Vashandi Vako Vanovimba Newe Kutora Chibvumirano Chekubatanidza Nzvimbo Yebasa
Akanga ane utsinye uye akatsoropodza uye akashandisa simba rake kumanikidzira vanhu muboka rake. Akashandisa makamera ekuchengetedza kuti aite zvinyorwa zvemabasa evanhu vose.
Hapana anoziva nezvechinangwa chipi nechipi chechikonzero cheizvi.
Mune zvishoma zvishoma akakwanisa iye zvino achiri kuchengeta zvinyorwa zvechinhu chero ani zvake anoita icho chaasingadi. Haatombofari nemunhu akatora basa rake rekare, uye mutariri wavo mutsva zvakare.
Akave ataurwa pamusoro penyaya yake yeguhwa nguva dzose pasi uye mafungire ake akaipa . Mugumisiro wehurukuro idzodzo ndeyekuti anongonyunyuta apo mukuru wake haasi kumativi ose kuti anzwe. Iye (anenge ava pedyo) anogara achiremekedza munhu wose paanenge ari pamberi pevatariri varo, asi iyo inomira pavanenge vachifamba.
Saka, uyu munhu akatsamwa uye asina kunaka anoita basa rakanaka kwazvo. Anogara ari kubasa, nguva nenguva. Ari kungwarira kuti arege kunyanyisa kana vatariri kana vatungamiri varipo. Anokurumidza kuparadzira makuhwa, kuti aende pamusoro pemusoro wemutungamiri nemibvunzo.
Pasinei nounyanzvi hwake, mafungiro ake ari kutyisa boka racho. Icho chikonzero chokupisa mushandi here? Iwe ungazoita sei nekurega mushandi akadaro achienda?
Kana iwe uchida kumuchengetedza, ndeapi maitiro aungashandisa kuva nehutu?
Hongu, Unogona Kushanda Umushandi Ane Ane Muchetu-Asi ...
Chokutanga pane zvose, hungu, ichi chikonzero chikuru chekutendera mushandi-asi kana iwe usingagoni kugadzirisa dambudziko. Mikana ndeyokuti iwe unogona kugadzirisa dambudziko. Mushure mezvose, haudi kurasikirwa nemushandi uyo "anoita basa rakanaka kwazvo" kana iwe usingafaniri.
Asi, tarisa mamiriro acho ezvinhu zvakajeka: Hapana munhu "anonyadzisa boka" ari kuita basa rakanaka chaizvo nokuti haasi kuva nyoka inouraya chikamu chemukati chetsanangudzo yemabasa yega mabasa ose.
Iwe unogona kutevera urongwa huchaita zvakanyanyisa mikana yokuti achava mushandi akanaka, asi haisi yepurogiramu inoshanda yepurogiramu. Sei zvisingaiti 100% kubudirira?
Nokuti uri kutarisana navanhu uye vanhu vanogona kugara vachizvisarudzira. Anogona kusarudza kusazvidza iwe, uye angasarudza kuti haafariri murayiridzo wekuchinja uye kungoenda uye kusiya .
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Izvo zvaunoda kuita ndeyokuita Performance Improvement Plan (PIP) iyo inosimudzira chirango chinoramba chichienderera mberi . Apa ndipo paunotevera mitezo yematanho, pamwe nepfungwa yokuti kana mushandi wacho asingashanduki kana kuvandudza, unoguma nekuguma pamagumo. Ndiyo kuguma kuguma uye magwaro aunozadza anoita kuti izvi zvive zvakasiyana pane kungotaura nemushandi wako nezvechinetso.
Aya ndiwo matanho ekushandisa chirongwa chekuvandudza kubudirira.
Iva nehurukuro-pasi pasi nemushandi. Kunyange iwe ungangodaro wakapa zano mushandi uyu mukupfuura , ("Hey, ndakacherechedza iwe wakanga usina kunaka pamusangano iwoyo") ino ndiyo nguva yekutarisa, kutungamirirwa, uye kugadzirirwa ruzivo.
Iwe unogonawo kubvunza mibvunzo uye uone kuti chii chaanofunga. Zvinogona kuti iye haazive kuti haana kunaka sei ari kuuya kune avo vashandi. Saka, edza izvi:
"Jane, ndakacherechedza kuti hauri kufara uye unotaura zvisina kunaka nezvebasa rako uye vamwe vanhu vanoshanda pano. Somuenzaniso, ndakacherechedza kuti kunyange iwe uchigara uchitarisana chiso nechiso, iwe uchati zvinhu zvisina kunaka mushure mevanhu.
"Chikamu chebasa rako ndechekuvaka ukama hwakanaka nevashandi pamwe navo , uye hutsika iyi inoderedza izvi. Ndingaitei kuti ndikubatsire munzvimbo ino?"
