Anokodzera Kutungamirira
Kana iwe usina kukodzera zvizere kutungamirirwa kwako pakutanga, iwe uchange uri kuparadza nguva yakawanda nevanhu vasingazombotengi kubva kwamuri. Asi kune rumwe rutivi, kana iwe ukabvunza mibvunzo yakawanda yekubata pakarepo, ivo vachazeza kupindura.
Saka kukodzera nguva dzose kuenzanisa kwekuita pakati pekusiya nguva yakakwana yekuvaka hukama pasina kumirira kwenguva yakareba zvokuti iwe wakaparadza nguva yevanhu vose. Vatengesi vazhinji vanogadzirisa dambudziko iri kuburikidza nekubvunza mibvunzo shomanana yakakosha panguva yekutonhora - kukurira vanhu vasingazivikanwe vasina kukodzera - uye kupedzisa chirongwa chekufanirwa panguva yekudanwa kwechipiri kana kutanga kwekutengeswa kwekutengesa.
Chero chero hurongwa hunosarudzwa hunoita kuti uwane kukodzera, pane zvimwe zvikamu zvinokosha zvemashoko zvinogona kukubatsira kuona zvisati zvaitika pakutanga uye kuzvitumira panzira yavo. Izvi zvinowanikwa muzvikamu zviviri zvinokosha: ingave munhu wacho ane chido chekugadzirwa kwako kana kushanda, uye kana ane nzira yekuzvitenga kubva kwauri zvachose.
Mibvunzo Inokodzera
Tarisiro uyo ane chido chezvinhu zvauri kutengesa haazozvizivi kana iwe ukatanga kusvika kwaari. Mibvunzo yako yekufananidzira inogona kumubatsira kuti aone kuti izvo zvinodikanwa panguva imwe chete iwe uchichera iwe ruzivo iwe pachako, saka rudzi urwu rwemubvunzo runogona kunyanya kusimba.
Zvinoda mibvunzo yakakodzera inosanganisira zvinotevera:
- Wakamboita kutenga rudzi urwu zvisati zvaitika here? Yakakubatsira sei iwe?
- Wakambofunga kutenga [chigadzirwa chemhando] here? Sei kana kuti kwete?
- Unozviona sei iwe pachako uchishandisa chigadzirwa ichi? Ichakubatsira sei?
- Ndezvipi nyaya dzaunotarisana nayo ikozvino kuti chigadzirwa ichi chinogona kukubatsira iwe?
- Kana pane chinhu chimwe chete chaunogona kuchinja pamusoro pako [hupenyu / bhizinesi], chii chaizove?
- Chii chauchawana mukugadzirisa nyaya iyi?
- Ndezvipi njodzi dzinobatanidzwa pakugadzirisa nyaya iyi? Ndezvipi njodzi dzeKUSIKIRA?
- Inguva yakareba sei iyi yakange yakave yakapoteredza? Chii chaita kuti iwe usadzoke kubva pakugadzirisa kusvika ikozvino?
Kana imwe yemibvunzo iyi inokurudzira kupindura kwakasimba mune tarisiro yako, ita izvi - mhinduro refu kumubvunzo mutsva inoratidza kuti iri nyaya inokosha kwaari. Asi usasundira kana iye akaramba kupindura mubvunzo. Iwe unogona nguva dzose kudzokera kwaro gare gare iwe wakavaka zvishoma kuvimba nekutarisira kwako.
Chikamu chechipiri chemibvunzo yakakodzera inokubatsira kuti uone kana munhu akakwanisa kutenga kubva kwauri. Kusakwanisa kutenga kunogona kuenzaniswa nekushaya mari, kana kuitika nokuti munhu waunenge achitaura naye haisi chigumo chokupedzisira kana chimwe chinhu zvachose. Mimwe yemibvunzo iyi inopinda munzvimbo dzakanaka dzakanaka, saka vabvunze kunze kwekuti une chokwadi kuti wakavaka hukama hwakasimba netariro. Mibvunzo inotevera inogona kukubatsira kuti uone matambudziko anokwanisa:
- Kana iwe ukasarudza kutenga, chii chichaitwa nekutengesa?
- Ndiani achabatanidzwa mukuongororazve zvatinoda?
- Ichatora nguva yakareba sei kuti iwane kugamuchirwa kwekupedzisira?
- Iko kutengwa uku kuchabuda mubhadharo rebazi rako here?
- Ndiani achaita urongwa hwekutenga / kupedza chibvumirano?
- Ko pachava neine chikwereti chakabatanidzwa here?