Mutemo, Maitiro, uye Basa Rokugadzirisa Matambudziko Anoitika Apo Mubasa Ane Mwana
Apo zvinosvika kumhuri yekuenda, Vanhu Vanofanira kuchengetedza zvakawanda zvigaro. Iwe unobvumirwa zviri pamutemo kuita zvimwe zvinhu iwe uchifanira kuita vamwe kuitira kuti uchengetedze basa rinoyerera uye kutarisira vashandi vari vabereki vatsva.
Mhuri yako inobva kusimuka inofanirwa kuongorora zvinhu izvi gumi nezviviri.
Ziva Mitemo Pamusoro Pekuenda Kwemhuri
IUnited States ndeimwe yenyika chete munyika iyo isingadi kubhadharwa kuberekwa kana kubvisa vana, asi Family Medical Leave Act (FMLA) inoda kuti iwe upe mavhiki gumi nemaviri ezororo risina kubhadhara kune vashandi vakakodzera.
Kunzwisisa mutemo uyu uye izvo vashandi vane kodzero yekugamuchira. Semuenzaniso, vashandi havakwanisi kutora mavhiki gumi nemaviri mune imwe chunk-vanogona kutora nguva yacho mukati-kati.
Mamuko ekuberekwa, vashandi, uye kubvuma vabereki vose vanofanirwa (vachifunga kuti vanosangana nemirairo). Ziva mutemo uyu, pamwe chete nemimwe mitemo iri munyika yako (California, Hawaii, New Jersey, New York, uye Rhode Island vane mari yakabhadharwa-mubereki vanosiya mitemo, saka tarisai zvakanyanya). Mimwe mitemo yebasa inogamuchirwa nguva dzose saka inobhadhara kuti ugare uine ruzivo pamusoro pemitemo iri munharaunda yako.
Nyora Mutemo Wakarongeka Nezvokudya Kwemhuri
Nyora purogiramu yekambani yemhuri yekusiya.
Hongu, gara nemitemo, asi kambani yako inogona kusarudza mamwe mashoko. Funga izvi zvingasarudzwa kana iwe uchifunga nezvemhuri kuenda.
- Uchapa here kubhadhara nguva yekuti mhuri iende? Hazvibvumirwi nemutemo wehurumende, asi pane zvakawanda zvinobatsira pakuzviita. Google yakawedzera kuchengetwa kwevakadzi vatsva ne50 muzana kuburikidza nekupa nguva shomanana yekubhadhara. Kana iwe ukapa nguva yakabhadharwa , kunyatsotaura kuti nguva yakawanda inopiwa uye ndeapi vashandi vanofanirwa. Somuenzaniso, vashandi venguva yakazara vanowana x muyero, asi vashandi venguva yakazara havakodzeri.
- Ko nguva yakabhadharwa yekuti mhuri iende yakamhanya panguva imwe chete ne FMLA nguva? Kana vashandi vakagamuchira mavhiki maviri vachibhadhara nguva, sarudza kana nguva iyoyo ichishanda zvakasiyana kana panguva imwe chete neFMLA nguva. Kana iyo ikamhanya zvakasiyana, vashandi vanogona kutora vhiki 14 kubva. Kana ichinge yaenda panguva imwe chete, iwe unofanirwa kungobhadhara mushandi panguva yemasvondo gumi nemaviri ivo vane kodzero yekushandisa FMLA.
- Iwe uchava ne chirongwa chepasi rose chekusiya mhuri here? Kana iwe uchipa nguva yekubhadharwa nguva kune vashandi, sarudza kana mubereki wese achawana yakaenzana yakawandisa nguva yekusiya kana kana mamiriro akasiyana achawana kurapa kwakasiyana. Semuenzaniso, amai vanoberekwa vanofanirwa kugamuchira vhiki mbiri dzekubhadhara nguva, asi vabereki vanorera kana kuti vasina-birthing vanogamuchira vhiki imwe inobhadharwa? Izvo zviri kumakambani, asi nyora pasi mhuri inofamba mitemo yakadaro yakafanana inoshandiswa nguva dzose.
