Muzvinyorwa zvakanyorwa zveGallup kubva muna 1953, varume nevakadzi vanoti vanosarudza kushandira mukomana wechikadzi panzvimbo pebhasi wechikadzi. Muna 1953 Sarudzo yeGallup, 66% yevaya vakabvunzwa vakati vaida kushandira murume kupfuura mukadzi. (Paunofunga nezvemashoko e19313, inobhadhara kutarisa maonero emhando yemabasa madzimai akaitwa muma1950 uye kuti vazhinji vanobhadhara mubhadharo vaiva varume.) Kunyange zvazvo nhamba idzi dzakashandura zvinoshamisa pamusoro pemakore 60-mamwe makore, nhamba wevaya vakapindura vachiti vangada kushandira mukadzi haana kumbopfuura 25%.
Muna 2013 Gallup Poll yakabvunza maAmerica, "Kana iwe uri kutora basa idzva uye wakasarudza benzi, ungada here kushandira murume kana mukadzi?" vakapindura avo vaifarira vachiri kusarudza kushandira murume:
"Vanhu veAmerica vachiri kunyanya kutaura kuti vangada murume wechibhadha (33%) kumudzimai wechikadzi (20%) mubasa idzva, kunyange zvazvo 46% vanoti hazviiti mutsauko kwavari. Nepo vakadzi vari ivo vakawanda kupfuura varume kuti vataure kuti vangasarudza vashandi vevakadzi, ivo vachiri kunyanya kutaura kuti vangasarudza mukomana wevarume vose. "
Izvi Zvinoreva Vanhu Zviri nani Zviri Kushanda Kune Vakadzi Here?
Iyi tsanangudzo yedare chete haina kugadzirisa, asi tinogona kuona dzimwe pfungwa dzinofadza:
- Vakadzi vakawanda vanoda kushandira varume kupfuura mumwe mukadzi; zvisinei, kune vose vakapindura avo vakati vaida kushandira mukadzi, vazhinji vavowo vakadzi.
- Vashandi vemadzimai avo vari vaviri vane mudzimai wechikadzi vangave vachida kushandira mumwe mukadzi mune ramangwana kupfuura murume.
Izvo pamusoro apa zvinogona kureva kuti kusave wakashanda kumukadzi zvisati zvave chikonzero chekupindura kwavakapindura. Zvisinei, zvinogona kunge zvakare kuti vashandi vose vanofunga kuti varume vane simba rakawanda uye vane simba mukati mekushanda kwenyika uye, saka, vangave vari munzvimbo iri nani yekupa hufambiro.
Chii Chingadzidza Kubva Kuchengetedza Izvi?
Vakadzi vachiri kuonekwa sevasingakoshi kuti vashande pane vanhurume, pane imwe nguva. Mafungiro angave ari tsanangudzo imwechete yekuti sei vamwe vanhu vachitaura zvavanoda kushandira murume, asi mamwe magwaro e2015 Gallup angaratidza kuti chitendero chemunhu pachake uye maitiro angavewo chinhu chinokosha:
- 46% veRepublican respondents vakasarudza murume wechibhadha.
- 16% yevaRepublican respondents vakataura zvakasarudzwa nemudzimai wechikadzi.
- 29% yevanhu vaDemocrat vakapindura vakasarudza varume uye 25% vakati vaida kushandira mukadzi.
VaRepublicans vanoita kuva nehutano hwakanaka hwemhuri nemafungiro akasiyana pamusoro pebasa revakadzi munharaunda uye vanosarudza kushandira varume apo Democrats yakaita seinofunga nezvehutano hushoma hwebasa. Maonero avanoona vakadzi mumabasa uye basa ravo munharaunda yakakura zvakare rinoratidzika sechikonzero chekuti nei mamwe mapoka achizendamira kune rumwe rutivi kana rumwe.
Vanhu vanoshandira bhosikadzi (pasinei nehutano, zera, kana mutambo wekambani) vainyanya kutaura kuti vangasarudza mumwe mutariri wechikadzi. Maitiro akadaro angaita seanoratidza kuti vakadzi vanoita vashandi vakanaka.
Chinokosha ndeizvi: Vakadzi vanoita vashandi vakuru uye vanoitawo varume, asi zvingava zvisina kururama kutaura kuti vanhu vose vanoita vashandi vakuru (nokuti ivo varume) uye kuti vakadzi vose vanoita vashandi vakuru (nokuti ivo vakadzi).
Chii chinoita kuti bhosi huru ive isina zvakawanda zvingaita nehutano pane hutsika hwemunhu, nzira, uye mafungiro kune avo vari pasi-kuti bhosi inobata sei vashandi-uye kuti isu pachedu isu tinotarisa maonero ehutano zvakanyanya kutendeka kudarika zvatingaita funga.