Wakave wakazviita. Iwe uri mumatanho ekupedzisira ekubvunzurudza , wakagara pedyo nemunhu anogona kuva mukuru wako, uye zvino inouya inger, mubvunzo unotyisa kune vose: " Wakaita zvakawanda sei mubasa rako rokupedzisira ?"
Nyanzvi dzekukurukurirana dzinowanzokukurudzira kuti uvhare mubvunzo wacho pane zvose zvinodhura. Asi tsvakurudzo itsva kubva paPayScale inoratidza kuti hafu yevanhu, ndicho chisina kururama.
Apo mukadzi anobvunzwa nezvemari yemari yake uye anoramba kuzarura, anowana 1.8 kubva muzana pasi pemudzimai anopa mapeji. Kana munhu akabvunzwa uye achirasikirwa zvakadaro, anobhadharwa ka2,5%.
Lydia Frank, vamiririri wehurukuro yehutano hwePayScale anobvuma kuti chikwata chakamusundira necheputi. "Tagara tichipa nzira dzekudzivisa mubvunzo iwoyo: 'Ndiri kufara zvikuru nemukana iwoyo, uye ini ndiri mukana wokukurukurirana pamusoro pekukwikwidzana,'" anodaro. "Kupa vakadzi zano iri - zvichida raisava zano rakanaka here?"
Zvichida kwete. Mashoko akanaka ndeokuti, semabasa-uye-labasa-junkies evhangeri angangodaro ava kuziva, mubhadharo wenhoroondo yemubhadharo uri panzira yekubuda mumiganhu mune zvishomanana zvemaguta nehurumende. Massachusetts, Philadelphia, New York City uye, munguva pfupi yapfuura, San Francisco - vakaita kuti zvibvumirwe kune vashandirwi kuti vakumbire mubhadharo wemuongorori mukutarisira kuti icharamba ichivhara gaka rekubhadhara .
Kusvikira izvi zvichinyatsoita-uye zvinozopararira-hezvino zvaunofanira kuita:
Kutanga, ziva kukosha kwebasa, uye kuti iwe unowedzera sei.
Usati waita basa chero ripi zvaro, zviparadzanise kubva pachigaro uye tsvakurudza kukosha kwaro. "Handizvo zvaunokoshesa, ndizvo zvakakosha basa," anodaro Katie Donovan, nyanzvi yekukurukurirana uye muvambi we equalpaynegotiations.com.
"Tinoita sechimwe chirevo chepenzi kuti basa rive nerinokosha. Hwakafanana neimba, ine marongerwo emari uye inoshanduka kana iine akawanda uye ishoma kwazvo [inowanikwa]. "Kana wakaziva kukosha kwebasa, tanga kufunga pamusoro pekuti-zvakadai sekugadziriswa kumusha - unyanzvi hwako uye ruzivo kuwedzera kwairi. Shandisa nzvimbo dzakadai seGreendoor, PayScale uye Fairygodboss (iyo inonyanya kuvakadzi) kuchinja nhamba dzako. Uye usazvibatanidza pachako kumari yako yekare. Misika yacho ingadai yakashanduka sezvo iwe wakapedzisira wapiwa basa. "Zvinonyanya kukosha kukurukura kukosha kwechigaro - kwete kukosha kwaunoitwa nomushandi wako paunyanzvi hwako," anodaro Frank. Uyewo unzwisise kuti uri kuenda kupi-uchenjeri, unyanzvi-huchenjeri uye nzvimbo chaiyo. Zvose izvi zvinofanira kufungidzira mune zvingatarisirwa kuripa.
Kushandisa paIndaneti? Zero it out, uye usamboreve nhema.
Paunenge uchishanda paIndaneti, kana iwe unogona kutsika quesiton yemari, chiwande. Kana iri munda unodiwa, edza kuisa mu zeroe kudarika bhodhi. "Kazhinji pane zvisiri izvo, izvo zvinotarisira zvinodiwa, asi [chipi nechipi chaunoita], usareva nhema," anorayira Donovan. "Vanhu vanoda kufambisa uye kune ngozi. Kana vakaona kuti iwe urevi wenhema, ndicho chikonzero chekupedza basa raunopa. "(Izvozvowo, nenzira, ichokwadiwo mumunhu.) Kana iyo fomu isingakubvumiri kuti uite zero, taura chokwadi.
Asi kana iwe uye paunosvika pakubvunzurudza, Frank anoratidza kutaura chimwe chinhu mumigwagwa yekuti: "'Kubva pane zvataitaura - kana tsanangudzo yeiyo nzvimbo - Ndinofunga kuti mararamiro anofanira kutanga pano - unobvumirana here?' kubva pamhuri yako yemahombekombe nekutaura pamusoro pekutsvakurudza kwakakuendesa kune nhamba yako munzvimbo yekutanga.
