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Ngatitizei pfungwa yokuti iwe unogona kupukunyuka mutongo wejeri nokunyora. Simba Simba, rinovhara iyo inotaura zvakanyatsonaka munyaya yake inoti "Join Join the Military or Go to Jail?" Nokuda kwezvinangwa zvechikamu chino, tichakurukura pane pfungwa yekupukunyuka nhoroondo yako - nharaunda dzakaipa, mhuri dzakaipa, ukama hwakaipa, uye nezvera.
Success Stories
Pasina kuchera nhamba, pane humwe humwe humwe humwe uchapupu hunoratidza kuti vanhu vakashandisa sarudzo (kana basa rakazara) muuto reUnited States kuti vawedzere matambudziko avo. Ndakanzwa vanhu vakawanda vemazuva ano vachitaura nezvekushanyira guta rekumusha kwavo mushure memakore vari mubasa, kungowanikwa nemumwe (kazhinji kashoma) vanoshanyira kuti "zvinhu zvose zvakafanana" - kusanganisira vanhu vakafa vari kuguma kubva kuchikoro chesekondari, zvino mumakore makumi maviri nemakore, kusvuta dope muimba dzevabereki vavo. Munguva iyi, nyanzvi musoja akaona uye akaita zvakawanda kudarika vazhinji mumba anogona kugona.
Imwe mienzaniso inonyanyozivikanwa kubva munhoroondo yeUnited States ndiUlysses S. Grant, mudzidzi asina chaanoshaya, uye murimi asina kubudirira. Pasinei neizvi, akawana kudamwa kwake semukuru wehurumende yese yeUnited States panguva yeHondo yeVanhu, akagamuchira Lee kuzvipira kuAppomattox, uye akazoshanda seMutungamiri we18 weUnited States (pasina mubvunzo haisi yakanaka kwazvo, asi zvakadaro.)
Pedyo neimba, ndinoziva kuti baba vangu vambo-mbuya-mu-US Marine muHondo Yenyika II uyo akazobva apedza basa reSergeant Major vari munzvimbo dzekuchengetedza - vakapukunyuka kushanda kwemashure, baba vanonyadzisa, uye misha Kushungurudzika-nguva yeBrooklyn kuve mushumiri wepamusoro wepamusoro, scion yemunharaunda yake, uye kugadzikana kwevanhu vaviri-pensioner vehondo uye US Postal Service.
Kunyange ndakashandisa mauto kuti ndidzive zvimwe zvematambudziko angu. Nekwenharaunda yepakati-kati, amai vakasimba, uye dzidzo yakanakisisa, handigoni kuisa chirevo chikuru kumweya unotambudzika. Asi kwandiri, kubatana neMarines ndedzidziso yandakaita kuti "ndive murume" mushure mekupupura vabereki vangu kurambana, ndichipedza hucheche hwangu semwana akanyarara uye asingadiwi, uye asina simba rakasimba sevarume. Mwedzi mitatu ne Drill Instructors kuParris Island uye zvese zvandaona zvakaitika zvakaratidza hutano hwakasimba hwehupenyu hwangu nhasi semurume, mudzidzi, uye unyanzvi.
Kubva Matambudziko Emotional
Kwete nekukurumidza, zvakadaro. Ichokwadi ndechokuti, matambudziko edu asingaoneki - manzwiro edu - hazvisi nyore kutiza.
Mune mhaka yangu, kukura mukukurumidza-mberi kuburikidza nekambani yebhaotori uye mberi kwakandipa zvishandiso zvakawanda, asi hazvina kugadzirisa mutoro wekurambana kwevabereki vangu, iyo yakavigwa uye isina kuongororwa panguva ino.
Somugumisiro, ndave ndichishandisa kurapwa, hukama hwehukama, uye kunyange kurambana pazera remakore. Zvakaitika kwandiri seMarine zvakandibatsira kuti ndigone kutarisana nematambudziko iwayo, asi yakanga isiri kurapa.
Ndakazviziva izvi gare gare mubasa rangu pandakazoita basa reCarter Planner uye ndakatarisana nevamwe vechidiki Marines vachitarisira kutizira kune rimwe basa, imwe nzvimbo yepamusoro, imwe hupenyu - vose kutiza kubva pakuchema kukuru kwemhuri nemhuri dzavo pamwe chete. Mazano angu kwavari: Izvi zvinetso zvinokutevera pasinei nokuti unoenda kupi. Vanogona kutarisirwa nekutarisana chete nekutarisana navo musoro-uye vachitsvaka rubatsiro. Ivaregere pane yako (uye basa rako) pangozi.
Nheyo dzeMari
Sekukurukurirana nyaya dzepfungwa, heino mhedziso pfupi pfupi pamusoro pekupukunyuka mari yako yekuita -nokuti hapana zvakawanda zvokutaura. Kurambana uye kubhadhara rubatsiro kune mumwe wako kana vana?
Kuedza kubuda muchikwereti? Hazvizoshanda, zvakajeka uye zviri nyore. Kutaura zvazviri, kubatana neuto kunokuisa zvakasimba pane girasi kusvika kune hurumende inofanirwa - gridhi iyo inogona kukwanisa kubhadhara mari yako yose pasina mvumo yekukwereta chikwereti sekusabhadharwa kwevana vasina kubhadhara. (Iwe zvechokwadi unofanirwa kubatanidzwa neFrench Foreign Foreign Legion kana zviri izvo zvose zvaunotevera, kunyange ini ndisinganyatsoziva kuti hazvisi nyore kwavari, zvakare.)
A Note About Reservists
Zvinopera pasina kutaura kuti kuburikidza nekubatanidza zviwanikwa - kuita chikamu chebasa nguva yakarurama pedo neimba yako - hazvisi nyore nyore kutiza sezvinongoita basa rinoshanda. Zvisinei, iwe uchiri kugamuchira kurovedzwa, kufambidzana, zviitiko, uye zvikomborero zvinogona kuva zvishandiso zvako zvekubudirira. Yeuka kuti ndanga ndichitaura pamusoro pangu "kupukunyuka" kubva mumatambudziko? Kwemakore akawanda emakore gumi mu Marine Corps, ndaiva kuburitsa reservist, kurarama (pakati pekudzidziswa uye kune dzimwe nyika deployments) kwandakakurira. Zvakadini nezvo?