Kana iwe uri mukadzi, uye unoda kukwira kumakambani ekukwirira uye kubhadhara zvaunokoshesa, hezvino pane mazano mana anokosha achakubatsira iwe kuputsa mukati megomba regirazi .
Dzidza Sei Kubvunza Zvakawanda - uye Zvadaro Ita!
Linda Babcock naSara Laschever, vanyori vebhuku rinonzi "Women Do Not Ask", vanopa pfungwa yokuti chikamu chinoita kuti kusaenzana kwepabonde kuchiri kuenderera kubasa nekuti vakadzi vanowanzobvunzurudza kutanga kwavo mibairo sevarume . Ichi chinhu chinonyanya kukosha, nyanzvi dzinoti, nokuti iwe unotaurirana sei mubhadharo wako uchange uine nguva yakareba yekuti ramangwana rinomutsa sei uye mabhonasi achaverengwa.
Tara Jackson, nyanzvi yezvemari uye mukurukuri mukuru wehurukuro paMadamMoney.com, anoti kugadzirira mberi kwekubhadharwa kwemari kunogona kubatsira kugadzirisa kusiyana kwevakadzi.
"Kana iwe ukakumbira mari nemagwaro ezvakaitwa, iwe unenge uine nzvimbo yakanakisisa yekukurukurirana kana vakati kwete kana kukupa zvishoma pane zvakabvunzwa," akadaro Jackson. "Uyewo, ramba uchifunga kuti kana waunoshandira asingakwanisi kukupa mari yakawanda, edza kukumbira mamwe mazano sekuwedzera nguva, kureva telecommuting, nezvimwewo"
Usatya Kutaura!
Vamwe vanogona kukuudza kuti urege basa rako ritaure basa rako. Asi kuzvininipisa kunogona kukukuvadza iwe.
Chidzidzo chinotaura kuti kunyange zvazvo varume vanowanzonzwa vakashinga kutaura pamusoro pebasa ravo, vakadzi - kunyange kana vane mazano akanaka-anokonzera mari - vachiri kutya kuregwa uye kunogona kugadziriswa kwekutaura.
Chimwe chikamu chekuchengetedza chinotsigira pamakambani anotungamirirwa nevarume vanoda kuchinja tsika yavo. Asi kana vakadzi vasingatauri, kambani yacho inenge isingadi kuita kudaro. Uye nevakadzi mune dzimwe nzvimbo dzeutungamiri kupfuura kare, ikozvino ndiyo nguva yakafanira yekusimudzira mberi basa rose rakanaka rauri kuita nezwi rakasimba!
Mashoko ako achakupa kuonekwa kukuru, kuisa pfungwa dzako nechivimbo, uye kukubatsira kuti uchinje tsika dzekushanda kunobatsira hutano hwevakadzi.
Iwe Haugoni Kubudirira Chega. Dzidza Maitiro Ekugovera.
Kunyange zvazvo vakadzi vezvemabhizimisi vane tariro yekuwedzera mabhizinesi avo, ivo vanoitawo zvishoma kudarika varume vavo vanowanzobhadhara vanhu kuvabatsira.
Chimwe chiitiko chinotaura kuti 9 muzana chete yevakadzi vakadzi vebhizimisi vanofunga kuronga vashandi vakawanda mumwedzi mitanhatu inotevera. Uye avo vanoronga kusashandira mari vanoti vanotora basa rakawanda ivo pachavo.
Kubva mubhizinesi rezvebhizimisi, kana iwe wakabatikana kuita zvose, saka iwe hauna nguva yekuvandudza nzira yekuwedzera kutengesa. Uye mune imwe nzvimbo yehutano, kuita zvose zvinoreva iwe kuti haugoni kuisa pfungwa pazvinhu zvinokosha izvo zvichaita kuti basa rako rive mberi-sekudzidza unyanzvi hutsva kana kutungamirira mapurogiramu anokosha kubasa.
"Izvi zvinokuvadza mukadzi uyu nokuti unotumira shoko uye kutarisira kuti iwe wakanaka nekuita basa rose pane zvauri kuita," Jackson akaudza The Balance. "Sangano rinokubvumira kuti usunungurire basa rakabatikana kuitira kuti uratidze pachena matarenda ako echokwadi angaita kuti hufambire mberi uye mari yakawanda."
Funga nezvebasa raunosarudza Iwe Unosarudza
A 2016 inoratidzirwa naGooDoor inoti zvikonzero zvakasiyana-siyana zvinoita kuti vakadzi vapedze mumabasa avo vanobhadhara mari shoma - kuverenga makumi maviri ne24 kubva muzana kubva mujeri pakati pevarume nevakadzi.
Mubvunzo unobva wava, nei vakadzi vachitora mabasa ekubhadhara pasi? Mushumo unopedzisa kuti kushamwaridzana kwemagariro evanhu kunokonzera varume nevakadzi mumatunhu akasiyana-siyana uye nheyo dzemabasa zvichibva pamabasa echikadzi. Uye nhengo idzi dzepabonde dzinoshandurawo mabasa ekuchengeta vana uye vakwegura kuvakadzi, izvo zvinovamanikidza kutsvaga mabasa ekubhadhara pasi anowirirana.
Izvi zvinoreva kuti iwe unofanirwa kuyeuka nzira yebasa raunosarudza. Iwe uri mubasa rako nokuti iwe unoda chaizvo? Kana kuti sangano rinosarudza basa rako here?
Kunyatsocherechedza kuti maitiro ehutano hunoita sei dzidzo yako uye basa rinogona kukupa simba rokusundira mberi kwavo uye kutora basa rako pachako.
The Bottom Line
Kunyange zvazvo kune zvimwe zvipingamupinyi zvebasa zvinowedzera kukanganisa kwehutano, hutsika huri kuitika. Uye muzviitiko zvakawanda, unogona kukwidza kuchinja uku kuburikidza nekukurukurirana, kutaura, kugovera uye kugara uchiziva. Aya matanho mana anokosha asi akakosha achakubatsira kuenda mberi uye kuita mari yakawanda.
Amanda Abella mutambi webhizimisi weMillennials, munyori weAmerica anonyanya kukosha, uye mukurukuri.