Shandisa vatori vemabhuku uye vatungamiri sevashandi.
Iyi mitemo iyo inoshanda kana iwe uri kutaura nevatori nevatungamiri, uyewo avo vanozoshandira vashandi. Vashandi vanogona kunge vari mumba-kana sangano-uye-uye pavanoshumira sevatauriri pakati penyu nekambani, ramba muchifunga ivo havasi nguva dzose chiratidzo chekambani pachayo, anodaro Frank. Iwe unoda kuwana ruzivo rwakawanda kubva kune muchengeti sezvaunopa. Saka, bvunza pamusoro pekambani, nzvimbo, zvikomborero zvinowanikwa uye mimwe mirayiridzo yemari yavakapiwa, saka unogona kuve nani kuverenga nhamba yaunofanira kutarisira kunzwa.
Uye kana akashatirwa nekutora nhamba yako, zvakare, iwe unogona kutaura chimwe chinhu chakadai: "Ichi ndicho chandakanga ndichiita, uye handifungi kuti ikozvino kukosha kwekutengeswa kwemaonero angu. Izvi ndizvo zvandiri kufungidzira ... "Kune vatungamiri vamunoshanyira, funga navo sevatsigiri venyu uye iva vakatendeseka sezvaunokwanisa. Apa ndipo paunoti: "'Ndinoziva ndiri mukadzi, uye ini ndinoda kuti basa iri ribhadzwe zvakakodzera uye neruzhinji. Ndibatsirei, nditungamirirei uye muite izvi zvakaenzana sezvinobvira, '"anodaro Donovan. "Wakavabvunza kuti vave vadzidzisi vechokwadi kwauri: 'Ndiri kuita $ 80,000, uye ndinofanira kuita $ 100,000 - tinoshandisa sei [chokwadi chokuti] ndiri kubhadharwa mari?'"
Usati wapa nhamba, shandisa mubvunzo mubvunzo.
Iye zvino, ngatiti uri muhurukuro nemunhu angashandisa uye mubvunzo unobvunzwa. Asati atora bundu, isa bhora zvakare muruvazhe rwavo. "Sezvo iwe unobvunzwa mubvunzo usanonoka kuzvidzora," anodaro Rachel Bitte, mukuru wevanhu vakuru veJobvite, software uye recruiting corporation. "Hazvomboiti kumubvunza mubhizi: 'Iwe unoziva nzvimbo, kambani uye iwe uri kundiziva semunhu - iwe uri kufunga chii?'"
Anowedzera kuti: "Ndinoda kuti mushandi ataure nhamba usati watanga kutaura zvauchaita. Kunze kwekuti iwe wakaona kuti bhajeti iri chii, iwe uchatora zvishoma. "
Kana zvichidikanwa, fungidza pause button.
Kunyangwe iwe uchida kudzivisa kutaura nhamba yekutanga, usabva pahurukuro yekubhadhara kusvikira pakupedzisira. Iwe hausi kuda kuenda kuburikidza nekugadzirisa kwose kubvunzurudza kuti uone kuti hakuzovi kuenzaniswa. Izvo zvinoparadza nguva yevanhu vose. Zvisinei, kana iwe uchifunga kuti uri pedyo nenhamba yaunoda kunzwa, asi unoda nguva shomanana yekuisa chisimbiso chacho, zvino tora pause, unoti Bitte. "Kana iwe ukazviwana uri mhiri kwetafura uye iwe usingafungi kuti ichabereka - iwe vaviri haungakwanisi kusangana pakati kana kuti kuisa pavharasi - usambozeza kutaura: 'Izvi ndizvo chisarudzo chinokosha kwazvo, isu tose tinofara uye ndinoda kuva nehanya pamusoro peizvi. Ndinoda kudzoka kwauri uye kuita izvi basa. Tinokwanisa kutaura pamusoro peizvi mangwana. "Izvi zvinogona kukutengera iwe nguva yekuenda pane izvo zvinotarisirwa, zvirongwa uye uite zvaunenge uchataura. Inogadzirisawo hurukuro kuti ive pamusoro pefoni. "[Dzimwe nguva] vanhu vari kutaurirana zviri nani pane foni ine script uye data - iwe unokwanisa kuvanza jira. Ndiyo mazano andakaisa mazano uye mazano kuvakadzi vose - zvakanaka kune vanofarira matiri. Apo mumwe munhu akandibvunza mubvunzo, ndinofunga kuti ndinofanirwa kuva nemhinduro. Nokuti mumwe munhu anokubvunza mubvunzo iwoyo, haufaniri kuupindura pakarepo. "
Ndiina Kelly Hultgren