Kune chikamu chikuru, mibvunzo inotevera inogona kubvunzwa kuti uone kana iwe uri mutambi webati. Tora mashoma mashomanana, kana wakabvunzwa mubvunzo wakaoma , usati wapindura. Mumwe mubvunzurudzo haatarisi kuti iwe uve nemhinduro yakagadzirira. Zvisinei, Motto Boy Scout, "Gadzirira" inoshandawo pano zvakare.
Heano mamwe mimwe mibvunzo yekubvunzurudzwa kwebasa uye mhinduro pamusoro pekutarisana kupopotedzana kushanda kune rimwe boka nevashandi pamwe nevatariri.
Ndiudzei nezvenguva apo iwe waifanira kutarisana nemumwe mushandi wekambani uyo akanga asingaiti chikamu chake chakanaka chebasa racho. Wakaita sei uye chii chakazoguma?
Ndakashanda pamwe naAnn uyo, kakawanda, aigara achiita basa rake rakanaka. Munguva yekudzvinyirira nguva, kushanda purojekiti ine nguva yakatarwa, ndakaona zvipo zvaAnn pabasa racho zvaive zvishoma. Ndakaita chisarudzo chekumirira kusvikira mushure meprojekti yekutaura naye. Ndiri kufara kuti ndakaita nokuti ndakadzidza kuti aizotambudzika munguva yakaoma zvikuru muupenyu hwake hwega uye akaonga kuda kwangu kuenda kune imwe nzvimbo, naizvozvo basa rakapedzwa nenguva. Somugumisiro, mano edu ekushanda zvakanaka pamwe chete akawedzera.
Ndipei muenzaniso wenguva yawakatora nguva yekugovana zvakakosha zvekambani kana kuti maneki nemamwe?
Pachinzvimbo changu chazvino, mumwe wevashandi pamwe neni, Dan, akaita basa rakanaka rekugadzirisa mutevedzeri wekutsamwa, kugadzirisa chinetso chemuteereri nekupedzisa kutengesa. Apo mukuru wedu akandibvunza kuti zvinhu zvakange zvichifamba sei, ndakamuudza kuti zvose zvaifamba zvakanaka uye kuti Dhani akanga achangopedzisa kugadzirisa vateereri vatsamwa uye kupedza kutengesa.
Yakanga iri kukunda-kukunda-kukunda-kumakurukota edu, Dan, uye mutengi.
Ndiudzei imwe nguva yausina kushanda zvakanaka nemutariri. Chii chaiva mugumisiro uye iwe ungadai wakachinja sei mugumisiro?
Pakutanga kwebasa rangu, ndaive nemutariri (Judy) aive nemafungiro akanaka musi weMuvhuro, asi yakaderera zuva rega rega kusvikira, neChishanu, mutariri aive achiona mhosva yezvose zvandakaita. Ndakanga ndisingazivi, kusvikira ndabva panzvimbo iyoyo, kuti ndakanga ndiri mupiro wekuderera mukati mehupenyu hwake. Judy aizondibvunza kuti vhiki yangu yevhiki yaiva chii (musi weMuvhuro) uye mukati vevhiki aizobvunza kuti chii chaizoitika. Ndaizomuudza kuti zvinonakidza sei zvandakanga ndiri (ndakanga ndisina kuroora) uye kuti ndakanga ndakatarisira sei zvirongwa zvevhiki. Mushure mokunge ndabva, ndakaona hupenyu hwangu hwaive hwakasiyana zvachose nemukadzi uye ndakamuyeuchidza pamusoro pezuva nezuva. Paakabvunza mibvunzo, ndaifanira kunge ndakatora mhinduro nokukurumidza, ndokubva ndamubvunza kuti akanga achiita sei!
Wakamboshanda nemunhu wausingadi here? Kana zvakadaro, wakazviita sei?
Hongu, ndakashanda nemumwe munhu wandakaona zvakaoma kumuda somunhu. Zvisinei, pandakaisa pfungwa pahutano hwavakaunza kumabasa, kukwanisa kwavo kugadzirisa matambudziko uye zvinhu zviviri zvandakazvikoshesa, zvishoma nezvishoma maonero angu kwavari akachinja.
Hatina kumbova shamwari, asi takashanda pamwe chete.
Iwe unogona kundiudza nezvenguva yawakabatsira mumwe munhu?
Kunyanya munguva pfupi yapfuura, taive nebhadharo itsva (Paul) iyo yakanga iri kutambura nekuenda kushanda nenguva, uye ndaiziva mutariri (Harry) akanga achitsamwa. Panguva yemasikati rimwe zuva ndakatsanangurira Pauro kuti zvakakosha zvakadini kumuranda wedu kuti munhu wose avepo kwemaminitsi gumi kusvika pakutanga. Yakanga iri yega naHarry, asi iwe unogona kuisa pacho paakaipa pawakanga uchinge wakanonoka. Uyu mushandi mushandi akaonga mazano. Pabasa rake rakapfuura, maneja ainyanya kufunga nezvebasa rinoitwa panguva; iye haana "kutarira awa."
Iwe unogona kundiudza pamusoro penguva iyo iwe wakanganisa munhu mhosva?
Paiva nevashandi venguva yakareba (George) pakambani yangu yechipiri uyo akanga akanyanya kutaura paaitaura neni.
Pakutanga, ndakabuda munzira yangu kuti ndikunde George. Ipapo ndakabva ndaona kuti yakanga iri kuwedzera dambudziko racho. Saka ndakacherechedza kuti akabatana sei nevamwe vashandi ndokuona kuti ndakanga ndisiri ndoga. Akanga achinyanyisa kune vanhu vakawanda. Ndakarega kuedza kufarirwa naye uye, pakuita izvi, akawana kuti akadzidza maitiro ake kubva kune aimbova maneja ainge aine waaida.
Unobatana sei nevakuru (vaduku) vashandi pamwe chete?
Mhinduro yakakosha kana vashandi vako vakura: Pane nguva apo ini ndinongoziva kuti nzira itsva yekuita chimwe chinhu inonzwisisika kwandiri; asi, rwekutanga, ndakadzidza kuti "nzira yangu iri nani" ingasava iyo nzira yakanakisisa yekuita kuti basa riitike. Somugumisiro, ndinoremekedza vakuru vangu vashandi pamwe neni uye ndadzidza nzira yekuita mazano panguva yakakodzera.
Mhinduro yakakosha kana vashandi vako vari vaduku: Ndakakurumidza kuona kuti yakanga isiri basa rangu kune "mubereki" vanhu vaduku vatinoshanda navo; yakanga iri basa rangu kuti ndizive ivo uye kuti isu tiwane nzvimbo yakafanana apo tingakwanisa kushanda pamwe chete. Zvakatora nguva, asi chigumisiro chakanga chakanaka kuedza.