Shandisai Basa reMhuri
Ita kuti vatevedzeri vashande pamwe nevashandi zvakanaka nguva isati yasvika mhuri iende kuzogadzirisa basa apo mushandi wacho apfuura. Tsvaga zvose zvese zvakafukidzwa, zvinyatsoisa pasi kuti ma email avo atumire kune waanoshanda naye (kana zvichidiwa).
Izvi zvinoderedza kushungurudzika kune vashandi uye kubvisa zvinogona kuitika.
Vatungamiri vanogona kushanda pamwe neboka ravo kuti vayambuke mitoro , iyo inouya musingobatsiri chete nguva yekusiya mhuri asiwo kana kurasikirwa nemushandi kune zvimwe zvikonzero.
Yeuka Bashandi Nevamwe Nezvekusiya Kwemhuri
Haasi munhu wose anoda kambani yose kuziva kuti vari kutarisira kana kuti vane mwana. Uye chaizvoizvo, HR haafaniri kutaurira vatungamiri zvakananga nei mushandi ari kunze kwe FMLA (kunyange zvazvo vangangodaro vanoziva chikonzero nei mushandi wepamuviri akangoerekana apera kwemavhiki mashomanana).
Funga kuti pachena sei mushandi akakurukura kuberekwa nevashandi uye kuita nekuremekedza . Kana mushandi achida kuparidzira mifananidzo yemwana achangoberekwa panzvimbo yekambani yevanhu, paIndaneti kana kuburikidza ne email, yakakura. Asi iwe haufaniri kuzviita.
Ita Kuti Zvibatsiro Zvigoneke
Makomborero anokosha munguva yekudzivirira uye kuberekwa, uye kusava kwavo kana kuvhiringidzika pamusoro pavo kunokonzera kushushikana kwevashandi .
Vanenge vese vashandi vanoda kubatsirana kukurukurirana zvakagadzirirwa zviitiko zveupenyu. Kunyange zvazvo zvido zvehutano zvisingakwanisi kufanotaura, zviri nyore chaizvo kutarisira apo mumwe munhu ari kutarisira mwana.
Ndiwo mutsara wakaonda kufamba, asi kupa rubatsiro rwakawanda sezvinobvira pasina kuremekedza hutano hwevashandi. Semuenzaniso, hazvina kukodzera kuudza mushandi wepamuviri kuti mushandi wehutano ane chinyorwa chekuchengetedza rubatsiro rwekuyamwisa kunze kwekunge vanyatsokumbira.
Iwe hauna pfungwa ipi zvayo yaachaitira mwana wavo), asi iwe unogona kubatsira nekuyeuchidza kuti Bhizimisi Rinobatsira (EAP) rine zvigaro zvekubatsiridza zvakanaka.
Iva netsika yakachengeteka iyo inoshandiswa nevashandi vanogona kuwana ruzivo pamusoro pezvikomborero kana kupa vashandi makopi emapepa anoshanda. Pose pazvinenge zvichibvira, vashandi vakananga kune nzvimbo dzavanogona kutsvakurudza uye kuwana mhinduro. Izvi zvinoguma nebasa shoma kwauri uye rinopa simba ravo kuti vafambe uye vaongorore zvinobatsira ivo pachavo, vose vachiremekedza zvavanoda.
Ipa Kuchinja
Vanhu vanoda kuchinja mafungiro asi vanoita mitsara inodikanwa. The Zita idzva remubereki hazviiti kuti zvigamuchirwe kuti vashandi venguva yakazara vashande maawa 25 pavhiki chete. Zvichida hazvirevi kuti vashandi vauye nevana vavo vatsva kuti vashande nguva yose. Zvisinei, zvichida hazvisi basa guru kana Erica achisvika pa9: 15 mangwanani paanenge achiongorora nguva yekuregererwa kwezuva.
Kutsigira kunogona kubatsira vashandi kugadzirisa basa ravo idzva. Vashandi vanofanira kuva neboka revanhu vanovatsigira kubasa, uye kupa maawa anogadzirisa zvinoratidza kutsigira kwako.
