Chikamu Chechipiri Kubva kuMabasa Crossroads Series
Somubereki mutsva, unogona kunge uchinetseka kuti kushandiswa kwevana vasina kubereka kuchakuvadza kukura kwevana vako. Iwe unogona kutsvaga mubereki mumwe chete kuti arambe ari kumba, asi angave asingakwanisi kuwana kana kushungurudza kuti kutora nguva kunobata basa rako. Kana iwe unogona kunge usingadi kutora pfupa kubva pabasa rako.
Hakuchina chisarudzo chakanaka kana chakashata, asi iwe unofanirwa kuziva kuti kana ukasarudza kuva musha-kumba kana mubereki anobata basa, mwana wako achava akanaka.
Muna 1991 I National Institute for Child Health uye Human Development (NICHD) yakatanga kudzidza iyo yainzi pakutanga yeChidzidzo chekutanga Child Care (SECC). Zita racho rakashandurwa kusvika kuChidzidzo chekutanga kwevana nekuchengetwa kwevechidiki (SECCYD). Vatsvakurudzi vakatarisa ukama huri pakati pezvakaitika zvevana, kuchengetwa kwevana uye zvibereko zvekukura kwevana uye vakawana kuti vana avo vaitarisira ivo chete naamai vavo havana kusiyana zvakasiyana neavo vaitarisirwa nevamwe "(Eunice Kennedy Shriver National Institute of Child Health and Human Development, NIH, DHHS (2006) NICHD Yokudzidza Kwevana Vokutanga Kuchengetedza nekukura kwevechidiki (SECCYD): Zviwanikwa zvevana kusvika kune makore 4 1/2 Makore (05-4318) Washington, DC: US Government Printing Office).
Izvi zvinofanira kuisa kunetseka kwako kuzorora.
Unowana sei kutarisira vana kwakanaka?
Iwe unoziva sei kuti ndeupi rudzi rwekuchengetwa kwevana kuti rushandise? Vamwe vanoshanda amai uye vanasikana vanonzwa vana vavo vanobatsirwa nekukurukura nevamwe vana saka saka sarudza nzvimbo yekuchengetwa kwevana kana mamwe maitiro eboka. Vamwe vanosarudza kutarisa kune mumwechete kune mumwe mwana anogamuchira kubva kumubereki ari oga kana nanny uyo anotarisa chete vana vemhuri yavo.
Kusarudza pakati pemhando dzekuchengetwa kwevana ndiyo chete chisarudzo chokutanga chaunofanira kuita. Zvadaro, iwe uchafanirwa kuongorora mumwe munhu anopa, kana ari munhu kana kuti nzvimbo yekuchengeta vana.
Kuenzanisa mhuri nemhuri
Pasinei nepapi paunenge uri mubasa rako, sekushanda amai kana baba, unogona kuoma kuti uwane kuenzanisa pakati pebasa rako nemhuri yako. Amai kazhinji, asi kwete nguva dzose, vane dambudziko rakawanda kupfuura rababa vanoita nekuti vanotora zvakawanda zvemhuri. Izvi zvinogona kukonzera kushungurudzika uye kupera.
Kushanda zuva rose uye zvino kudzoka kumba kumwana muduku kunogona kuva kwakaoma. Iwe wakaisa simba rako rose pakuita basa rako zvakanaka-kupindura kumakurukota ako, vashandi-vashandi, vatengi, uye vashandi zvavanoda. Chinhu chokupedzisira chamunofunga kuti kuita chiri kupindura kumwana wenyu. Zvisinei, pfungwa idzi dzinoita kuti unzwe uine mhosva. Unogadzirisa sei izvi? Imwe nzira ndeyekutema maawa ako uye kushanda chikamu-nguva kana uchikwanise kuzvipa. Unogonawo kutarisa mumabasa mashomanana angakubvumira kusarudza paunoda kushanda. Ramba uchifunga kuti izvi zvisarudzo zvinogona, zvisinei, zvinokanganisa kukwanisa kwako kuenderera mberi mubasa rako , kana kuti hazvizovi mari inogoneka kumhuri yako.
Iwe unogona kubvunza wako waunoshandira kana iwe ukakwanisa kushanda purogiramu yebasa rinoshandiswa iyo inogona kusanganisira maawa mana-awa pane nzvimbo maawa masere emaawa 8 kana nguva yekutanga uye yekupedzisira iyo inokubvumira kuti usatora nguva inotengesa nguva. Iwe unogonawo kuziva kana iwe unogona kushanda kubva kumba semuterevhizheni mazuva mashoma pavhiki.