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Vose Vanokweretesa Chikwereti Havasi Zvakanaka
Vateresi vatora kazhinji vane mukurumbira wekuve wakaipa uye wekuunganidza vanhu; vamwe vanotenga chikwereti chenyu kune mumwe akakweretesa uye vobva vangosunga pasina kana kukupai mukana wekushanda zvinhu. Asi havasi vateresi vose vanotora zvakaoma kubata nadzo, uye kana ukaedza kushanda navo kuti ugadzirise chikwereti, zvimwe zvinogona kuva zvine musoro.
Kune avo vasingateereri nemitemo uye vachiita zvisina kururama mukutsvaka iwe, pane mitemo inokudzivirira pakushungurudzwa kwechisarudzo, uye kunewo mishonga yemutemo uye matanho aunogona kutora kuti uwane chikwereti kubva shure kwako. Ingoyeuka kuti pane chimwe chinhu chiripo kune mhinduro - foni dzinonyorwa, tsamba dzinobudiswa kure-saka nguva dzose zvinowanzova zvakanaka kuti iwe uve nehanya, wakarurama, uye unyanzvi nokuti mashoko ako anogona kudzoka kuti akuitire iwe kana iwe inoguma kudare.
Chikwereti Vanounganidza Vari Kuita Basa Ravo
Vateresi vateresi vashandi, uye basa ravo nderekuwana mari kuvanhu.
Nzira yavanoita nayo inopesana zvakanyanya, asi chinangwa chavo choga chokukurukura newe ndechekugadzirisa chikwereti. Kana iwe usingatauri navo kamwechete kamwe kuti utsanangure mamiriro ako (kureva, iwe uri kuratidza chikwereti chaunokwereta, kana kuti uchachibhadhara kwenguva yakareba) vacharamba vachikushevedza. Kana iwe usingatori kukoka kwavo, vanogona kudana mhuri, shamwari, kana kungozvitsvaga kuti vakuitirei mari yaunenge uchikwereta asi haisi kungoenda nemashiripiti ndokurega iwe.
Dzimwe nguva, kutsanangura mamiriro ako ezvinhu uye kupa "kutenda kwakanaka" kubhadhara kunokwana kutora chikwereti chakaoma chikwereti kune chinonzwisisika. Pakupedzisira, makambani ekuunganidza zvikwereti anongoda kuwana mari kubva kwauri uye kana iwe usina kudaro pakarepo, kazhinji anogamuchira zvirongwa zvekubhadhara kwenguva. Zvavasingagamuchiri mumwe munhu ari kungoramba kubhadhara kana kuti ndiani anotsvaira foni (kana kuti asingatori foni kubva kune vane chikwereti), uye kudzokera shure nehasha pamutokari wemutokari haakuwanikwi mumatambudziko avo.
Kuramba kubvuma mabasa ako kunogona kuita kuti nyaya yako iwedzere, uye iwe unogona kuguma mudare. Kana ukarashikirwa, iwe haufaniri kubhadhara chikwereti icho chete, asi iwe unogonawo kubhadhara mari yako yepamutemo uye dzimwe nguva, kunyange mari yemutemo yepati yakakupomera.
Zvipingamupinyi paKwereta Kwevatengesi Kunogona Kukubata Iwe
Chikwereti chikwereti chisingatauri newe:
- Penguva dzisina kunaka kana nzvimbo, dzakadai sepamberi 8 dzemangwanani kana mushure mema 9 masikati, kunze kwekuti iwe ubvumirana;
- Kushanda, kunze kwekuti waunoshandira achibvuma, uye iwe unobvumirana; and
- Kana iwe uine gweta, mutengesi wekwereti anofanira kubvunza mutongi wako.
Munhu anounganidza anogona kutaurirana nevanhu vatatu (kusanganisira mhuri, shamwari, nezvimwewo) kuedza kukuwana iwe, asi vanogona kukumbira nhamba yako yefoni uye kwaunoshanda.
Havagone kuudza vamwe kuti iwe une chikwereti chemari, uye munguva dzakawanda, unogona kungosangana nechetatu kamwe nguva.
