Joe Girard, mutengesi mukuru munyika yose maererano neGuinness Book of World Records, anorumbidza kubudirira kwake kune tsika yake yokutumira makadhi akanyora pamwedzi mumwe nomumwe kune vatengi vake.
Girard akatumira makadhi anopfuura 16 000 pamwedzi, uye somugumisiro, akava mukuru wevatengesi vemotokari pasi rose kwemakore gumi nematanhatu mumutsara. Asi iwe haufaniri kunge uchida kutumira zviuru zvemakadhi mwedzi mumwe nomumwe kuti uwane chiitiko chinoshamisa.
Usafunga kuti kutumira email kana fomu tsamba ichaita chinhu chimwe chete. Ichokwadi chokuti vanhu vashomanana vanovhiringidzika kutumira tsamba dzakanyorwa nemaoko uye makadhi zvichaita kuti yako ive nesimba zvikuru. Vanhu vanocherechedza mabhii akanyorwa nemaoko asi ivo vanowanzokanda mabhii mavara zvakananga mubhadha rezvekare. Tsamba dzakadaro hazvidi kuti dzive refu, zvimwe. Makadhi anozivikanwa aGirard akanyora zvese akati, "Ndinokuda iwe." Ndizvo zvaaishungurudza kutumira makadhi iwayo mwedzi woga woga waifadza vatengi vake, kwete mharidzo yakaoma kana yakaoma .
Nhamba yekutenda ndiyo nzira inonyanya kukosha yekushandira kune mumwe munhu. Iwe hausi kuratidza kuonga kwako pane zvavakaita, asi iwe unoratidza zvakare kuti iwe unoda kutora nguva yekunyora shoko iwe pachako uye kuitumira.
Nokuda kwezvakanaka zvikuru, zvakaita sumo yakatungamirira zvakananga kutengesa kukuru, kusanganisira chipo chiduku chingave chakakodzera - asi hachisi chinhu chinodiwa.
Chii Chingabatanidza Mukutenda Kwaunoita?
Zvinyorwa zvako zvinofanira kusanganisira kutaura pamusoro pezvakaitwa nemunhu wacho uye zvinofanira kusimbisa zvibereko zvakanaka zvezviito zvake.
Kana ukasangana nemunhu pane imwe chiitiko kana musangano, sununguka kutaura kuti chii chaifadza kumusangana naye. Iwe unogonawo kurera kuti unoonga sei zvakaitwa nemunhu uyu pakukubatsira iwe. Kana iwe usingazivi kuti ungazotanga sei, edza kuzarura chinyorwa chako nechimwe chinhu chakadai, "Ndaifanira kutora nguva yekukutendai nokuda kwekunaka kwako [kureva, kutaurira, nezvimwewo]."
Iyo pfungwa yakanaka yekuvhara nekutaura pamusoro pekuti unotarisira sei kumisangano yeramangwana kana kukurukurirana nemubatsiri wako. Chimwe chinyorwa chepamutemo kana tsamba inogona kuvhara ne "Zvakanakisisa," "Ndinovonga zvikuru," kana "Maitiro," zvichienderana nekuziva kwaunoita munhu wauri kunyora. Kana uri kubudisa nheyo nyore kana kuzadza kadhi, haufaniri kushandisa nzira yakadaro yakarongeka.
Apo Mumwe Munhu Anokutumirai Chipo
Apo mumwe munhu anokutumira chipo - somuenzaniso, panguva dzezororo - iwe unofanira kunge uchipindura nemashoko ekuonga. Iyowo pfungwa yakanaka kuchengetedza runyoro rwevanhu vakakupa chipo kuti iwe unogona kudzorera gore rinouya. Mazwi akadaro ekutenda anofanira kutaura nezvechipo chaicho chawakagamuchira, iwe unofara kuva nacho, uye chinangwa chauri kuronga kuishandisa. Somuenzaniso, kana mutengi akakutumira kadhi yechipo kune imwe nzvimbo yekutengesa, unogona kutaura kuti unoda sei zvokudya panzvimbo iyoyo uye kuti unofunga sei kutora murume wako ikoko usiku huno kubva kuvana.
Imwe nguva yakakura yekutenda-iwe nyora ndeyekuyeuka kwevatengi. Kana uine mutengi wave achitenga kubva kwauri kwegore rose (kana makore akawanda), iva nechokwadi kuti utumira nyora kumuonga nekuda kwekuti akavimbika mutengi . Vatengi vakadaro vanofanira kukurudzirwa kuti varambe vakavimbika, uye ivo vachakoshesa chokwadi chekuti makacherechedza nguva yakareba yei.