Nzira Yokuita Dhivhareji Mubvunzo - Kwete Munhu Anobvunza Mubvunzo
Zvinogona kuitika mumusangano webhizimisi chero upi zvake: Mumwe mushandi asina kufara anobvunza mubvunzo unenge usina-musoro, unongobatanidza chete mumamiriro avo ezvinhu, kana kusundidzira imwe ajenda. Iwe unopindura sei kune vanonyadziswa nevashandi uye mibvunzo yakaoma inokosha nokuti inotumira shoko kuvamwe vashandi nezvemafungiro uye mafiroso akaitwa nevatungamiri - kunyange apo mafungiro iwayo haasi izvo zvekambani pachako.
Nzira dzinotevera dzinogona kukubatsira iwe kupindura zvakakodzera kune vashandi vanoedza kuunza dambudziko mumisangano yebhizimisi.
Kunyaradza Mumwe Mubasa Anoona Vamwe
Kana iwe ukaratidza mumwe mushandi , vezera ravo vanogonawo kunzwa vachinakidzwa. Somuenzaniso, kana iwe uchizvidza mumwe musangano webasa mushandi, unozvidza vose. Kana iwe ukatsoropodza munyori mumwe, vamwe vanogonawo kunzwa vachizvidzwa. Kunyange kana iwe uchiita zvinyorwa zve blancheche; "rubatsiro rwekambani rwakakundikana kuita basa ravo asi isu tiri kushanda kuti tiite kuti vashanyise" iwe unoda vamwe vevamwe vevashandi vezera rako, shamwari, vashandi pamwe chete uye kutumira shoko rakanyarara kana vatungamiri vachisvika pachena kune mumwe munhu kana dhipatimendi, vanogona kukomberedza , zvakare.
Ipa Mutungamiri asi Usasangana neMhepo Nguva
Kana mumwe munhu akabvunza mubvunzo unopesana, usingabatanidzi, kana usina kukodzera , tungamirira munhu anokumbira mubvunzo nemurairo kana murayiridzo wakadaro, sekuzvinyora kune vatevedzeri kuitira kuti uve nenguva yekunyatsoongorora dambudziko kana pfungwa inotevera.
Iwe unogona kukwanisa kuparadzanisa mubvunzo wakanyanyisa kuwedzera nekubatanidza munhu anenge achibvunza mubvunzo pane kuvadzivisa. Semuenzaniso, unogona kuratidza kuti vanouya nehurukuro yenguva pfupi pamusangano iwoyo kana runyora rwezvinetso. Iva nechokwadi chekuvapa munhu chaiye kuti aise pasi paryo kunyora.
Kana iwe usingaiti sarudzo yakajeka yemirairo, iwe unonzwika kusaremekedza. Kana iwe usingazivi kuti ndiani akakodzera kutaura naye, taura kudaro, uye kumbira mushandi kuti akushete kana kukunyora iwe email gare gare mushure mekunge mave nenguva yekuziva kuti vanofanirwa kupai mubvunzo wavo.
Mune mamiriro ezvinhu akawanda, zvakakosha kuti iwe usapindura zvakananga mubvunzo unotyisa nokuti:
- Inopa kuvimbika kumubvunzo (inofanira kunge iri nyaya kana iwe wakatora nguva yakawanda kuti upindure);
- Inogona kukuita kuti iwe seone kuzvidzivirira (kunyanya kana iwe uchibviswa); and
- Kana uchangobva kupa musangano "nguva yemhepo" kune, kana kuti kupedza nguva yakawandisa achitaura kune mumwe mubvunzo wakatsamwa, unogona kuguma nevamwe vachikwira mugomba nekuda kwe "boka revanhu rinoshamisa."
Vanhu vazhinji vanotsanangura kana munhu asingagoni kuita kana kutaura chimwe chinhu ivo pachavo anonzwa anopa simba apo vamwe vari kuita chimwe chinhu, vanopindirana nezvose zviri muboka kana boka revanhu vari kuita. Mune musangano, kana mumwe munhu akarega kutora nguva, vamwe vanogona kuedza kubatana navo nevanamano avo, zvinetso, kana mibvunzo.
Usambofa uchitaura zvinyorwa zvinoratidza munhu wacho zvakananga kana zvakasiyana. Kana iwe ukati mubvunzo hauna musoro uye hauna kukodzera kupindura, shoko iro vateereri vanganzwa ndeyekuti uri kurega kunetseka kwavanazvo.
Bvumidza Pasina Kubvumirana
Iwe unogona kugonesa mubvunzo wevanhu pasina kuukoshesa kunze kwevamwe vanhu manzwiro. Kugutsikana kungova kubvuma kuti chimwe chinhu chakakosha kana chinokosha kune mumwe munhu - kunyange kana zvisina kune vamwe.
Nokubatanidza zvinyorwa zvakadai, "Ndinonzwisisa nei uchifunga kuti izvi zvinokosha," kana "Zviri pachena kuti mamiriro acho akakuvadza iwe," haisi chinhu chimwe chete sekubvuma iwe kubvumirana.