Chikwereti Chinokonzera Chikwereti Chingave Chisingakukuvadzi
Iko Kunokwereta Chikwereti Chikamu Chekuita Mutemo inotaura kuti munhu anokwereta chikwereti "haafaniri kukuvadza, kukudzvinyirira, kana kukuitira zvakaipa kana kuti chero vanhu vatatu vanosangana navo." Izvi zvinoreva kuti muteresi haagoni kubudisa zita rako (kunze kwekwereti chekwereti), achikudanai kakawanda, kushandisa zvinonyangadza kana mutauro wakaipa, kana kukutyisidzira nemabasa echisimba kana chimwe chimiro chekukuvadza.
Zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti kutyisidzira kukupomera hazvirevi kushungurudza - mutemo unobvumira kuti chero munhu waunokwereta mari anogona kukusunungura kana vakasarudza. Kana chikwereti chikwereti chiri kutyisidzira kupomera, uchiziva kuti pane imwe nguva vanogona. Nguva dzose zviri nani kuedza kurega kuenda kumatare kunze kwekuti iwe hauna chikwereti chemari - uye unogona kuratidza.
Chikwereti Vatengesi Vanofanira Kutaura Chokwadi
Vanokweretesa chikwereti havagoni kureva nhema kana kushandisa chero zvinyorwa zvenhema kana zvisiri izvo kana vachiunganidza chikwereti. Mienzaniso yezvavasingarevi nhema kana kukutsausa pamusoro pekubatanidza: ivo ndivanaani, shandai, kana nzvimbo yavo; kunongedzera zvisina kunaka munzira ipi zvayo, mafomu kana tsamba dzakatumirwa kwauri; kuti iwe unokwereta zvakadini; kana kuti iwe waputsa mutemo.
Chikwereti Vanounganidza Havangagoni Kuita Nhema kana Kusina Mungozi
Vateresi vateresi havagoni kutyisidzira kana kushandisa nzira dzokutyisidzira kuti iwe ubhadhara chikwereti. Iyi nharaunda inowana zvishoma zvinyengeri nokuti zvingava zvakaoma kuziva kana kutyisidzira kwekuita chimwe chinhu kana kutonga chinhu chikonzero kana chimwe chinhu chikwereti chavatora chinoda kuita.
Chinhu chakanaka chaunofanira kuita kana iwe unotyisidzirwa ndechekuudza mukoti kuti iwe unonzwisisa mutemo unodzivisa kuti varege kutyisidzira, uye nyora pasi zvose zvakanzi kwauri, kusanganisira zuva, nguva, uye munhu akadana. Muunganidzi haagoni kukuudza kuti vachakusunga iwe kana usina kubhadhara chikwereti chako.
Ivowo havagoni kutyisidzira kutora zvimwe zviito zvinopesana, zvakadai sokutora nzvimbo yako, kugadzira mubairo wako, kana kutumira mhosva. Mashoko anokosha "anotyisidzira" nokuti muteresi anogona kukwanisa kuita zvinhu izvi kana zviri pamutemo munharaunda yako. Havangagoni kunyengera pamusoro pezvinangwa zvavo.
Chikwereti Vanounganidza Vasingashandisi Maitiro Asina Kururama
Bhuku reChinhu Chikwereta Chekukwereta Chikwereti chinodzivirirawo vateresi kukumbira mari yausina chikwereti; izvi zvinosanganisira kuwedzera mari yepamusoro kunze kwekuti mutemo wenyu wenyika uvabvumira kuita kudaro. Uye, haagoni kukuita kuti ubvume mafoni ekuunganidza, kana kubhadhara teregiramu kana kutumira mameseji muchiedza kukutaurira kana kutora chikwereti. "Maitiro Asina Kururama" anodzivirirawo chikwereti chinounganidza kubva kushandisa postcard kuti ikubvunze iwe. Vanofanira kuvhara mabhuku ose mune envelopu kuitira kuti hapana mumwe munhu anogona kuverenga tsamba yako.