Mamwe makambani anoona kuti zvakakosha kubvumira vashandi kuti vadzokere shure vachienda kushanda. Kubvumira vashandi kuti vadzoke chikamu chemaawa mashomanana mushure mokunge mhuri yaenda igovapa sarudzo yekuunza mari asi kwete kukuvara. Inotadzisawo mutoro wekuva nemushandi kunze kwehofisi.
Kana vashandi vanoshandisa nguva yavo yose yeFMLA asi vachiri kuda nguva shomanana yekudzoka, edza kuwedzera nayo nguva isina kubhadharwa yekusiya . Kana, kana vashandi vasingakodzeri FMLA (uye zvichienderana nemubhadharo wevabereki vanoenda muvatsigiri, 40 muzana yevashandi veUnited States havaiti), edza kuvakira ivo zvakadaro.
Ita chirongwa cheChirangaridzo
Kutsigira kunogona kubatsirawo kambani kana kushandurwa kwemaitiro kuchikumbira mushure mekunge kana mushure inotora nguva yevabereki. Semuenzaniso, mubereki angave achida kutema maawa mashoma kana kushandura nguva (kana yose) yebasa ravo nguva yekukurukura kuti vagare kumba nemwana wavo mutsva.
Iwe unongotarisirwa zviri pamutemo kuti udzorere chinzvimbo chekubhadhara, chikwereti, uye mukurumbira kune mushandi achidzoka kubva kuFML, asi vashandi vanogona kushanda zvakajeka kana zvimwe zvigadziridzo zvichiitwa.
Hasi makambani ose anogona kukwanisa kuchinja izvi, asi dzimwe nguva pokugara kunogona. Vamwe vabereki vanoda kuchinja chirongwa chebasa ravo mushure mekuberekwa uye vanogona kupedza basa kunze kwechirongwa chavo zvachose. Uye, usafungidzira kuti vabereki vega chete ndivo vachasarudza kusiya basa.
Maererano neNational At-Home Dad Network, "Inonyanya kuverengwa yekugara-kumba-vana inofungidzirwa kusvika pamamiriyoni 1.4 naDean Latshaw muna 2009. Nhamba iyoyo yakangowedzera yakawedzerwa kubva kune dzimwe nzvimbo kusvika kune 1.75 mamiriyoni. "
Funga Nevashandi Vanobatsirwa Kuchinja
Nezvinofadza zvose zvechecheche, vashandi vanogona kukanganwa kuti mutsva mutsva wemufaro zvakarewo mutsva unobva kune avo vanoda kuwedzera kuhutano hwehutano hwehutano . Yeuchidza vashandi vemazuva nemahwindo pavanokwanisa uye vanoda kuchinja mararamiro avo sarudzo.
Zvimwe zvikomborero zvinoshandiswa kufungisisa zvine chokuita nevashandi vanotora zororo. Panguva yekurega kubhadhara FMLA, vashandi havazokwanisi kutora chikwereti . Vachabhadhara sei mibayiro yavo yezvikwereti? (Nheyo, kana vari kushandisa FMLA nguva, kambani inofanirwa kupa ruzivo, saka ratidza nzira yavanogona kuita nayo mupiro wavo.)
Iwe unofanirwa kuita zvisarudzo pamusoro pezvimwe nyaya dzakawanda dzehutano kune yako mushandi webhuku uye kushandiswa.
- Sarudza kana vashandi vacharamba vachiwedzera nguva pavanenge vachienda. Kana vasingakwanisi kuwedzera, funga izvi paunenge uchiverenga nguva kana kuti shandura kwechipiri ichi munguva yekambani kubva pane software.
- Kana vashandi vasingadzokeri mushure mekuberekwa, mari nguva yekuzorora pamubhadharo wokupedzisira kana izvi zvichitaurirwa musangano rezororo rekambani.