Mubvunzo uri kumagumo uchabvumira mushandi wako kutaura uye kugovera zvichemo zvake, izvo zvingangove zvichange zvakaita. Heino chinhu: Unogona kuva netsitsi . Iwe unogona kuti, "Izvo zvinofanira kunge zvakaoma iwe kuti urambe uchishanda naSheryl kubvira paakatora nzvimbo yako yekare."
Asi, pakuguma kwese tsitsi netsitsi hurukuro, iwe unofanirwa kuuya kune izvi: "Pasinei, mufambiro hauna kukodzera muhofisi ino. Tinokoshesa basa rako uye isu hatidi kukurasikirwa newe, asi kana iwe usingakwanise kuisa izvi pamwe chete, tichagumisa basa rako . "
Nyora nguva, zuva, uye zviripo zvehurukuro. Panguva ino, iwe unogona kumupa iye nehurongwa hwehutano hwekuvandudza urongwa hunozivisa zvinotarisirwa kwaari.
Tevera. Iwe haufaniri kutarisira kutadza nguva pfupi kubva kune mushandi mune izvi. Mushure mezvose, zvinotora zvakawanda kuedza kuchinja. Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha pano, zvakadaro, ndechekuti iwe haugoni kungotanga kukanganwa maitiro akaipa. Kana ukacherechedza mafambiro asina kunaka pane chikamu chebasa, ruramisa iyo panguva, asi zvisinei, teerera pamwe nemushandi mumavhiki maviri.
Pamisangano miviri yevhiki, kana ari kufambira mberi zvakanaka, rumbidzai iye. ("Jane, ndakacherechedza kuchinja kwechokwadi mumararamiro ako hausi iwe unoda kuva, asi ndiri kucherechedza kuchinja kukuru, ngatitambire mberi, chii chandingaita kuti ndikubatsire?")
Kana iye asiri kufambira mberi, iyi ndiyo iyo "chifambira mberi" chikamu chekuenderera mberi chirango chinopinda .
Mupei iye nekunyorerwa kwakanyorwa . Izvi zvinofanira kusanganisira tsanangudzo yezvinetso zvaanoda kugadzirisa pamwe chete nemashoko kuti kana mufambiro wake usingavandudzi, sangano rako rinomusimudzira, uye ipapo, kumisa basa rake.
Tsanangura kuti iyi nyevero inowanikwa mumushandi wake wefaira . Kumbira kuti asayine kuti aratidze kuti akagamuchira nyevero iyi. Anogona kumuramba, achitaura kuti haabvumirani nezvakanyorwa. Iwe unogona kutsanangura kuti chikwangwani chake hachiratidze chibvumirano, asi pane kuti akachigamuchira.
Simbura mushandi. Kana iye asati achiri kufambira mberi, inguva yekumiswa. "Jane, tave tichitaura nezvechinetso chako chemafungiro uye mufambiro sangano redu rinowirwa nekuda kwayo. Haisi kuvandudza.
"Sezvandakareva, tinokoshesa basa rako, asi tinokoshesa vashandi vedu vose mafungiro ako asina kunaka uye makuhwa ari kukuvadza dhipatimendi.Sezvandakatsanangura mavhiki maviri akapfuura, nokuti hauri kufambira mberi, iwe uchasimbiswa , pasina kubhadhara kwezuva rimwe chete. "
Zvinonyanya kukosha kuti Jane haaiti basa pamusi wekusimbiswa kwake . Kana akaregererwa , iwe unofanira kumubhadhara kwezuva rose kana akaita chero basa. Kana iye asingasunungurwi , unofanirwa kumubhadhara nokuda kwemaawa aakashanda. Saka, ita kuti zvive pachena kuti haafaniri kushanda zvachose. Haafaniri kutarisa email yake. Haafaniri kutora foni.
Kuguma. Kana maitiro asingashandisi mushure mekusimiswa, inguva yekurega mushandi wenyu asina kunaka achienda . Kunyange iwe ungave uchiedzwa kuti ugare naye, unzwisise kuti kana uchiita izvozvo, hauzovi nesimba pamusoro pemushandi uyu zvakare. Achaziva kuti anogona kuita chero chaanoda uye iwe hauzoiti zvakawanda.
Kana iwe ukati, "Asi ini handigone kurasikirwa naye," funga zvakare. Vashandi vasina kunaka vanoita makuhwa vari kukuvadza dhipatimendi rako rese. Vamwe vashandi vako vanowanzosiya uye havasi ivo vakabatanidzwa sezvavaizove kana vari muhofisi inoshanda. Iwe unokweretesa kune vese vashandi vako kutarisira uyu mushandi ane chepfu, izvo zvinoreva kumubata kana asingashanduri nzira dzake.
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