona kubvunza panguva yekukurukurirana kwetsika.
- Chii chaungaudza shamwari nesangano rako kana iye ava kuda kutanga kushanda pano?
- Ndeipi chinhu chimwe chete chaungada kuchinja pamusoro pesangano iri?
- Ndiani gamba rakapoteredza pano? Sei?
- Chii chaunofarira chimiro chiripo mukambani yako?
- Ndeapi vanhu vakakundikana musangano renyu?
- Chii chaunofarira mubvunzo wokubvunza mubatsiri webasa mune kambani yako?
Chirongwa cheShoko: Kunyorwa kwakanyorwa kunotorwa nevanhu vari musangano kunogona kupawo ruzivo pamusoro pehutano hwetsika. Zvakakosha kugadzira kana kusarudza kuongororwa uchishandisa mashoko akaunganidzwa panguva yekufamba netsika uye kubvunzurudza tsika.
Iwe unogona kana kutenga kana tsika yekugadzira kuongorora. Chimwe chekutsvaga-che-cheffura chinogona kuva nemibvunzo inonakidza pamusoro payo; inogonawo kuva nemibvunzo isingabatsiri kusangano rako. Yakashandiswa mune mamwe masangano akawanda, kunyange zvakadaro, mibvunzo inogona kuvimbika uye yakavimbiswa.
Iyi ndiyo nzira dzaunogona kuchengeta uye kunzwisisa nheyo yako sangano. Migumisiro yehuongorori hwako hwehutano hwako huchakuudza kuti ungaita zvakadini, zvishoma, zvimire kana kutanga.
Zvigumisiro kubva kuhutano hwako hwehutano hunozosimbisa kushanda kwetsika yaunayo kana kupa hukurudziro iwe unoda kuti uchinje sangano rako.