- Tarisa purogiramu yezororo kuti uone kana vashandi vanogona kuwedzera nguva ipi neipi yezororo pavanenge vachienda kuvabereki kana FMLA nguva yava kutora.
Zvose izvi zvinofanirwa kuiswa munguva yako kubva pamitemo . Kana vasina, ewedzera kwavari kuitira kuti mushandi wega wega anotarisirwa zvakaenzana.
Iva nehanya
Dzimwe nguva, kuberekwa kwomwana hakusi chiitiko chinopemberera muupenyu hwevanhu. Kuzvitakura zvisina kurongwa kunoitika. Kwapera nguva refu kusapererwa kwemasimba uye kufa kwecheche zvinoparadza. Mushandi angasarudza kuisa mwana wavo kuti atorere kana kubvisa pamuviri. Enda kune imwe yemamiriro ezvinhu aya nekunzwisisa nekuremekedza .
Shanda pamwe nemushandi uye maneja wevashandi kuti achinje kugadzirisa kudzokera kumabasa. Uyewo, funga zvimwe mamiriro (semakumbo asina kukwana) mumutemo wekufa kwekambani .
Zviitiko zvehupenyu zvinorwadza zvakaoma kuvashandi asiwo zvakaoma kuvanhu vari kubasa vanovatarisira. Funga nezvese iyo kambani inogona kunetsa (uye yoga) kugadzirisa mamiriro ezvinhu izvi zvisati zvaitika.
Celebrate
Chinhu chiduku, chakanaka chinobva kune sangano chichayeuchidza vashandi kuti vane boka revashandi vanoridza navo kumashure pahofisi. Mira kwemazuva mashomanana mushure mekuberekwa kuti uone kuti zvinhu zvose zvakanaka, uye wotumira mamwe maruva, kadhi, kana onesie. Chimbofunga izvo mushandi iyeye achakoshesa (kana ivo vari voga, funga izvozvo), uye edza kuenzanidza chikamu.
Funga nezvePas-Baby Accommodations
Kune makambani akawanda, zvibereko zvevabereki hazvigumi apo mhuri inobva. Chimbofunga kuti vashandi vanogona kudii kana kuonga. IW Fair Labor Standards Act (FLSA) inoda kuti makambani ape vanaamai vanoyamwisa nenguva yekupedza uye pane imwe nzvimbo yega kubudisa mukaka wehadzi.
Kushanda nevabereki pasina musikana wekugara-kumba-vangave vachida kuchengetwa kwevana-izvo zvikamu zvakanyanya sebhajeti yemhuri yeAmerica. Paavhareji, mhuri dzeAmerica dzinoshandisa $ 9,589 pagore pakatarisira vana kusvika pa $ 28,353 kune mu-muchengeti wemusha.
Funga Zvimwe Zvipo Zvevashandi
Funga kuumba chimwe chimiro chekuchengetwa kwevana kubatsiri kune vashandi vanoita mari yekupa rubatsiro kana kutopa nzvimbo dzekuchengetedza vana kana kuswedera pedyo nekushanda. 83 kubva muzana yevashandi vane rubatsiro rwekuchengeta vana vanoti izvi zvinovabatsira kuderedza kushungurudzika nekuwedzera basa-hupenyu hwehutano .
Kana pane zvekuchengetwa kwevana, vashandi vachakoshesa rubatsiro uye chete muganhu uri mukuti iwe unogona sei kusvika kune zvinobatsira (uye izvo kambani inogona kuwana uye kugaramo).
Batsira vashandi vane runyararo-kwete kushungurudza-mhuri inobva pavanenge vachivimbisa bhizinesi rakanyatsochengetwa kutarisirwa zvose pavanenge vaenda uye pavanodzoka.
Tevedzera mitemo nekuisa mirayiridzo yekuita kuti hutungamiri uye kutarisirwa kwakanaka kune vashandi vose vanotora mhuri vende.
Kuchinja kukuru muhupenyu hwevashandi kunonakidza uye kuchinja kune munhu wose. Nekugadzirira zvishomanana, unogona kufamba nemashizha emhuri nekuzorora.